Why did Tu Lei suddenly "disappear"? Look at the things he did, you will understand

As the gold mentor of "Defense of Love", Tu Lei was once a smash hit.


However, in recent years, he has gradually disappeared from TV and started to be a cargo anchor.


In a live broadcast some time ago, Tu Lei sold durian live, not only didn't eat a bite, but he was very disgusted.



The assistants were eating durian hard, but he was pinching his nose and his face smelled worse than durian. After


, he also urged: "You guys hurry up and sell, it's too stinky!"


Faced with such an unprofessional Tu Lei, the netizen sarcastically said: "Durian is stinky," But money is fragrant!"



From being sought after to being criticized, Tu Lei’s career can be described as a decline in popularity.

br13 pbr Red anchor, what exactly did Tu Lei experience ?


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1977,Tu Lei was born in an ordinary family in Nanchang, Jiangxi. His father was a businessman and his business was booming. Therefore, Tu Lei dreamed of becoming a man like his father since he was a child.


Parents were very happy with the arrival of Tu Lei, but unfortunately, his mother was directly paralyzed because of rheumatoid disease.



Tu Lei has never seen his mother standing up since he remembered, and since then, the burden of the family has fallen on his father alone.


Because of his mother, Tu Lei has been very good at taking care of others since he was a child, and his academic performance has always been among the best. He has always been the pride of his parents.



Under such a learning environment, Tu Lei was successfully admitted to the Department of Computer Science of Nanjing Institute of Metallurgy. Although he was only a junior college, he was able to pass it in that era. rare.


In 1999, after graduating from university, Tu Lei successfully entered a bank to work. His meager income and depressive working atmosphere made him almost breathless.



And holding the "iron rice bowl" like this, the life of the head can be seen at a glance, which made Tu Lei feel very frightened.


At this time, he remembered his childhood dream. He originally wanted to be a businessman. This kind of risky work was what Tu Lei wanted.


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So,Just after the internship period, Tu Lei resolutely quit his job and switched to a sales job.


Tu Lei, born in a family of merchants, has a very flexible mind and good eloquence. With his own advantages, he is well-known in the sales position.



In less than a year, he achieved the position of general manager from sales.


Not long after graduating from university, he was able to achieve such an achievement. Tu Lei was a little frustrated. At this time, he was no longer willing to work for others, but thought about his own business.


In 2000, Tu Lei started his own company and sold touch screens. The sales of the products were extremely prosperous. It didn't take long for him to make a lot of money, even holding 500,000 cash in his hand.



In that era, it was amazing to have 500,000 yuan in his hand, but Tu Lei's ambition was far more than that.


It is precisely this kind of quick success that made him suffer a severe beating from society for the first time.


That year, Tu Lei took his 500,000 yuan and wanted to start a company with a friend, but when he was still dreaming of making money, the so-called friend had no news.



Tu Lei, who realized that he was deceived, took a knife and talked with the liar in desperation, but was stopped by a policeman on the way, which prevented a tragedy from happening. .


His family was ruined overnight, Tu Lei's life fell into a trough, he didn't know where the future was, but he still wanted to take a gamble.



So he went and bought a map back, took a coin, and casually tossed it on the map. In the end, the coin fell in Hunan and he immediately bought a ticket. , Got on the train to Hunan.


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The 27-year-old Tu Lei was filled with confusion. He took the only 1,000 yuan left on him to the strange city of Changsha.


No contacts, no direction, few job opportunities, Tu Lei's life is very sad.


At the hardest time, he struggled to survive on instant noodles and steamed buns for a few cents.



And when he was confused, a radio station job advertisement caught his attention.


Tu Lei, who has no experience in hosting, knows that the chance is slim, but at this time he has nothing to lose, so he still signed up for the competition.


At that time, the competition was very fierce. Among the many contestants, there were also young talents with professional backgrounds.


But fortunately, Tu Lei still stood out from 400 people and became a Changsha radio station. Anchor.



Since then,Tu Lei became the host of the "Lushan Night Talks" section of Changsha Broadcasting Station. Although he only has 400 yuan a month's salary, his life has finally improved.


And Tu Lei is also in this job, regaining his original confidence.


The first issue of "Lushan Night Talk" has a very high listening rate. His sharp words and merciless scolding of helpers made the audience listen well.



At this time, Tu Lei has his own fans, and he has become a hot radio anchor, and other program groups have also invited him to participate in the recording. The career is thriving.


Tu Lei's "poisonous tongue" also caused a lot of trouble for him. At that time, some people even took a knife and chased to the door of the TV station. Fortunately, Tu Lei had quick eyes and quickly got into the car and escaped. .



There is a saying that "there is a lot of popularity". Soon after, his program was stopped. The leader gave the reason for improper rhetoric, but what is the truth? But I don't know.



The radio program was stopped, but life has to continue, so Tu Lei started to work in front of the stage from behind the scenes. It was at this time that met himself. Love.


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Tu Lei’s wife has always been mysterious.The only thing she knows is that her nickname is Xiaowanzi.


When Xiaowanzi was still in college, he met Tu Lei during a program recording. At that time, Tu Lei was still very poor. He took a salary of 400 yuan a month and asked him to treat Xiaowanzi. Discouraged.



But the two people who liked each other were still chatting in text messages, and after a long time, it was Xiaowanzi who held Tu Lei's hand first.


Facing Xiao Maruko's initiative, Tu Lei never flinched anymore, so he fell in love with this girl 9 years younger than his .



In the first few years when we were together, Tu Lei was so poor that he was reimbursed by Xiaowanzi for his alcohol and tobacco expenses, and when they got married, naturally they didn’t. Wedding diamond ring, house car.


In order to change the status quo, Tu Lei participated in the recording of multiple programs, such as "Survey of the Fangyuan" and "Not To Be Fast", etc., but the final program became popular, but Tu Lei did not impress people.



So, he moved his sharp side to the screen as he did.


In 2010, when Tu Lei was participating in the program "Squaw Popcorn", openly bombarded Han Han is a mad dog , and said that he is an intermittent mentally ill patient.Go crazy anytime.



At that time, Han Han had published many novels, and was named by " Times Weekly" as one of the top 100 strong 38 strong influencers in the world. A well-known figure at home and abroad.



These words of Tu Lei undoubtedly angered Han Han’s fans, and even the host can’t stand it. He said: "These words will be used by others. On you."



But after the controversy, Tu Lei was "slammed into fame" and gained a lot of popularity, and then he took over from 10 and became Zhong Shan. Host of , the news review program "30:30".



With popularity, he naturally has wealth. At that time, Tu Lei's annual salary has reached 500,000, which can be described as a true spring breeze.


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Since then, Tu Lei finally has his own place in the TV circle, and similar show invitations,They also came to the door one after another.


In 2013, Tu Lei became an observer of Tianjin Satellite TV's job-seeking program " ".



At that time, Tu Lei was able to solve the problem peacefully, and what he said was also taken care of, which undoubtedly pointed the direction for many confused young people.


With the popularity of the show, Tu Lei's fame and prestige are also increasing day by day.



In 2014, the emotional mediation program "The Defense of Love" was broadcast. This time Tu Lei became a love mentor and gave full play to his advantages.


Tu Lei, who frequently appeared in golden sentences, has also become everyone's idol and has gained a large number of fans.



This year, Tu Lei succeeded in succeeding Huang Jianxiang and became the host of "It's Not You" and successfully walked from the stage to the stage.


Participated in the recording of two popular columns one after another. Tu Lei became a topical figure of the year, and as his reputation continued to rise, he became more and more swelling, from a life mentor to an Internet sprayer.



In the "Defensive of Love", he would anger the guests from time to time, as if his words were the truth.No objection is allowed.


And he also brought this style to the stage of "It's You".



For example, once there was a job applicant who dropped out of Peking University , after he came to the site to apply for the job experience. Disdain, saying that you have no motivation to find a job.



However, when the applicant’s opinions and the guest had a disagreement, he instead fanned the flames, and was angry that the other party was a “recruiter” .



Finally, the job applicant had no choice but to leave the field. Later, when he commented on Tu Lei, he said:


, "If you are strong 38, he has no strong chest. Keep silent to you, if you are mediocre, he will definitely mock you.”



When Tu Lei was hired by a 50-year-old uncle, he said that the other party did not know himself. Finally, under the attack of everyone, the uncle took off the headset and left the scene by himself.



Tu Lei at this time,Standing on the commanding heights of life, he has forgotten the sufferings of the world, regarded himself as a saint, and despised those mediocre characters.



Some controversies on the Internet did not affect him. On the contrary, his program became more and more prosperous. can stand higher, but does not know how to converge. The worse it will fall.


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In 2019, when Tu Lei was on a plane, he was recognized by netizens, and when he returned to his seat, he casually kicked his legs in the cabin On the wall, people feel extremely uncomfortable.


Netizens were shocked when they met, so he filmed the scene and posted it online.



No one would have thought that Tu Lei, who was upright on stage, was so unqualified in the audience, which made many people begin to question his character.


Those who have long been uncomfortable with Tu Lei even took advantage of the topic and took advantage of this opportunity to scold Tu Lei fiercely.


Facing such a situation, Tu Lei was very open, not only confessing the mistake, but also explaining it.



It turned out that as a host, he often stood for several hours at a time, causing varicose veins in the legs, so he could only raise his legs to promote blood circulation.This is not intentional.


After some explanations, some netizens also understood a lot about it. They thought it was going to be like this. But what I didn't expect is that Liu Yuanyuan , who is a colleague, can't stand it anymore.



Just after Tu Lei posted a clarification post, Liu Yuanyuan over there scolded her. She wrote in the text: "What is your apology? Well, I think your feet are going to go to heaven."



Speaking of this Liu Yuanyuan, he is also a well-known host of Beijing TV, once used "Speaking of Yuanyuan", "Seventh" and other programs are well-known in Beijing TV.



After Tu Lei's accident, he was angry with his colleagues. It can also be seen that his popularity among his colleagues is not very good.


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After this incident, Tu Lei's popularity among the passers-by was not as good as before. Although he survived the storm with silence, such unqualified behavior will eventually give him a reputation. Had an impact.


Seeing that the popularity is not as good as before, and TV shows are no longer popular, so Tu Lei finally opted out of the program recording of "Defensive of Love".



2020,Tu Lei expressed his withdrawal from the stage in the public development of the social platform. Since then, the golden age belonging to Tu Lei is over.


After losing his presiding job, he also had more time to spend time with his family, which is not nothing.



People always say that Tu Lei spoke sharply, but maybe what he showed us is just the tip of the iceberg.


What's more, the authenticity of the "Defense of Love" program is still open to question. Those commendable phrases may also be scripts prepared in advance.



For example, once claimed that he was the first love with his girlfriend in the "Defensive of Love". It didn't take long for him to become Zhang Wei in " If You Are the One " with three relationships.



From "slag man" to "warm man", the same face, different identities, is simply surprising. Later, more netizens picked it up, in the "War of Love" The guests also have repetitions.



So Tu Lei is more than just a "poisonous tongue", it can match the script so realistically, and his acting skills are also very good.


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Today’s Tu Lei,He has already switched careers and started live broadcasting. It is said that he can earn 30,000 yuan in a two-hour live broadcast, which is much easier than making money as a host.



After switching to the short video platform, Tu Lei's fans have soared all the way, and so far, his fans have approached 50 million.


And he usually sends out life insights casually, he has tens of thousands of broadcasts, and the income is naturally very considerable.


As money continued to flow into his pockets, Tu Lei became more and more profitable. The live broadcasts made him easy to earn money, but he also lost his original intention.



For example, when he sells goods, he will be disrespectful of the product. He can also recommend the three-no olive oil without any certification.


After this series of operations, his reputation is hard to recover after all.



Tu Lei once said: "Except for money is pro, everything else is poor."

, suffered


Perhaps in his heart, money is indeed very important, but it is a pity that no amount of money can buy a conscience.


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Tu Lei is now 44 years old,Looking back at the first half of his life, it is also wonderful.


Brilliant, fallen, deceived, and abused. He failed again and again, but he proved himself again and again.



Some people say that he is sharp and transparent. Others say that he is too hostile. He is only profitable, and Tu Lei, who is half-hearted, did not live in the end. Want to look like.


But fortunately, he has a good wife, who shares joys and sorrows in times of poverty and bears the burden of storms in times of glory.



Compared with those celebrities who abandon their wives, Tu Lei loves more firmly. He who is usually on the stage and is gentle to his wife in life. outrageous.


After leaving the stage, he finally had time to accompany his wife and children, fulfilling the original five-year agreement with his wife.



The ancients always said that blessings and misfortunes depend on each other. Such a result may not be another kind of consummation for Tu Lei.

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