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In the ", let's fall in love " variety show, Zhang Jike, as an observer, didn't need to express too many opinions.
However, when faced with many problems, Zhang Jike's words really made people realize that he is not what people call the "straight man of steel",
because, His heart is too thin. For the other half's care, for the girl's care, in fact, he does not lack at all, he just hasn't met the right person yet.
1. Everyone is gentle
When Zhang Jike saw boys asking girls to drink water, he directly said: "Should you not choose warm water at this time? Why do you want to ask?
When talking about face issues, Zhang Jike said: “You will have machismo if you want face, and face is the least valuable thing.”
Yi Nengjing said: “I think you are also a great machismo. People? "Zhang Jike was silent and didn’t answer. He just said: "I think someone has to put down their body." In the workplace, from his impression, he always seems to be cold and cold.
But in fact, Zhang Jike knows everything. Although he always gives people a feeling that strangers do not enter, because he is also an ordinary gentle and introverted boy.
Zhang Jike just hasn't met a girl he wants to treat her wholeheartedly, he just needs a girl who is full of himself.
Every boy is actually the same. The key is that he has to meet the right person to know what love is like and what is the best girl for him.
2. In this world, there is no straight man with steel.
When a friend was in love, he always complained about how sloppy his boyfriend was and how he could not take care of himself.
However, it was later discovered that in the eyes of his boyfriend's colleagues, he was actually a warm male colleague who could not be better, and he also received a lot of attention from colleagues of the opposite sex.
Why does he always have two attitudes towards his girlfriend and colleagues? Quite simply, the reason why he chose friends at the beginning was because the girl confessed.
In the impression of this boy, he just chose a girlfriend who doesn't need too much energy, and he is free to do whatever he wants.
Therefore, he is used to giving tenderness to those friends and colleagues, not his girlfriend. Because, from start to finish, he never cared about his friends.
In fact, not only him, but many people around him are also facing this problem. When he is a tiger, someone will say: "Isn't that a straight steel man? Do you just be considerate of the other person?"
Is there really anyone in this world who can’t fall in love? In fact, there is no, even if there is, he will learn to fall in love for the one he loves.
Because he likes you, his eyes are on you, he will care about your every move, what you say and do, and how can such a person be the legendary "steel straight man"?
3. People who don’t love you will never love you
When you think why I have given so much, but the other party has no response,Think about it carefully, is the person you love really in love?
I once read a story about an old couple who have gone hand in hand for fifty years, but in such a long time, grandpa's vision for grandma has never shifted.
When he was young, grandpa also had many admirers and received various gifts. However, he likes grandma alone, and this love lasts for fifty years.
Others asked grandpa, there is a better choice, why do you have to choose grandma? Grandpa said with a little embarrassment, I think she can live with me forever.
Indeed, grandpa’s vision is correct. For dozens of years, the people around him have stopped and walked around. The only ones left for the last are grandma. one person.
Therefore, grandpa wants to treat grandma doubly. Because this woman worked half of her life for herself, she deserves her unique love.
I love this. Sometimes I really don’t need to say much. Just look at the eyes of the person next to you, because the eyes that love you really cannot be disguised.
Whether a person loves you or not, never listens to what he says, but sees what he does, especially those small details, which best reflect people's psychological thoughts.
4. Love the person who is worthy of your love
We can learn the knowledge we don't understand through books. However, no matter how hard you work, it's useless for someone who doesn't love you.
The person you should meet is not a so-called straight man or girl, but someone who is willing to accompany you sincerely.
You have to know that what you deserve is not a better love, but the love that only suits you.
and above,I wish you a good dream and good night.
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