Why should Qiao Renliang's parents bear such vicious attacks and abuse?

Kimi's death day, Qiao's father and Qiao's mother went to the cemetery to visit his son. They saw that the son's grave was filled with pink bouquets and paper cranes sent by fans. They photographed them and shared them on the Internet.

This is good,But it poke the keyboard man’s lung tube, making them angry enough.

Someone asked Qiao's father and Qiao's mother Why do you want to make a video?

If someone asks them to call them sons, why do you want to name Qiao Renliang?

Some people even say that Qiao's father and Qiao's mother are in using his deceased son to market themselves ? ? ?

They blamed Qiao's father and Qiao's mother, saying that was given to 3span by the husband and wife _strong when they lost their son, Qiao Renliang _strong _strong.

said she long She looks like a witch , she didn’t dare to see her face at all. So her son is gone .

They also said that Joe’s father’s mouth is crooked , and the following comments are talking about conspiracy theories that are unprovoked.

Imagine if these people walked on the street, they would directly say "You look scary, like a witch" to a person who does not look so in line with the mainstream aesthetic?

No, because they owe and confuse, they just hide behind the screen and type on the keyboard.

Qiao's dad and Qiao's mom can of course see these messages. Every time they skip these vicious words and reply to those who support her.

They even explain the reasons for the crooked mouth and the long face, one is caused by a medical accident and the other is caused by illness.

But thinking about it in another way, if the people around you are slandered by words, when you get these messages, do you want to rush into the screen and argue with them?

Under the identity of "Qiao Renliang's parents", they are just a pair of ordinary parents who have lost their children.

These moral guards will not stop here. They want to control the world and want to rule the Internet.

Mom mourns her son,The moral defender wants to ask: What contribution has he made to society?

Mom Qiao will be a Boston lobster, the moral guard will say: better do something and let it go!

This is how many relics of a higher teacher have been swallowed to have such a noble character in this life! ! !

Despite the infinite malice in this world, Qiao Renliang’s parents returned the greatest kindness.

Qiao Renliang left during the Mid-Autumn Festival, but every Mid-Autumn Festival, Qiao's father and Qiao's mother never forget to wish everyone a family reunion, even if their family of three can never be reunited again.

Some people say that Qiao's looks are scary, and Auntie will even feel sorry for it: "Because I look like this, I can't help it. I didn't intend to scare you, Auntie expresses sorry."

After many people made bad comments for Qiao's father and Qiao's mother, the aunt even gave everyone a compliment.

Those people who can only vent crazy by typing on the keyboard,It must be terrible in reality, right?

Just like the blogger Liu Yuanyuan said, if you can’t provide warm comfort and kind encouragement, then shutting up is also kind.

It seems that after five years of adjustment, Qiao Renliang's parents have completed self-reconstruction after the painful pain. They have found a new direction in life and have new joys in life.

In fact, the pain of losing a child is a shadow that cannot be walked out in a lifetime.

Not long ago, "People" interviewed Qiao Renliang's parents. After learning that Qiao Renliang was suffering from severe depression, Qiao's mother often fell into self-blame—"I hate it myself, why didn't I notice it at all?"

clearly this is Qiao's The pain in my heart, but there are some people who will accurately stabbing, as if they are a prophet who can see everything, standing on the moral high ground to accuse a mother who is extremely self-blaming.

After being kidnapped by morality and attacked for looks, Qiao's father and Qiao's mother were even scared to go out.

But what makes them more sad than the malicious slander of strangers is still the weak miss of their son.

Although they have worked very hard in their lives, they miss their son in every fragment of free time.

After her son left, Qiao's mother said the most common sentence is: "If the son is here, it will be fine."

She only dreamed of seeing her son once, for a short time, she didn't even have time to "hugg".

Although Dad Qiao doesn't say anything, he will go to KTV alone late at night and sing all his son's songs.

Whether it is the story of Qiao Renliang when he was a child, or what happened on the night of September 16, 2016, Qiao's parents still remember them clearly.

But they also force themselves to no longer remember, for fear of being stuck in the memory and unable to come out. Although I can’t empathize with the emotion of tears when I look at my son’s photos, I know how painful it is.

As a seaman, Dad Qiao has been drifting around the world at sea since he was a child. Qiao Renliang and Qiao’s mom spend much more time together. They get along like friends. Qiao Renliang is the spirit of a mother. pillar.

mother is also Qiao Renliang’s spiritual pillar. During the days when he was seriously ill, it seemed that only by listening to his mother telling those small and ordinary things could he gain a moment of peace.

For passers-by who learned about him from the news,Or the fans who grew up with him all the way, the pain of "Qiao Renliang leaving" will gradually fade over time, and on a certain date, he will still be thought of.

But for parents, they live in pain forever. It is a living family, a child they have exhausted their efforts to raise.

In the "People" interview, this section allows us to feel firsthand what kind of emotion is the connection between parents and children-Dad Qiao came out holding his son's ashes, he suddenly thought of his son 29 years ago It’s also a little one, “It’s so hard to grow so big, and now I’m back in such a small box.”

The baby the size of a thermos has grown up, left, and returned. In the small box, how about his parents who hugged him tightly from birth to leaving? How to spend the remaining long and lonely years?

"Send You A Little Red Flower" has a dialogue like this:

"Mom used to be very timid, was afraid of the dark , afraid of bugs... After giving birth to you, I will not be afraid of it. No. It’s not... After giving birth to you, I am afraid more. I am afraid that you will be ill, afraid that you will be bullied, afraid that you will not learn well..."

"Then what are you most afraid of now?"

"Afraid of losing You chant."

someone will always forget him, but my mother will always remember him.

facing two parents who lost their children,Is it hard to be the most basic kind?