No one asks the hero's bones, and the family knows all about the actors: Who is indulging those bad actors?

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"Zheng Shuang before, and Tian Yu" The showbiz in 2021 is a place where accidents happen frequently, and one after another bad celebrities send themselves into jail. People who didn’t know thought it was because our prison rice was too fragrant, so it attracted countless people.

It’s just that the ugly family affairs of a certain star in the entertainment circle happened to be revealed. Overnight, the Internet will surely turn upside down. The streets and alleys are talking about the star’s character and predicting his final outcome.

and not many people are willing to discuss the development of our country’s national defense, to discuss those martyrs who sacrificed their lives for the country, a celebrity’s family ugliness can set off a storm in the city, it is precisely in response to the phrase "heroes are dead bones, no one asks about the family affairs of actors. ".

I don’t know when everyone has become a spy on other people’s lives, especially some of the more famous celebrities who always attract attention. They can be searched hot for a meal or shopping.

We are keen to discuss the words and deeds of celebrities. Just like the movie ": Truman's World", the lives of celebrities are infinitely magnified, and everyone stays in front of the TV and watches Today's live broadcast, it is this kind of over-attention that also indulges inferior artists' unscrupulous acts of harming others and self-interest.

Few people are caring about ordinary people who truly contribute to the country. Why do they cause such absurd phenomena? All are related to people's psychology. Why do people always like to ask actor family affairs? It's nothing more than these mentalities:

First of all,Most Chinese people have a psychology of watching the excitement. For those artists who are far from themselves and have infinite scenery, ordinary people prefer to watch their daily lives. Perhaps most of them think about how stars will fall into the altar?

This is human nature. The higher a person is, the more someone wants to see him falling from the altar. Human nature is jealous. Not many people would hope that others will live better than themselves, even if they are not. The star you are with is also the target of jealousy.

In addition, the sky-high remuneration of celebrities is not equal to their contribution to society. Therefore, this point has also caused the dissatisfaction of countless people. When a big brand is exposed to a scandal, people Just like beating a dog in the water, he followed countless Internet troops to curse him, for fear that he was not swearing enough and missed the opportunity.

Under the combined effect of the lively watching mentality and the dissatisfaction mentality, People are spontaneously highly aware of the disturbances of the artists, so the possibility of a celebrity doing a small thing on a hot search is obviously greater than those A person who contributes to the country in obscurity.

And your attention to him is a kind of traffic, and after realizing it, it is also a high income. For artists who rely on attention to increase their status, of course, they will find ways to increase their appearance rate. More people pay attention to him.

team's operation and media guidance has made countless netizens unknowingly become a member of the family who are extremely interested in the actor's family affairs. Under the influence of the group, it becomes a mob.

is different from the actors who live by attention, countless heroes don’t care about others’ attention and gratitude to them.They do not ask for anything in return, but only ask for a clear conscience. This kind of concession also has a higher rate of appearance on the Internet. However, the unknown heroes do not want to leave their names, nor can more people be able to notice them.

Secondly, any hot search is not a celebrity team that can cover the sky with one hand. There are also some bad media inducing public opinion. The overwhelming media are vying to report the celebrities who have gone wrong, and the news of him has already been screened by turning on the phone.

And those selfish media with ulterior motives, are only catering to the tastes of the public. In essence, they are not the root cause of this phenomenon. They can only promote the spread of news and the coverage of news. Rate.

Most of the time the favorite culture of the public is not the sunshine and snow, but the chin Liba people, people who are close to life, the easy-to-understand culture, when browsing information, it is mostly to satisfy their entertainment psychology, and It's not self-improvement.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with this. Discussing the family affairs of the actors is also a way to relax the mood, but the excessive attention to the family affairs of the actors has made the society a little bit sad. There are no innocent people in this age of entertainment to death.

Those who truly contribute to the motherland and the people don’t want to be paid a share, but they end up in a state where no one knows. And those celebrities who pay sky-high rewards have been paid attention to by countless people.

So, what is really scarce for us?

Shouldn’t the progress of the times be the progress of the human spirit? When you watch the actor’s life and are on the hot search every time,Would you sigh, where is the hero?

This is a weird phenomenon of the times. The existence of the Internet has magnified the desires of countless people, and also magnified human nature, magnified the jealousy and the desire for voyeurism in human nature, and made countless people become vassals of vulgar entertainment.

Who is indulging inferior entertainers and stars with sky-high rewards? There are a few people who are really willing to give back to the society without hesitating, and it is understandable that they are selfish on their own. When it comes to remuneration, there is no obligation to drink water and think about the source.

It’s just that some artists have never been drinking water and thinking about their origins. They are still using their identities to do harm to others and themselves. Even in the face of ironclad evidence, there are still countless fans who are still defending their idols. This is sad, too detestable.

At a time when compulsory education is so popular, there are still countless young people who don't know right from wrong and don't know right from wrong, and this phenomenon of retrogression in civilization is what we should reflect on.

As an ordinary citizen, it is natural that he cannot stand on the front line of the times to carry the backbone of building the motherland. So what else we can do and give back to the society is every trivial distinction between right and wrong and rationality.

Any collective and social progress needs to be based on ideas, when everyone can rationally and dialectically view celebrities, then this is a sign of progress.

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Author | Tang Mida

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