Goodbye to my lover, this variety show, I will cry and laugh later, I think it’s really a good show

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I really feel that I am chasing this variety show, I will cry and laugh later, I think it is a very good show, and I will reflect on the problems or advantages of the guests. Or take the initiative to learn.

octopus cp this situation is really special.

Everyone else is in love, married, or divorced. They are married, divorced, a bit like love. When I watched the first issue of
, I felt that the rest was a battle. Before I painted the portrait in the last issue, I couldn't imagine how the two completely different living habits would make them so familiar and understanding with each other. If that portrait is a real arrangement and not a script, it would be really wonderful.
The reason for the two of them, I guess, is because they have different understandings of love. Guo Keyu thinks that the relationship between them is different from the love she understands, so she mistakenly believes that there is no love between them. And Zhang He is not to be outdone. He also thinks that there is no love between him and Guo Keyu, so he cuts in. As a result, they fell into a logical vicious circle. Both felt that the other did not like themselves and did not love each other.

Mr. Guo actually said very well. Divorce is not necessarily a bad thing. Often when two people are in the game, the authorities are confused. After their divorce, they had a different experience during this trip, and they communicated more, and they found that they had a kind of inexplicable understanding and familiarity with each other. In fact, the problem is that there is still too little communication.

Think about it from another angle. Octopus and their marriage have been together for ten years, and it cannot be changed simply by a few days of travel.In the first issue of Zhang He, he said that "this woman" hadn't written a song for him. (Guo Ke is the lead singer of the band) may have hatred in his heart with this title. He came to the show to see why their marriage became like this. . Teacher Guo Keyu’s performance in the next few episodes was really too sweet. Zhang He’s wish to come to this show was to take pictures. There was a family photo on the tree. This series of actions, especially after Zhang He shouted, moved Teacher Guo.

I have seen many people say that Guo Keyu has suffered a great injury. But I feel that Zhang He was seriously injured, and even those injuries could not be relieved. Even if Guo Keyu wanted to remarry later, he would not necessarily want to remarry. The reason why Guo Keyu divorced him is simple. He feels that they are not in love. But he obviously loved it. And Guo Keyu is indeed a very gentle and intellectual person, but she is such a soft person, who often puts things in Zhang He's heart when she speaks, so she is really a very contradictory person.

And her work and rest, she went to bed at seven o'clock in the evening, let alone Zhang He can't get into her world, how many people can integrate into her world. She didn't even set aside time for them to get along at all. But through the journey of those few days, she began to discover some shining points of Zhang He. Began to interact with Zhang He intimately. Zhang He does care about him, but he always feels a sense of distance. I don’t know if he actually has new feelings as some people have guessed. He participated in the show to increase exposure, or the trauma is too great, or This is basically the script of Mango Channel. Alas, but I really don't want all of this to be a script. I really want them to open their knots and remarry.
In fact, marriage is mutual. When you feel that the other party has given you a little, you must respond in time so that the relationship can last longer. In fact, octopuses are in this way of getting along with each other. Even if it is a knife, they are both you and me, and the knife sees blood.

Lao Wang didn’t give Zhu Yaqiong what he wanted

, it might be too flat to change the flower on the cliff to Wang Qiuyu. Compared with a special ceremony, the love is as strong, but this is not what Zhu wants. The same is true for Zhu Ju's example—the study hug for one minute. This is already Lao Wang's breakthrough in his own fixed rules. It is also his concession. However, for Zhu, this minute has become painful.

Zhu Yaqiong actually wants a reason. But Lao Wang directly destroyed the emotional foundation of Yaqiong's heart for more than ten years. This led to Zhu Yaqiong directly wondering whether Lao Wang had liked her in the past ten years? Because what loves her being with her for more than ten years?
Many people oppose romance and maturity. I feel that Zhu Yaqiong's innocent romance is only preserved under the protection of Lao Wang. I don't think this is true, because one thing is overlooked. People are complex and multi-faceted. A mature person knows how to distinguish between work and life. She can be mature and stable at work, or innocent and romantic in life, depending on who she is facing. For details, please refer to Zhang He.

The problem with Wang and Zhu is that they are not in the same channel at all. When Pharaoh was young, it seemed to be more literary. I think this is the reason why Zhu Yaqiong liked Pharaoh in the first place. But Lao Wang has changed, becoming what he imagined to be "mature". And I have always wanted Zhu Yaqiong to become "mature".
Pharaoh, I guess I really only have family responsibilities for Zhu Yaqiong, not love. His so-called change, in my opinion, is too arrogant, and he did not realize what the core is.

may actually be because we are too young. Lao Wang is a family model that is very common in the two generations in the countryside. They haven't had much love, they are blind dates when they reach their age, and they get married when they are almost suitable. They need family members, not lovers. I guess Lao Wang should have grown up in this kind of family, which led to this kind of values. With this logic, you will understand when you look back, why Lao Wang obviously wants to recover, but he always pushes each other farther and farther. Because he grew up in the environment where there is no love of love, but only the love of relatives. He feels that he can be reconciled as before by staying with him. This is because of his lack of handling of emotional life, and he is also paranoid that he does not need to deal with emotions and feels "immature".
As for his opposition to weddings, he has said that he does not want to waste time on things that do not make sense. This should be enough to answer.

Lao Wang is a screenwriter, and the work of screenwriter is still very stressful. You need to plan how many words you write in a day. It is very annoying for him to waste a few minutes. His professional attributes brought him, my friend is an online novel. As long as she starts to update the article, I basically lose contact with her. She basically does not go out. I eat and sleep codewords. Sometimes I chat with her on WeChat. After the sentence, she asked for codewords, so I understand Lao Wang's anxiety about work better. Yaqiong is more casual and casual, she is the kind I want to play and I just go shopping.When my interest comes, I will sing, and when the atmosphere is there, I will dance. She has a little girl's randomness. Their problem is that Yaqiong can't understand Lao Wang's anxiety about work. Lao Wang also couldn't give Yaqiong as a concession because of the rules, so this was the reason for their awkwardness. But when they get along, Lao Wang does accompany him, but what Yaqiong wants is I want you to play with me, and Lao Wang’s accompaniment is watching me. So this is the reason why I don’t understand Yaqiong. Of course, Lao Wang’s company is more perfunctory. "Do whatever you want", but to attract Lao Wang's attention, hoping to get a positive feedback, but I haven't been able to get it. Just as if you are not connected to the Internet, the computer keeps sending data packets to Ping, but the Ping is not working. If Lao Wang gave a positive feedback and accepted her emotions softly, Yaqiong would not "act" like this.

It’s too difficult to get Lao Wang’s positive feedback. I really don’t feel that he cares about Yaqiong because he likes it. He always gave me my dad to take the kid out to play, but he always complained that the kid didn't make him worry too much. And I said some hurtful things, and I felt that the child was too real.

Let me give you an example. You racked your brains every day to write a script in your study, and the hair on your head made you bald, and a little girl ran over to sing. I will ask you to accompany her for a walk, a few times a day. . . Your response is likely to be, don't bother me, let me be alone, you sing badly. Then the little girl sings in revenge style every day to help her sense of existence. If the reply is that you sing so nicely and really want to hear you sing, the result will be more than a dozen times a day.

If so,Shouldn't two people discuss time allocation? For example, how long does it take to write a script and how long to spend with his lover. If he has no time with his lover at all, the other half will be more crazy looking for a sense of existence.

I feel that Pharaoh is a bit perverted. He knows how to make Zhu Yaqiong uncomfortable, he still does it deliberately, it can control a person's emotions, and feel that he enjoys this kind of pleasure. Dad is going out for fear that you might fall. He won't let you wear a short skirt for fear of catching a cold. He controls you because he really has love, and Lao Wang just wants to see Zhu uncomfortable, but he can't see that he loves Zhu.
I don't know if he took this as his creative inspiration.

She did not ask the other two sisters willfully, indicating that she knows her well.
I forgot who said that if Lao Wang is in some small interactions such as hugging, he understands Yaqiong better and gives him positive feedback in time, maybe Yaqiong will not force Lao Wang to follow She interacts and gains attention.
Whether her "extraordinary behavior" is due to her character, is it to stimulate Pharaoh's feedback, or both. All these need to be considered, and Lao Wang also needs to realize that there is no hope.
We actually know very little about these episodes, and we will be one-sided. So we still have to look at the next few issues.

Among the three girls,Both Guo and Tong are independent, rational and self-conscious girls. Zhu is more childish, and her thoughts and behaviors are always in an awkward state. And she is a bit stiff, but there are some things that she obviously cares about pretending to be indifferent to her mouth, and she will be sad to get the result that is not what she wants. I think she has been entangled with Lao Wang for too long, and she can't get it from Lao Wang, so she always tries her best to ask for it, wants to verify that Lao Wang will give it to her, and she has been entangled with Lao Wang since she was young, and she has a lot of love. The thoughts here are all influenced by Lao Wang. She is innocent and free, but not free and easy, and she has been influenced by the other party for too long. I hope she will leave Lao Wang and don’t look back. Being stuck in a relationship for too long is really a drag!

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