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These days, cyber violence has become a hot topic.
There is a saying circulating on the Internet: When there is an avalanche, no snowflake is innocent. True, it wasn't the last straw that broke the camel's back, but all the straws.
In the entertainment industry, almost every star has suffered more or less cyber violence.
Zhu Dan is also one of them. She has been a sunny and atmospheric host image along the way, but she has been controversial after marriage. The most controversial is her marriage with Yiwei Yiwei. Every time Zhu Dan shows his affection, he will be ridiculed by the group.
Netizens said that Zhu Dan loved humblely, and Zhu Dan responded that giving is not humble. Zhou Yiwei treated her coldly and violently, and Zhu Dan said that he liked it very much. No matter how Zhu Dan responded, Zhou Yiwei was always silent.
It's easy to make people fantasize about it. In the eyes of many people, the love that Zhu Dan thinks is just self-deception.
For a time, Zhu Dan's image was also impacted, from a host to a humble wife. Netizens are even more reluctant to let her go, and all kinds of vicious words come at their fingertips.
Zhu Dan posted some bad comments on Weibo .
A large part of them are cursing her and Zhou Yiwei for their divorce, and some people say they have already divorced.
Across the screen, you can feel full of maliciousness.
When Zhu Dan saw such discourse , he didn't know what kind of mood he felt. She once said on the show that she was often stinged by these words.
Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei are married for the second time. The female is big and the male is small. The female is strong and the male is weak. In addition, Zhou Yiwei's many speeches show that this man is not so good to Zhu Dan.How far can
go to a marriage that is not favored by and ?
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In fact, life is yours, outsiders are not optimistic about marriage is nothing more than a mismatch in secular , for example, the woman is older, the man career is not good, or the gap between the two parties is large, one party has a history of black .
Everyone will grow up, and everyone has many faces. What you see is not good, and it may not be bad in marriage.
For women, no matter whether a man is rich or has a strong background, what he wants after all is someone who can feel sorry for himself.
When my mother married my father, my mother's whole family was against it, because my father's family was poor and my grandfather didn't care. My mother is the youngest in the family, and marrying my father made it clear that she would endure hardship.
Indeed, over the years, my mother suffered a lot, and it was heartbreaking to train our three children. But now, my mother's family has begun to envy my mother, and I'm glad I didn't stop my mother from marrying my father.
Although our family is not rich, my father is a very diligent person who takes care of the family. My father is responsible for all the trivial matters at home.
After so many years, my mother can't even cook delicious food, because every time a guest comes to cook a big meal, my father cooks it.
In our small place, machismo is prevalent, many family men don't care, some even ask their wives to prepare the bath water, but my father never did this to my mother.
Now both of them are getting old. My dad treats my mom like a child. I go to the street to buy food for her. If I don’t buy new clothes for the New Year, I also buy them for my mom.
Those who opposed it in those days now have a cold relationship between husband and wife, and some have a chaotic relationship at home.From the experience of my parents, Yu girl learned one thing, life is very long, until the end, you don't know who can truly be happy.
Marriage matters, it is more about listening to your heart. It doesn't matter how outsiders see it, but whether the person around you is worth your effort.
Those marriages that are not favored will have a bad life later, but they have not chosen the right person.
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In the entertainment circle, there are many marriages that are not optimistic, such as Gao Yuanyuan and Zhao Youting. The two fell in love because of the movie " search for ".
At that time, Gao Yuanyuan was a hot first-line star, and Zhao Youting was still an unknown actor. In addition to the difference in fame, there is also an age gap. Zhao Youting is 5 years younger than Gao Yuanyuan.
Eight years ago, the love between sisters and brothers was not as easy to be accepted as it is now, and everyone was singing bad about this relationship. Unexpectedly, they fell in love lightly and finally got married and gave birth to a child this year.
After they got married, Gao Yuanyuan also suspended her career and began to enjoy married life. Zhao Youting's career has also gradually improved, because a " Three Lives Three Worlds Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms " became popular.
The relationship between the two is also getting sweeter and sweeter in the voice of doubts. When recording " quirky talk about ", Zhao Youting said that the three lives and three generations will marry Gao Yuanyuan.
They have always been very low-key and seldom showed affection, but seeing Gao Yuanyuan's postpartum state, the whole person exudes the charm of a mature woman, you will know that there must be a man behind this woman who tolerates her and understands her. What if
is not favored, what is the age gap, the key is whether you have paid the wrong person. In fact, there is no need to speculate on unexpected people, your own happiness should always be in your own hands.
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Zhu Dan was cursed and divorced Zhou Yiwei, which made me see the evil of human nature.
Zhu Dan and Yiwei Zhou may not be the kind of couples that are well-matched in the eyes of the world, and Zhou Yiwei's way of expressing love is not acceptable to everyone.
But we must understand that if two people can become husband and wife, no matter how many problems there are in the middle, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. You may say that Zhu Dan is humble, but Zhu Dan may enjoy this kind of sacrifice.
You said that Zhou Yiwei was indifferent and greasy, maybe he was another side when he got home.
We don't live their lives, what we see is always appearances.
What you consider happiness is not necessarily happiness, and what you consider unhappiness is not necessarily unhappiness.
Think about it rationally. As a host, Zhu Dan has already earned both fame and fortune. Will her IQ really be reduced to kneeling and licking Zhou Wei?
She may have low self-esteem in her heart, but she can still be with Zhou Yi, which means that this man can always meet some of her needs.
Any relationship is a two-way street. If you only rely on one person to compromise, it will not be sustainable. A marriage that is not optimistic may not necessarily end well, the key lies in your own management.
You don't have to worry too much about other people's marriages. Everyone's life has many trivial things. Being happy now doesn't mean you will be happy in the future, and being unhappy now doesn't mean you will be unhappy in the future.
The world is changing every day, all we can do is cherish the moment, treat ourselves with sincerity, and treat others with kindness.
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