Author: Qiong Di
I am often asked, how to judge whether a person really loves you?
One of the biggest mistakes we make in love is that we will lose our basic judgment due to the sweet words and various flattering behaviors of the other party.
I have seen many girls who are immersed in the dreams that their boyfriends have made for themselves. Boys treat them like princesses and pamper them. They are like floating on the clouds, thinking that they are full of love.
Similarly, after being dumped by her boyfriend, many girls cried and said that he had always said that he would love me forever, and he was so good to me at ordinary times. How could they break up after breaking up?
What is true love? In love, if a man doesn't love you, how will he behave?
To judge whether a person really loves you, we should never look at how good he is to you on weekdays.
It depends on the conflict between two people, and when you encounter difficulties, his attitude towards you, whether he will continue to not anger you, but always respect you and love you.
And if he has these kinds of performances in your love, it can only show that he really doesn't love you, no matter how well pretended to be, we must be vigilant and stop believing foolishly.
1. Often out of touch
If a boy really has you in his heart, he will be happy to share your itinerary with you, and even take the initiative to tell you about this day What you saw, what happened.
And if he is often in a state of not answering messages or answering calls, even after you ask him what he just did, and he still tries to prevaricate, then we really have to take a few more thoughts.
If he really loves you, he wouldn’t want to see you anxious because he can’t get in touch with him. If he always keeps silent under any pressure you ask, or if he loses his temper at you, then Can show that he is trying his best to cover his whereabouts,And don't want to let you know.
So if in a relationship, we find that the other half is really often out of touch, what should we do at this time?
Don't just ask him blindly, because no matter how much you ask, he won't confess to you. At this time, we can consider starting from the side, such as inquiring about his friends, or sinking our hearts, after a period of time and slowly observing, we can always see some clues.
2. Hurt you as much as possible when arguing
There are also some men, who are usually good at talking sweet words and smart words, and it is easy to fascinate the girls around them.
When two people are in peace, they call their other half obedient, no matter how big or small they are, they follow their instructions, as if they don't have any own opinions, and what the other half says is nothing.
But once the two people have a quarrel, or something the other half does touches their bottom line, they will immediately attack you with all kinds of unpleasant words and hurt you like they have changed. , Even at the mercy of fighting you, domestic violence against you, such a man, we must stay far away.
When a person's emotions are out of control, his performance at this time can reflect the person's true side. When two people have a quarrel, his heart must be quite agitated. At this time, it is easy to follow his heart and do something that hurts you.
If in anger, he really did a very excessive move, said something that was awful and hurtful, no matter how we apologized to us afterwards, we should not forgive him stupidly. Keep a little distance from such a man, and don't let him hurt you over and over again.
3. Never disclose your existence
Once there was a girl who asked me in private,He has a very good relationship with his boyfriend, but after being together for more than half a year, he has never shown the affection between two people on any social platform, nor has he taken him to meet his friends. Even if he sees his parents, don’t even think about it. .
Such feelings are actually very precarious. Because if a guy really wants to spend the rest of his life with you, if he really values you, he will take you into his life and actively introduce you to anyone he knows.
Because he really likes you, I hope that those close to him can also like you and recognize you. He hopes that everyone around him can accept you like him, and hopes that you get along well, so that he will be happy from the bottom of his heart.
And if a man doesn’t care how good you are to you, it’s just that he has never seen you in front of his friends, never took you to meet his friends, and even for the people around him, he doesn’t even know you are like you. The existence of a girlfriend is very telling.
Even, you may be just one of his thousands of spare tires, maybe when he talks sweetly to you here, on the other side you don’t know, there is another one that is similar to you. Girls.
For such men, emotion is a multiple choice question. They can have multiple choices at the same time, but for them, there is no real correct answer.
When two people love each other, you can’t just look at the sweetness on the surface. It’s more to look at the person’s heart through the person’s appearance, to see if he really loves you, instead of just talking about it.
The oath of the mountain alliance is so beautiful, it is no better than a person who can put everything down and come to you and accompany yourself when you are alone and helpless.
Usually he has more rhetoric to you, no matter how sweet the love words are, everything will follow you and coax you, but if once a quarrel arises, he will curse you with the most vicious words in the world, without Tear open your wounds mercifully, such a person is not worth loving at all.
Therefore, we must keep our eyes open when we are in a relationship, and don’t let ourselves be softened for a while,To be blind for a while, to fall into the trap of the other party and fall in love with someone you shouldn't love
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