The actor Zhang Heng stayed in the United States for a long time and did not come back. Many netizens have speculated whether you owe money, or did you not dare to come back by fraud, hiding in debt, or loan shark?
Zhang Heng posted an article saying that he did not do the same, the only reason was to look after the children.
So the magical netizens came out. It turns out that Zheng Shuang and Zhang Heng already have two children. What is even more strange is that the two babies of this boy and girl were born one month apart.
It turned out to be a surrogate.
Then the voices of Zheng Shuang, Zheng Shuang's family and Zhang Heng's family were exposed online. Zheng Shuang said that he really didn't want this child.
So the netizens are all boiled. You live in a mansion of hundreds of millions. Is there no place and no money to raise these two babies?
Illegal surrogacy is a legal issue.
After giving birth to a child, I don’t care about it. If I don’t sign it, I will not be able to return home. This is a character issue.
Zheng Shuang once again defeated the cusp of public opinion.
To tell the truth, Zheng Shuang always feels straightforward, rather carefree. There have been controversies before, but this time things are not that simple. Involved in moral issues and even legal issues.
Some netizens said: Now if Zheng Shuang wants to stand up, there are only two ways to go. The first is to develop a vaccine with a protection rate of over 80%, and the second is to develop a 5-nanometer chip.
You know that these two items have not been realized by all of China.The implication is that Zheng Shuang is only in this battle, it is really difficult to stand up.
Brother Na Xuan analyzes Zheng Shuang's personality and causes from the perspective of psychology.
Seeing Zheng Shuang's story, the first thing I thought of was "Almighty Narcissism".
Almighty narcissism is the psychology that everyone has in the early stages of infancy, that is, the baby thinks that I am omnipotent, and when I think about it, the world that is completely integrated with me (actually a mother or other nurturer) will Operate according to my wishes.
Every baby has the feeling of almighty narcissism, which is transformed and absorbed during the growth process.
If the caregiver gives him enough warmth and care, he will gradually realize that I am not an almighty god. He will gradually realize that there are many good things and many bad things in this world, but they are generally good. I can feel enough care and love, so I am brave to face all the negatives in this world. This process is called integration.
And if something goes wrong with his growth, I will still be in almighty narcissism when I grow up, and this is a problem.
Because the baby's needs are very small, it is nothing more than eating and drinking Lazar, as long as he can jump well, he can be satisfied. But as an adult, you need to survive in a complicated society. It is impossible for everyone to listen to you, so the whole process of self-training will bring him many problems.
We call this kind of person a giant baby.
In my opinion, Zheng Shuang is still among the all-powerful narcissistic giant babies.
Almighty narcissism has the following manifestations.
1. Excessive self
To be lighter is to say that it is overconfidence, and to be more serious is to say that it is narcissism and self.
Zheng Shuang's willfulness for so many years is obvious to all.
I still remember that I was in love with Zhang Han , so she said that she could only shoot kiss scenes with Zhang Han, and other crews asked him to do the filming. She said that Zhang Han would not come and I would not shoot. Zhang Han added the plot.
Once I was filming a TV series,He even patted and left, and went to find Zhang Han. Leaving the entire crew in a mess in the wind, the double can only shoot dozens of scenes.
Sometimes filming variety shows is also recorded and needs to go to the toilet, but people are gone.
But Zhang Han's relationship with him is really good. I still remember what Zhang Han said on a variety show in April 2014, what kind of wedding he would do for Zheng Shuang.
However, it was this April that Zheng Shuang suddenly disappeared, and Zhang Han could not contact him anyway.
After a while, Zhang Han is still showing affection on Weibo, and Zheng Shuang has unilaterally announced the breakup.
Later, Zhang Han and Guli Nazha were deeply affectionate, and dozens of millions of netizens went to Weibo to scold them. I thought that Guli Nazha was Xiao San who got involved in the relationship between the two.
Later, the video of Zheng Shuang and Hu Yanbin kissing was exposed, and everyone suddenly realized that the two had already been together. It turns out that Zheng Shuang and Hu Yanbin knew each other from filming in January. They were probably already together in March. No wonder they lost contact in April and Zhang Han couldn't contact him.
This is still the case. When he and Zhang Heng were in love, they wanted to give birth to each other. In order not to affect his work, he spent money to find a surrogate.
As a result, I wanted to break up when I talked about a bad relationship. I didn't care about the child if I broke up. If I can open it, I won't need it. If my child can't be beaten, then I can send it.
This is a typical manifestation of almighty narcissism. I feel that the world needs to revolve around me around me.
When I love you, I will do my best to love you. Once I fall in love with someone else, I will turn around and leave without any lingering.
These male stars must have been in love with him are also very painful, no wonder Hu Yanbin did not agree to reunite afterwards.
2, easy to feel inferior
Zheng Shuang is very confident in many times, but this confidence is unstable.It is easily affected. Once frustrated, you will fall into collapse and low self-esteem.
I still remember that some media filmed before, Zheng Shuang cried bitterly in the street.
3. Emotional impulse, negative avoidance
A person who is originally more self-conscious will arouse his resistance when he encounters inferiority complex, so his emotions are more impulsive and irritable. At this time, he will become a perpetrator. Affect people around you.
Zheng Shuang's emotional impulse is known to everyone. When
brought the goods some time ago, the first half was always used as a vase without introducing the product, just giggling beside it;
collapsed directly in the second half, saying that he didn't like this form very much and was consuming fans. I also told the fans, if you don’t want to buy it, don’t buy it if it is cheaper.
I believe that seeing these fans collapsed, and the merchants he brought the goods collapsed even more.
I spent hundreds of thousands of pit fees for you to help me bring the goods, but you didn't introduce them, and asked everyone not to buy them. Who can stand it.
Everyone once questioned Zheng Shuang's mental problems.
Why does this happen to him? Have to start with his native family.
1. Parents grew up
Zheng Shuang was very beautiful when he was a child, and his parents have been carefully cultivating him, and let him learn dance and piano since he was young. He also participated in various competitions and performances when he was very young. There is a thick stack of honor certificates at home.
As the only daughter, his parents have been holding him since he was a child, so he has always been more selfish.
2. Parental education concept
Zheng Shuang's parents are also very controversial. You can see why Zheng Shuang is like this by looking at their character.
Once I was shooting a variety show at Zheng Shuang's house. Zheng Shuang's dog accidentally bit a photographer, and blood was shed on the spot. Zheng Shuang's parents came over to take a look, and they said it was okay with such a small bite, and they were done after wiping them. I didn't expect to give people compensation, I didn't bring people to the hospital to get rabies vaccinations, and I didn't even teach my dogs, so the big things were reduced to small things.
From this detail, we can see that their parents also live very selfishly.Not too concerned about the feelings of others.
And through some variety shows, we can see that Zheng Shuang's parents always treat Zheng Shuang as a child and take care of him, but Zheng Shuang always disagrees and wants to strive for existence.
Once Zheng Shuang's father thought Zheng Shuang was too thin and asked him to eat more. Zheng Shuang was very angry and wronged. Just say that no matter how old your child is, he needs self-respect, and you have to respect him.
We can see that in the process of daily communication, although Zheng Shuang said that he has grown up and can make a lot of money, his parents always treat him as a child and often fail to give him enough respect.
And he has always been like a child, wanting to gain attention, want to gain recognition.
3. Parents’ performance
Zheng Shuang’s parents’ controversy doesn’t stop there. We will find that most celebrities’ parents are relatively low-key, while Zheng Shuang’s parents, otherwise he has been constantly spending this piece.
Make facial mask brands, make movies, and answer questions for a fee. It reminds people of Fang Zhongyong in ancient times.
His parents value the cultivation of their daughter's ability and talent very much, but ignore the child's psychological feelings
This makes Zheng Shuang an anxious attachment, has always been a wayward little girl, hoping for others' approval. Get the recognition of others through constant work and trouble, to prove your sense of existence and security.
I am not writing this to clean up Zheng Shuang, and her deeds can't be cleaned up.
In order to appeal to everyone to pay attention to mental health.
Finally, I want to emphasize that narcissism is not a bad thing. If it can be guided reasonably, it can be a powerful driving force for our progress.
Real self-confidence is based on a reasonable understanding of oneself. I know what my strengths are and what my weaknesses are. Let him leave the wind and waves, I stayed still.
And false self-confidence is based on blind arrogance. This kind of self-confidence is unstable. If others dare to challenge me, I will be very angry. Why do you say that I am not good? Either it is the need to win the approval of others through constant work and trouble.
I hope you can gain real self-confidence.
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