There should be many women who have reached the age of 30, but they are still alone! Especially big cities.
In fact, marriage is a major event in life after all, and everyone's choice should be respected. After all, people are different, and they want different things. Everyone knows more or less what these women think.
is like some common ones, either because they have seen too many unhappy marriages, so they have a sense of fear; or they cannot find suitable and like-minded people; or they want to devote themselves to career and want to be a self-improving and independent new era woman .
Maybe they are not worried about their life-long events, they are afraid that they will not get the understanding of their parents.
When you think too much about the feelings of your parents, you will naturally get into chaos and you will not be able to live your own life according to your plan. Pity the parents of the world, what do the old people think about this matter? The
daughter has reached 30 years old, does not even have a boyfriend? Interviewed several parents to hear what their parents think!
first, Mr. Huang, 65 years old, daughter 31 years old.
I have three children in total. Two of my sons got married and started a business early, and now only the youngest daughter is single. To be honest, I don't want to rush her. I also know that marriage is the top priority in life. You must be cautious and cautious. But I am 65 years old this year, I am afraid that I will not wait for that day.
has no wish. The biggest wish at the moment is to see her youngest daughter marry, and then to live her own life happily.
may really be the times have changed, I don’t believe that she has not met a suitable one after 31 years? When I think of this, I get angry. I always say that I don't understand her. I want to understand her, but she must give me a reason to understand her too! Besides, does she understand me again? I don't even think about how old I am this year, I will be 70 soon.
second, Ms. He, 52 years old, daughter 29 years old.
is this year, my mentality has changed, I hardly urge her to get married anymore, just let it happen.
Rather than forcing her to get married and leave, it is better for her to enjoy a person's life now and find a wishful man she likes. It is true that emotional matters are not anxious, and you have to wait for fate to arrive.
is like my niece, she was forced to go on a blind date by the family at her age before, and she got angry and married herself. After the marriage, the boy's true appearance was revealed, he was not doing his job properly and had a tendency to violence, his life was a mess, and he finally had to divorce.
is exactly this thing that wakes me up.
is a parent. In fact, the biggest wish is to hope that her children are healthy and happy. If she really likes being free now, what reason do we have to oppose?
and so on in the future, I really meet someone I like, don't let us worry about it, she naturally wants to marry.
third, Mr. Tang, 55 years old, daughter 30 years old.
Me, just anxious to hug my grandson. There is only this daughter at
, so I can only pin my hopes on her. Sometimes when I talk about these things with my neighbors, I can't even lift my head and I am embarrassed to reply.
So I wanted her to get married quickly and give me a big fat boy. From then on, I can stand up and talk. So as not to be pointed and discussed by those women all day, it seems like my daughter really has a problem.
just wanted to plug the mouths of those people and prevent them from chewing their tongues behind their backs.
fourth, Ms. Xu, 57 years old, daughter 31 years old.
What can I think, I am anxious, how can there be a girl who is still in her 30s and still does not get married?
year after year, just passed, single the year before, single last year, this year is still single. Don't talk about others, sometimes even I wonder if she has a problem. Z4z
, this girl, don't tell us anything, every time we talk about this topic, we feel annoyed by us, and I feel uneasy about eating.
is not that we really want to force her, but age is a fact that cannot be changed. If this continues, she will really become an old girl. Her dad and I are both face-saving people, but we can't afford to lose this person.
How can a girl not find someone? It's because we have been spoiled since we were young, and we are all sick.
fifth, Ms. Cai, 50 years old, femaleThe child is 29 years old. I gave up about
two years ago. Let it go, do whatever you want, I don’t care.
is not talking angry, but really can't control it. This kid has been rebellious since he was a child, and he doesn't listen to the family. She was stunned to look down upon so many excellent boys as her relatives had introduced before. Z4z
can't control it either, I can only take the mentality of letting it go.
You said, there are no parents in the world who don't feel sorry for their children. We don't think she is still wandering in society alone for a year or two, and then feel sorry for her and worry about her? I just want her to have a home earlier, and then settle down and live a good life.
said that he is not young anymore, his thinking is still very naive, and he does not understand what life is. Find someone you like again and get married and live the same way. Above
, the five parents interviewed each gave their true thoughts.
Feelings cannot be forced. As the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own blessings. Sometimes parents feel that they are doing it for the good of their children, but their children also have their own thoughts, so you may not necessarily give them what they want.
Communicate more, communicate more, patiently listen to the voices and true thoughts of your children.
Being anxious is human nature, but you can't be sloppy about getting married.
Furthermore, late marriage is not necessarily a bad thing. Only when a person's thinking is mature enough can he understand what he really wants. Don't make a noise, don't blame, don't complain, even between parents and children, they need to empathize and understand each other.
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