On December 14, the entertainment circle suddenly dropped several "big melons", first Zhu Dan got the second child, followed by Wang Hailin tearing up, and then the happy male voice who has always been keen to show affection Wang Lixin suddenly announced divorce. Because there are too many melons, netizens almost suffer from indigestion.
At night, Wang Lixin's divorced melons seemed to gather all the focus at once. The people who eat melons were divided into several categories. One said that they couldn't believe it. After all, people who were so affectionate before, how to get divorced after divorce? One type means that if it is not for divorce, they don't know that there is still this person in the entertainment industry; the other type is like Sherlock Holmes, saying that the divorce between the two has long been traced.
I belong to the fourth category. I know that there is this person in the entertainment industry and how he made his debut, but I don't know that he is married. So, when I first saw this news, I felt so surprised. But what surprised me was his divorce declaration. The content of
is as shown in the figure below. I believe everyone has already seen it.
is the first thing to call your partner a roommate. This is not good or bad. When two people are in a good relationship, this is actually more like showing affection. But now that the two are divorced, the word seems particularly heartbreaking. Two people who are not related by blood have lived together for some reason and experienced some life events together. As for the feelings and feelings of each other, they may not know each other.
followed by affirmation and recognition of the woman, understanding her hard work over the years, saying that she is a competent wife, a good mother, a good daughter, thank her for giving birth to a son and a daughter, and they will protect the two children together in the future . There is a sense of no distraction when breaking up.
is a blessing to the woman in the end. If the other party is happy, he will sincerely wish him, if he is in trouble, he will definitely support him as his best friend.
Compared to some bloody divorce battles, Wang Lixin's divorce statement looks much more harmonious, and he may even feel that he seems reluctant, which inevitably makes people a little embarrassed.
However, because of this, people can't help worrying about the status quo of modern marriages. The other party is fine with everything. Why is it still getting divorced? Is this the notion of love that everyone has been preaching all these years? If it is, then I really think it is harmful! The biggest misunderstanding of
is that it is used in marriage. The word “no will be” is widely known. It should come from He Yichen in the TV series "Why Shengxiaomu". He said: " If such a person ever appeared in the world, everyone else would become a will, and I don’t want to die."
Many people are envious of the love between He Yichen and Zhao Mosheng, so they don’t want to die in their relationship. , I always feel that this way I can meet the really suitable person. Some people are even clearly married. Once the other party fails to meet their expectations, they feel that their marriage is going to happen, so they divorced.
This is really a big misunderstanding!
He Yichen is not good, just staying with other people when he is not good, but he is always good to Zhao Mosheng.
In He Yichen's words, Zhao Mosheng is neither very beautiful, nor very smart, nor very temperamental. Even in the eyes of many people, she is not worthy of him, but he still recognizes her. This is a general for the external conditions of his girlfriend;
Zhao Mosheng has been away for seven years without saying goodbye, and there is no contact in the middle, but he just waited. This is a general who stays together in love; after
reunited, Zhao Mosheng has been passive, and sometimes even deliberately avoided him, but although he was hit again and again, he still took the initiative again and again. This is an equal goal for both men and women.
Knowing that Zhao Mosheng was divorced in the United States, he is still willing to marry him, this is a pure marriage.
Whenever He Yichen is so uncomfortable with Zhao Mosheng, they will never get together!
However, many people remember that He Yichen could not make it, but ignore him to Zhao Mosheng, so looking for it, single people can’t find the right person to start a relationship, and married people find the shortcomings of their partners Too many, put the divorce on the agenda.
There is no perfect partner in marriage. There is a saying that everyone has read: Even the happiest marriage has at least 200 divorce thoughts and 50 impulses to choke each other.
This shows that there is no perfect partner and perfect marriage in the world, and any marriage has its shortcomings.
Even if they are your own parents, they will give birth to you and raise you, but they will still have many different habits and different ideas from you, not to mention a person who has lived in a different environment from you for more than 20 years. Relationship person?
He Jiong once said in the show a very heartwarming sentence: "There is no person in the world who fits you perfectly, if there is one, it must be PUA." If
is not for two people to meet each other, what paragraph is there? There will be no problems with marriage, but which marriage can come to the end?
Qian Zhongshu has high attainments in literature, but in life, he is like a child and can hardly take care of himself. During Yang Jiang's hospitalization, Qian Zhongshu would only get into trouble every day when he was alone at home. He would ruin this one today and another one tomorrow, and afterwards he would only be like a kid who did something wrong and let Yang Jiang clean up the mess for him. How many women can bear a partner like
? If Yang Jiang is also holding an attitude of inadequacy in his feelings and holding on to Qian Zhongshu's shortcomings, the two will have to say goodbye just after the love period. How can there be a touching marriage in the next few decades?
All long-term marriages are actually just two people accommodating each other, tolerating each other, and accepting each other, plus understanding and supporting each other!
can not start a relationship on the spot, but please keep the marriage in place
said so much, it is not advocating that everyone should bear the burden of humiliation in the marriage. I just want to say that before begins to fall in love, you can be arrogant and persist until you find the person you really want to marry, and then enter the marriage. But once you enter the marriage, please take it seriously, no matter what you encounter, don't give up easily.
The personal experience of many divorced people has actually explained to everyone that divorce is not a solution to a problem, it is just a way to escape the problem. Because many conflicts are not resolved, even if you start a new marriage, the same problems will still arise.
From Wang Lixin's divorce statement, he said that his ex-wife Wu Yating is a good wife, a good mother, and a good daughter. So, I actually don't quite understand, in that case, why the two people still got divorced?
Wang Lixin appears affectionate and slow in this statement, but I want to say that all the people who play affectionate at the divorce at are actually hooligans. The other side is so good, why don't you stay together until you grow old?
has been married for five years and has given birth to two children. Is it just to send each other a good person card after five years?
Good wife, good mother, and good daughter. These three roles should be the most important roles of a woman in marriage (there may be objections to this role, but I think other roles are not roles in marriage). If a woman takes These three roles are all done, so what is there to be dissatisfied with?
is reluctant to give up in the divorce statement. If he does not give up, why should he let it go? If the other party is not good, why do you maintain the other party in the statement?
Marriage is not a child’s play, it should not be ended at will, because it has commitment and responsibility in addition to passion! Above
, no one, just feel that they lack a sense of awe for marriage, nothing more.
Conclusion:
people get along with people, no matter what the relationship is, there will be more or less people, or both parties will be together, not to mention the need to stay together for most of the marriage? Marriage is just a kind of interpersonal relationship. If you want to maintain a good relationship, how can there be no reason at all?
You can be more careful, patient, and demanding when choosing a lover, but once you decide to enter into marriage with the other party, for the sake of happiness, I still hope you can be a little confused, tolerant, and just a little bit more!
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Author: Yong -Sunshine, in simple words, said emotional truth. I would like to accompany you to understand all kinds of feelings in the world with words.
