The love between adults in the Korean drama "Spring Night" is more about restraint and tolerance

2019/08/3118:00:25 entertainment 1015

Have you seen Sarah's name at the end of the article for a long time?

Because since I changed the company, I have become a social animal

every day, I deeply feel that there is not enough time to use

. Now I can be on someone else’s public account on my commute. In

watching movies and TV shows, occasionally eating melons

is already the happiest thing

believes that many people are like me

I saw a movie review as if I saw a movie

is also because I watched a big Amway, I I have been busy chasing a few episodes of the Korean drama

. I haven’t watched a Korean drama for a long time. I can’t remember the last Korean drama I watched.

I used to watch the American drama

not long ago. "Dazzling" Korean drama, I was really not wanted by countless large Amway, I went to watch

I'm sorry, I didn’t watch the first episode and I couldn’t stand it anymore. Z2z

may be used to the procrastination of American dramas. It may also be that I can’t stand the slow-paced and idiotic plot paving

. I admit that I also made a technical mistake. I didn’t drive the 2x speed

. Anyway, I couldn’t bear the beginning of the show, so the emotion behind it No matter how exciting the reversal is, it has nothing to do with me.

When I clicked on this show, I really watched it. When I wanted to talk to you about this show, I habitually opened Douban

"Hey! It turns out that the heroine of this play is the heroine of "Dazzling"!"

"Spring Night" netizens said that the show is teaching people how to cheat on the surface.

actually talks about how to live oneself without caring about others and break one Shen's unchanging ease

What is adult love?


The love between adults in the Korean drama


Li Jingren was born in a good family, the second of three daughters in the family, and his father is the principal.

From birth to school, work to love, everything is done step by step.

doesn't believe in love at first sight and has no curiosity about new things. She is currently a librarian who is not adventurous. Z2z

's greatest pleasure is to drink with Song Young-joo, who is a colleague and a girlfriend, after work.


The love between adults in the Korean drama


Liu Zhihao's ordinary background, ordinary work, the pharmacist

Jingren at the corner drugstore My girlfriend drank too much, got up to go to work the next day, passed by the pharmacy to buy wine and medicine, after eating, I found that I didn’t bring my wallet

. I had a chance encounter with nothing new, and started a whole drama


The love between adults in the Korean drama


"meet, acquaintance, ambiguous, confession" "Rejection" This series of behaviors occurred when they were in their teens and 20s, and may last for months or even years

, ​​but for the 30+ Jingren and Zhihao, it only took two days

Jingren. "Stable marriage partner" is like saying, don’t get close to me, I don’t allow myself to make mistakes

Zhihao "I have a son" to you I showed my trump card

Jingren "We are friends, we can get along easily" subtext : I like you

Zhihao "I'm sorry, I can't get along with you easily" Subtext: I also like you

z105 The dialogue in the show is both a confession and a rejection of


The love between adults in the Korean drama


sensible love

z105 The

broke the original life just because of a look and a heartbeat? NO

Adults’ love is also sensible. They will comprehensively weigh the most stable path

. So what happens when a sensible adult encounters love?

Restrained, forbearing

intentionally or unintentionally, using "advance and retreat" to get close to each other, rationally and internally push and pull


The love between adults in the Korean drama


Different people's views on marriage

Jingren has been with Jishuo for many years. From the beginning of the relationship, he has always been an old husband and wife. Now he is facing the problem of marriage.

Jishuo’s father wants her to marry a woman with a better background. "It’s business."

Originally in the eyes of businessmen, everything is business, everything is money


The love between adults in the Korean drama


Jingren’s father forced the older woman to marry the doctor, and now he is forced to force Jingren to marry the chairman’s son and the third daughter to study abroad. When he comes back, he must marry someone immediately.

Originally, in his father’s eyes, marriage is social relations, personal connections, rights, and face.

In the conversation between the eldest daughter and mother, the mother said, "Marriage is to rely on, and it is easier to get married"


The love between adults in the Korean drama


It turns out that for a mother, getting married is the easiest way in life. The irony is that the eldest daughter is trying to divorce her husband who is abusive

. Her life seems to be difficult because of marriage.

Society is full of Class and discrimination

Zhihao (common people), Jingren (well-off), and Jishuo (rich people) represent the three classes respectively

Whether in China or South Korea, once marriage crosses the class, it will immediately exchange for the sentence "Improper door" It’s difficult for you to cross classes, but it’s even harder to eliminate classes.


The love between adults in the Korean drama


Zhihao is a descendant of Jishuo’s school. When he talked about Zhihao with his friends, he said, “He’s so pitiful,”

is a good friend. , The parents are in good health, the economy is OK, the child is raised very well, he is very good"

Ji Shuo "Who would fall in love with someone like him? Only find someone like him"


The love between adults in the Korean drama


Why have children Will be discriminated against?

How come they have not been loved and have no right to choose their lovers?

Why is he short in others' hearts?

Everyone has an equal right to pursue love and to choose love. You don’t have to be inferior for material and objective reasons, and don’t look down upon others. The three life attitudes of the three sisters

As the anchor’s eldest sister, the filial way is to accept, but she Began to learn to resist

, ​​calmly and dare to resist, will not blindly obey, and will go forward courageously to what is identified.


The love between adults in the Korean drama


The three sisters have the most westernized thoughts and behaviors. They are straightforward and dare to love and hate. In her world, sensible love will never exist.


The love between adults in the Korean drama


I am more like Jingren myself. I did not choose the simple road that my mother thought. I chose a very, very difficult road.

What will happen to the protagonist and heroine? I am not very curious. I am not surprised or feel at any ending. Unfortunately, people who choose which way in real life have

actually have a lot of warm details in the drama, which can give people a feeling of love and throbbing, but the positioning of this article is not fresh, so I did not write those parts In the plot of

, ​​what should be given directly, the hiding place, there is no place that makes people feel awkward and hypocritical, and it still looks quite comfortable. American dramas, watch Korean dramas with this rhythm, it’s not bad to relieve the pressure

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