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Recently, the new version of "The Deer and Ding Ji" starring Zhang Yishan has been launched. Zhang Yishan, who has always been considered good acting, is because of Wei Xiaobao. , And was ridiculed as "like a monkey show." A netizen commented on
that, whenever Zhang Yishan performs such a bit of a bit of a character, he will definitely become a middle-aged and elderly version of Liu Xing.
The kind of bluffing performance when I was young, everyone still thinks it is cute, now it makes people feel embarrassed.
Zhang Yishan’s response said:
“I still hope to bring something new to the audience when shooting this scene, and let the audience love it as much as possible, so the audience mentioned that I can do anything. I am a very good actor, and sometimes I do not perform well.” Even if
knows that I do not perform well, even though I know this is wrong, I am unwilling to change my familiar work and routines. This is just unwilling to get out of comfort. Area.
"The Redemption of Shawshank" said: "These walls are very interesting. You resist it at first, then get used to it, and finally have to rely on it." It is a powerful explanation of the comfort zone.
If the protagonist Andy gets used to the life inside the high walls and gives up the pursuit of freedom, maybe he will not achieve the final redemption. The comfort zone makes people feel safe, but it also makes us lose more opportunities for change and growth.
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About life
What is it like: staying in the comfort zone all the time, get a short leisure, but lose the long-term beauty; get short-term stability, but missed a better future. What is
like: live in the present, do well every moment now. What is
like: in an unknown life, move forward lightly. What is
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about growth
: As mentioned in the entry "51: Living to Death" in the lifelong growth dictionary of the intensive reading of the king: face death, you will know what you really want. Every one of us fears death, so we instinctively avoid death and avoid topics related to death. Just like "The Analects of Confucius" said: "I don't know how to live, I know how to die", "If I can't do anything, I can do anything about ghosts", "Life is a matter of ritual; death is a ritual for funeral, and a ritual for sacrifice." He didn't face death directly, and if he continued to ask questions, he would use "giving up his life for righteousness" and "hearing the truth in the morning, you can die at night." Therefore, among all living beings, only those who are on the verge of death and escape by chance will seriously think about death and the meaning of life. What is
like: Kindness is a kind of self-cultivation. To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself. If you want to be loved by others, you must first learn to love others. A kind person must be a warm person, a helpful person, and a person who knows how to cherish and be grateful. Don't care about trivial matters, nor overjoy or sorrow over gains and losses. How
looks like: Actually, many things are in your own hands, it all depends on how you choose. If you are not strong, no one will pity your fragility; if you don’t work hard, no one will stay where you are; if you don’t cherish time, no one will spend your youth with you. Therefore, what we should do is to give time, go all out, and strive to change. Remember, if you don't change or act, no one can grow for you.
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How does self-reflection
look like: Only when you truly find your true self, face your own heart, find your unique talent, awaken your hidden potential and strength, and find your truly rich self, you can also let it go. Harvest everything you want naturally. You will find that the originally ambiguous life will become clearer and clearer, and the problems that have been plagued you will also be solved easily, so that you can live your ideal life. What is
like: Life is like a long voyage, and you will surely encounter strong winds from all quarters. However, every gust of wind will speed up your speed. As long as you stabilize the rudder, even if it is a storm, you will not deviate from your course. How
is like: always stay humble and always have a learning attitude to face life.
