What is the death scene of a large community? It refers to those embarrassing moments that make people want to cut out the three rooms and one hall with their toes.
In the past two years, the word has appeared frequently, and it has become more and more widely used. Even celebrities can hardly escape those "social death" incidents.
Zhou Shen vomited in the comments on Weibo. Once he cleared his throat in the men's room, he was reminded by the person next to him, "Don't go to the wrong toilet, this is the men's room."
So the question is, should he now Prove yourself... The
embarrassment may inevitably happen, but the huge amount of embarrassment that follows is full of stamina, and it will continue to randomly come to mind and make people cover their faces in the next few years, or even decades.
These embarrassments, maybe you have also had a blind guess of
Xiaoyuer, when you see the beginning, you must start to recall the embarrassing moment involuntarily. When this kind of situation occurs, it really can't be solved with a thick skin.
A Douban user shared his "community death incident" online. The host sent a message to the graduation thesis supervisor, but received a reply from the teacher "I will see you later". When
was puzzled, she looked back at the message record and found that her last sentence was- "Are you capable of being my graduate design teacher?"
and what she wanted to fight was "time". For the next plot, please make up for it yourself. If I talk about myself, I am afraid I can easily write a novella on this topic.
I occasionally skipped classes when I was in college, and sometimes helped my classmates to cover. But as the saying goes, you often walk by the river, how can you not wet your shoes. In a certain meditation class, I sent "come to the classroom, the teacher is calling!" to the class group.
Originally, I wanted to send it privately to a roommate who was still sleeping late.
After going to the toilet, I bumped into someone who was going in outside the cubicle, and the smell in the toilet was bad. Sitting in a quiet library, his stomach screamed, loudly like a tractor engine.
was in a traffic jam on a long-distance bus. On a highway of hundreds of kilometers, I stopped for several hours. A male passenger next to me couldn't help it anymore. In the trash can next to me, he solved it on the spot...
Why is it so embarrassing?
embarrassment is the same, sometimes because it comes too suddenly, it is often full of stamina, and it is extremely scary to think carefully. Xiao Yu'er even feels that, to a certain extent, such things will bring us psychological trauma.
Think about your first reaction to someone who has witnessed your embarrassing moment. "Oh, it's not what you see". If the person doesn't listen, you will feel that this matter is stuck in your heart. The principle of
probably just quarreled with us and others. At that time, we didn't say a word, and we talked haltingly. When I got home, I felt that I didn't perform well, and then it was definitely a sleepless night.
In other words, I don't feel embarrassed, but after the fanfare of others, things seem to change.
Yang Mi suddenly boarded the hot search a few days ago. The reason was that Shen Teng stepped down the steps and forgot Yang Mi behind him, so Yang Mi helped her loneliness.
itself is also extremely common, but the embarrassment of the two of them overflowed the screen when the netizens added fuel and vinegar. If the brains are bigger, they should suspect that there is a conflict in private.
Facing the moment of "community death", how to keep calm? Things like
can also be viewed by Buddhism: things have happened, and nothing will help. As long as I am not embarrassed, others are embarrassed. Xiao Yuer deeply felt that in certain things, too much attention was paid to not being embarrassed, and it was easy to reverse priorities.
I don’t know if you agree. In my opinion, , no matter how unforgettable an embarrassment you have ever encountered, one day you will tell it as a joke.
or in other words, when you are relieved yourself, others don't care that much.
Xiao Yu'er has been watching "Actors Please Take Place" recently. I found a fact that truly capable actors are not afraid of ugliness or pay no attention to their own image.
So, since the show started, insideThe most popular are the actors such as Lame Yoko, Myolie Hu, and Wen Zhengrong. Sometimes I also think that they can accept their ugliest or even the ugliest appearance, and it is really not everyone can do it.
So, when you always feel embarrassed, think about it everybody has an embarrassing moment. And some people may not have too many ideas at all, but they have trapped themselves in one place and cannot get out.
promised me that when I encounter something embarrassing to me in the future, I will stop saying "the moment of social death". It's really not that serious.
