Huang Lei loved Sun Li for 24 years: I have 1 lover, 2 daughters and 1 unexpected son

Recently, the sister chapter of "Little Farewell", "Little Huanxi", was released, which was well received.

Many people lamented that in the "Little Farewell" three years ago, Huang Lei's belly was not so big, but in today's "Little Happy", the once handsome Huang Lei has become a proper one." Middle-aged greasy man".

Actually, Huang Lei is 48 years old this year, and he and Sun Li have been in love for 24 years and have 3 children.

01 Wife will always be my lover

黄磊 Once said: "I am very opposed to couples becoming relatives, relatives are relatives, my mother is my relative, my dad is my relative, my daughter is My relatives, but my wife is my lover, my lover, and my lover. She is different!"

Huang Lei has always regarded Sun Li as a lover for 24 years. Girls come to pet.

After Sun Li got married, she gradually faded out of the film and television industry. In many people’s eyes, not working, staying at home, and preparing three meals a day for the family is the minimum requirement for a non-working woman. However, Sun Li could not cook at all.

In recent years, with the broadcast of "Longing for Life" and "Late Night Canteen", Huang Lei has been affectionately called "Huang Xiaochu" by everyone.

Huang Lei often posts photos of his own food on some social platforms. Of course, these are all made by Huang Lei.

Many people wonder, why does Huang Lei spoil such a daughter-in-law who does not cook or work?

Actually, not only because of Huang Lei's persistence, but also because of Sun Li.

Some time ago, the refreshing "Dear, Loved", made many people call for a boyfriend who is like a Korean businessman.

However, to make Hanshangyan fall in love with you, you must be Tong Nian. Otherwise, even if you meet in an Internet cafe, you will only be destined to pass by.

Tong Nian's family and Korean businessmen are family acquaintances, and they have similar backgrounds.

Tong Nian is a graduate student at a prestigious university, and Han Shangyan enters the university to study industrial design after his retirement.

Tong Nian is a well-known singer on the Internet, and the Korean business club is doing well.

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In fact, the two of them can be regarded as a real family pair.

There is a passage in "Jane Eyre": "Love is a game, and you must always be evenly matched with the other side in order to be able to rely on each other forever. Because a strong opponent makes people tired, and a weak opponent It’s tiresome.”

When Huang Lei met Sun Li, they were both students at the Beijing Film Academy. That year, Sun Li was 18 years old and Huang Lei was 24 years old.

Sun Li made her debut in the TV series "Master Bodhidharma" in 1999. Later, she also left many popular works such as "The Beauty of the Legend of Heaven and Earth" and "The Book and Sword Enmity". Although Huang Lei's film and television works are more Sun Li has a lot, but Sun Li has never been idle for so many years.

She and Huang Lei acted in the drama "Secret Love in Peach Blossom Land". Many people said that this drama is like a kind of glue between them;

Sun Li always insisted on dancing. She was 42 years old and had 3 children. Time showed up in "The Longing for Life". She danced gracefully and lightly, like a young girl;

She trained the children in a well-behaved and sensible way, and kept the family in order.

A virtuous wife and mother who is always beautiful and pursued, how can I make my husband not like it?

"If you plant a sycamore tree, you will have a phoenix." If you want to have a perfect love, you just want to look forward to good luck to meet a good partner. Far from being enough, you must first have the ability to attract a good partner.

"Use life to manage love,Profound, happy and long-lasting; kidnapping people with love is superficial and self-defeating. " Long-lasting love is the result of hard work, no one can be spoiled for no reason.

"Unattractive women, only say men are bothered; incompetent men, only say women reality. " You need to manage yourself, love, and marriage. Once you manage it, you can be the lover of each other for a lifetime.

02 Two daughters, an unexpected son

Huang Lei’s eldest daughter Duoduo 2004 Born, 2014 participated in "Where Are You Going Dad", because he is well-behaved and sensible, beautiful and kind-hearted by many people.

In the show, Duoduo takes special care of Cao Ge’s daughter Grace, and likes to kiss her little hands and face, to this little sister It’s so loving.

In 2014, Huang Lei and Sun Li had a second daughter, and Duoduo finally realized his wish to have a sister.

In 2017, Sun Li was pregnant again and gave birth to sons, many people Huang Lei said that Huang Lei was very selfish. In order to fight for his son, he ignored his wife’s advanced age and gave birth to children.

To this, Huang Lei once responded in a program: “I’m actually a little bit patriarchal. I heard that the third child is a boy. At that time, I was a little bit regretful. I especially wanted the three sisters. I like girls. ”

Huang Lei’s family always gives people a feeling of love and peace. This is indeed a model for a happy family. Actually, there are several important reasons for this. .

1. The best education is that father loves mother

Suhomlinski once said to fathers: "If you want to educate good children, you must first truly love Own wife. "

said that his daughter was the lover of his father's previous life, but in Huang Lei's mind, his lover in this life and in his previous life is Sun Li.

Huang Lei puts Sun Li first no matter what he does.

In "Where Are You Going, Dad", Duoduo fell in love with a puppy, and she begged Huang Lei to take the dog home.

Huang Lei said to Duoduo: "It's not that you like it, we can To take home, we have to listen to mom’s opinion first. It’s not because you brought the puppy home and need mom to take care of it. It’s because you at least have to respect and listen to mom’s opinions. I also stand on the same side as mom. Front. ”

2. It is better to raise rich from poverty than to raise with love

For a long time, people deeply believe that "has never been richer, more lady, since ancient times Wei Nan. ", so many people advocate the poor raising of sons and rich daughters.

But in fact, it is better to raise with love than with love. It is the most important to water each child equally with love.

In "Where Are You Going, Dad", Li Rui and Xiao Liangzi once had such a conversation.

"Do you think Mom and Dad love you more or their sister? "

"Sister"

"Why? "

"They bought a lot of beautiful things for my sister, and..."

Xiao Liangzai couldn't say anything wronged. In fact, children are very sensitive, and treat them equally with love. It’s more important to water them than to follow some so-called rules and regulations.

Because sometimes, some of your practices may really be understood by children as partiality, especially in homes with boys and girls.

3. Accompanying is the longest confession

The three most romantic and touching words in the world are not "I love you", but "together".

Huang Lei is very busy at work on weekdays, but he always tries his best to spend time with his wife and children. They travel together, read books together, taste food together,Talk about it.

Huang Lei’s food for his family on the social platform, and the beautiful photos taken by the family when they are playing, are their best interpretation of being together and loving each other.

4. Love must be said aloud

Love must not only be expressed in action, but also spoken out loud.

Huang Lei and Sun Li both like to express love to children, and they also like to express love to each other.

Say it, let the person you love feel your love more clearly, and you will often love each other more.

"Family" in English family, it is a very meaningful word.

The first English letter F refers to: father (father), the second English letter A refers to the English word and (and), the letter M refers to mother, and the letter I refers to It is I (I), the letter L refers to love, and the letter Y refers to You.

connects them: Father and mother I love you.

Home should be a place full of love, and it should also be a place where you need to express love.

"Happy families are similar, and unfortunate families have their own misfortunes." To improve yourself and run a good family is the most basic requirement of a happy family.