Chen Sheng once said to Liu Ruoying, you are a woman, never tell others. Because you will be married in the future. If they are all handed over, what else will you leave for your husband when you get married?
is better than repeating the same mistakes. The wrong love is not entirely unreasonable, at least it allows one to understand how to love in the face of the next relationship, and who is the most suitable person for you.
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is crazy about love. It is a "stupid thing" that many people have done in their youth. If the two love each other, it can be said that everyone is happy; but if it is wrong love, the destruction may be a person's life.
The story of Liu Ruoying and Chen Sheng has made many people feel that some love may be: I love you, but it has nothing to do with you.
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In 1970, Rene Liu was born in a very wealthy family in Taipei. She has been learning piano since the third grade of elementary school, and the process of studying has been inseparable from music. After graduating from high school, she went to the United States to study vocal music and piano performance and obtained a bachelor's degree in classical music. After graduating from university,
returned to Taipei. In 1991, Rene Liu met Chen Sheng, the famous singer and music producer of Taiwan's Rolling Stones, through a friend introduction. Chen Sheng was very optimistic about Liu Ruoying and invited her to work in her studio. Rene Liu agreed to join Rolling Stone Records and follow Chen Sheng to learn pop music and creation. Unexpectedly, she quietly fell in love with the talented Chen Sheng at work.
Chen Sheng was also moved by Liu Ruoying. Every afternoon afternoon tea Chen Sheng always ordered milk tea. Everyone was curious: "Chen Sheng, why do you like milk tea so much?" Chen Sheng smiled and said, "Because milk tea has the fragrance of milk but not as greasy as milk, and the lightness of tea is not It's as astringent as tea, so milk tea can be drunk for a lifetime without getting tired of it." Chen Sheng looked at Liu Ruoying again, half jokingly, half earnestly said: "Liu Ruoying is like a cup of milk tea! Although she is not a standard beauty, she is like a warm cup. Although milk tea does not have the nobility and elegance of red wine and the exquisite modernity of coffee, it has its own warm and fragrant fragrance." The well-known Liu Ruoying's nickname "Milk Tea" was taken by Chen Sheng when she was an assistant.
It’s a good thing to be happy in love, but they can’t be together, because at this time Chen Sheng already has a wife and children, he can’t have any thoughts about it. Since he can’t give her a marriage, he can only take this A relationship is buried.
Chen Sheng has greatly helped Liu Ruoying in his career. He wrote many classic songs for Liu Ruoying, such as "Kite", "Crazy for Love", etc. Facing such a mature, steady and talented person, Liu Ruoying was moved by him. There is nothing wrong with it. But this fruitless relationship was a huge blow to Liu Ruoying, who was just in her early 20s, and she could not get out of this relationship for a long time.
Even if the two people no longer cooperate in their careers, they will inevitably have the opportunity to meet again. In a later show, the two people met again. Liu Ruoying couldn't control her emotions during the whole process because of too much affection, so she cried so hard, but How can this be? Faced with a person with a family, even if he is tempted, he can only refuse. Two people are like two parallel lines, and there is never the possibility of intersection.
Liu Ruoying didn't do anything wrong, the only thing wrong was to love someone she shouldn't love. The shadow of this relationship brought her, and it took her many years to slowly let go. It was not until August 8, 2011 that the 41-year-old Liu Ruoying and Zhong Xiaojiang, who was in business, registered their marriage in the Beijing Civil Affairs Bureau.
For Liu Ruoying, she has already delivered her youth and passion, and it took many years to get out of the feeling of "failure". The person she loves made her in business, but almost ruined her life in love!
is similar to Liu Ruoying, as well as the actor Cong Shan. "The Wrangler" is the first film Cong Shan played in her life. She was just 19 in her freshman year in 1981. According to the school's regulations at the time, freshman and sophomore students were not allowed to go out to film, but she was in the director Thanks to Xie Jin's "effort", Cong Shan made an exception and was allowed to go out to film, but only if she could not delay her studies.
Cong Shan can be favored by director Xie Jin, which is inseparable from the education she received during her growth and her pure and sweet appearance. Cong Shan's parents are both Kunqu opera actors. Cong Shan, who is deeply influenced by art, has an extraordinary temperament and is good at singing and dancing since she was a child, and her appearance really matches the role she plays. "The Wrangler" director Xie Jin once said: "Let her play this role because of the ‘pure’ on her face and the youthful breath of her body. "Z1z
Cong Shan’s partner is Zhu Shimao, who plays Xu Lingjun. Because Zhu Shimao has far more acting experience than Cong Shan, he gave Cong Shan a lot of guidance during the filming process. In addition to explaining over and over again, she also practiced with her over and over again. Shan brought a lot of self-confidence and happiness that she had never experienced before.
When watching movies, it is not difficult to find that Zhu Shimao was very handsome when he was young, and Cong Shan moved his true affection to him without knowing it. There is a hug in the play. Cong Shan couldn’t get into the state of the scene. After Zhu Shimao’s continuous guidance, Cong Shan worked hard to overcome and finally successfully completed the filming. At the time, Zhu Shimao was 8 years older than Cong Shan. During the filming process, the two people had a good feeling for each other, but Zhu Shimao already had For the fiancée, out of responsibility, they can only be "brothers and sisters in the play". The movie "The Wrangler" has become popular, but the two people in the play have already "parted ways." Zhu Shimao is married, but Cong Shan has been unable to follow suit. This relationship came out. At the age of 25, Cong Shan embarked on the road to study in France, but she did not achieve satisfactory results in her studies. All kinds of discomforts and discomforts abroad can only be done on the phone. Talk to Zhu Shimao.
Later, Cong Shan also chose to enter the marriage, but she divorced after a short period of time. Maybe she still remembered her passion when she was young, or for other reasons, she always chose not to keep her feelings. Talk. It took another 10 years for
to meet her second husband, and then she restarted her life of ordinary happiness. For Cong Shan, her 19-year-old fascination may be her first marriage failure. One of the reasons is that she looked up to Zhu Shimao, but he did not belong to her.
's feelings were the most pure and unforgettable when she was young. If the feelings later cannot surpass the first heartbeat, in many cases they can only end in a hasty failure.
All people hope that they will meet the right person the first time they move, and they will grow old with the first time. But reality is not a fairy tale. There are always many factors between two people. What you see and what you can’t see. People can’t hug each other.
is more terrifying than not loving, loving the wrong person. Because you don’t love, you won’t pay too much, and you won’t give up on things, and the damage caused by feelings can be minimized; If love is wrong, it may be a pain that cannot be relieved for a lifetime. It is in the heart of the people, unable to retreat and unable to move forward.
is like Liu Ruoying's song "Later" sings: Later, I finally learned how to love, but you have already Going away and disappearing in the crowd; later, I finally understand in tears that once some people miss it, they won’t be there again!
What should I do if I love the wrong person? Writer Lian Yue said, first, stay away, and then have a new way to focus Moving to new things, whether it’s a newcomer or a new trip, if you think this kind of "new" is too difficult and expensive, then take a new route home, read a new book, cook a new dish, Learn a little new skill to make a new area of your brain shine and erase the old path.
The stumble of love is regarded as a "gift" from fate! As one sentence says, one day, we will talk about love, when it comes to companionship, and when it comes to elders. Most people will get their marriage. It may not be what he wants, but it must be what he deserves. Only those who know how to love can get nourishment from love! The picture of
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