Text | Wang Zhenyi
Editor | Sun Dasheng
In 1974, young Yang Jiewei met Alan Tam who was only 24 years old at a nightclub. At that time, Jiewei Yang would not have thought that Alan Tam would become the biggest catastrophe in her life several years later.
just knew each other at the moment of acquaintance. The two young people had a good impression of each other. After leaving contact information, they often contacted each other privately. It didn't take long for the two to become lovers.
and it happened that Alan Tan and Chen You, Peng Jianxin, Ye Zhiqiang, and Zhong Zhentao formed the "Winner Band" not long ago. Yang Jiewei, who was originally a beauty consultant for a cosmetics company, quit her job and became Alan Tam's assistant.
In order to better help Alan Tam, Yang Jiewei learned dance design, choreography, lighting scheduling, and arranged the image design of Alan Tam’s concerts, movies, and commercials.
And as Alan Tam’s career gets better year after year, Alan Tam is making more and more money. Yang Jiewei, who is very capable of financial management, helps Alan Tam manage his finances and makes Alan Tam a lot of money.
Only when Alan Tam is outside, no one knows that Yang Jiewei is his girlfriend. In order not to affect the career of Alan Tam who is on the rise, Yang Jiewei chose to silently be the woman behind Alan Tam.
The sacrifice Yang Jiewei made for Alan Tam even continued to their marriage.
Yang Jiewei and Alan Tam registered their marriage in Las Vegas in 1981. They did not hold the wedding and did not notify their friends.
Yang Jiewei and Tan Alan are married in secret.
They also met DINK, so when Yang Jiewei got pregnant by accident, they chose to kill the child.
It was 1993 when Yang Jiewei and Alan Tam’s husband and wife relationship were exposed.
Yang Jiewei's father died that year, the Yang family must consider whether to let the name of his son-in-law Alan Tam appear on the obituary. Z2z
Yang Jiewei at the time was worried that her husband-and-wife relationship with Alan Tam would affect Alan Tam's career when exposed, so she was reluctant to show Alan Tam's name on the obituary. But Yang Jiewei's mother believes that her son-in-law's name must appear in such a big matter.
In the end, Alan Tam’s name appeared on Yang Jiewei’s father’s obituary. The news of Alan Tam’s hidden marriage spread throughout the city, which caused heated discussions in Hong Kong at that time.
But this is also a good thing for Yang Jiewei, after all, she can be with Alan Tam in an open and honest relationship from now on.
But she never expected that Alan Tam would change two years later.
In 1995, Alan Tam met Zhu Yongting, who was 22 years younger than herself and still studying at Lingnan University, at a fan meeting. The two exchanged phone calls. After that, the two often contacted by phone. In the process of constant communication, Alan Tam felt that Zhu Yongting was particularly considerate and gave him a different feeling. He was secretly with Zhu Yongting.
When Zhu Yongting became Alan Tam’s secret lover, Alan Tam took on Zhu Yongting’s tuition and living expenses. Z2z
Zhu Yongting became pregnant a year later. Zhu Yongting asked Alan Tam if she wanted to give birth to the child. Alan Tam decided to let the child come to the world. In this year, their son Tan Xiaofeng was born. The birth of
's son made Alan Tam very happy. At the same time, he also knew that he had a secret lover and an illegitimate child. He chose to confess everything to Yang Jiewei.
When Alan Tan told Yang Jiewei about Zhu Yongting and Tan Xiaofeng, Yang Jiewei's heart was broken. She scolded Alan Tam, but what's the use? Alan Tam has women and children out there is an unchangeable fact.
After calming down, Yang Jiewei chose to bear it silently. She was too kind. She felt that the child was innocent and she did not want her child to lose his father's love.
Alan Tam also knew that he was sorry for Yang Jiewei. He handed over the family property to Yang Jiewei. According to Hong Kong media, there were 1 billion yuan. He asked Zhu Yongting to take the children. He did not let Yang Jiewei and Zhu Yongting meet.
However, in March 2006, Alan Tam's father Tan Jiangbai passed away. Alan Tam must consider whether the names of Zhu Yongting and Tan Xiaofeng should appear on his father's obituary.
After careful consideration, Alan Tam decided to disclose the identities of Zhu Yongting and Tan Xiaofeng, and let Tan Xiaofeng recognize his ancestors.
When Alan Tam announced the identities of Zhu Yongting and Tan Xiaofeng, public opinion was in an uproar. Alan Tam said to the media: "I understand that everyone is focusing on my family affairs, but thisIt's not a show or a play. I have a son named Tan Xiaofeng, I have a wife Yang Jiewei, and a close friend Zhu Yongting. Both of them worked so hard and both suffered a lot of grievances. I want to keep offspring for my father, or I want to keep my own flesh and blood for myself. But to the point where it is today, I and everyone around me have worked so hard, and I apologize more deeply to them. "Z2z
Although Alan Tan said that she was apologetic to Yang Jiewei and Zhu Yongting. But in real life, his preference is obvious. Hong Kong media often photographed her with Zhu Yongting and Tan Xiaofeng. As for Yang Jiewei, the Hong Kong media photographed her not. Being alone with relatives and friends is very lonely.
In the 2007 winter solstice, as Alan Tam’s legal wife, Alan Tam no longer took Yang Jiewei and her mother to spend the winter solstice, but took Zhu Yongting and Tan Xiaofeng.
Yang Jiewei is even more heartbroken by what Alan Tam said to the outside world. Alan Tam said that between him and Yang Jiewei “there is only kindness, no love.”
Yang Jiewei couldn’t think of how the two went through so many ups and downs from love to marriage. In Alan Tam’s eyes, it’s not love. Z2z
soon reported in 2008 that Yang Jiewei had shaved her hair and escaped into the empty door, causing a great sensation. Faced with this news, Alan Tam personally responded. He said to the outside world: "They I think too much and I write too much. There are no nuns in my family, and no one is a monk in my family. "Z2z
When Yang Jiewei really became a monk, it was already in 2011. This year, when Alan Tam had her 61st birthday, she fixed Zhu Yongting to her body, and Yang Jiewei was completely heartbroken to Alan Tam.
Yang Jiewei chose to be with the Buddha lamp and gave up on Alan Tam for 1 billion. In the management of the family property, Yang Jiewei gave Zhu Yongting the state that she had accompany Alan Tan to “let” Zhu Yongting.
Alan Tan led a happy life, and he loved his son Tan Xiaofeng very much. He only beat him once when Tan Xiaofeng was growing up. The reason is that Alan Tam thinks he is rude to his mother Zhu Yongting.
Tan Xiaofeng is also very good, and he was admitted to Oxford University in 2013. Alan Tam happily shared the news with his friends. According to Zeng Zhiwei's memory: "He called and told me about this. At that time, I kept talking and laughed, completely from ear to ear. We were happy for him. We didn't think that he had a son who was as good as the top pick. His school was very difficult to take the exam, and he also got the most difficult scholarship. Alan Tam is so rich and doesn't have to pay tuition. Why is this world so unfair? "Z2z
When Xiaofeng Tan graduated from University in 2017, Alan Tam posted photos of herself hugging her son on social platforms, and she was proud of it.
just has nothing to do with Yang Jiewei anymore. And with Yang Jiewei and Zhu Yongting. It has also made Alan Tam suffer a huge controversy in this life. When
was interviewed by Radio Hong Kong in early October 2020, when faced with Radio Hong Kong inquiring about his love life, Alan Tam said that he was dealing with Yang Jiewei and Zhu Yongting for personal selfishness and inheritance. In the interview, he apologized again to Yang Jiewei and Zhu Yongting, and said with emotion: "There are two wives who are not good at all. They suffer too much grievance. I hope everyone will not follow me. "Z2z
But what is the use of this apology, Yang Jiewei has been in the empty door for 9 years, and her heart is broken. Z2z
Alan Tan has lost Yang Jiewei after all.
