"Dear Myself", Gu Xiaoling is a typical woman who worships money. The only criterion for her to find a partner is that the partner must have money.
Young girls' desire for material things is reasonable, but when you ask the other party, you must also have the corresponding resource advantage in your body. Otherwise, it is difficult to be beautiful.
So Gu Xiaoling's emotional road has not been smooth, even the uncle would dislike her for not being young and lively enough.
Just when Gu Xiaoling was about to give up her dream of marrying a rich man, He Mu appeared, with his sincerity and he also put a series of things that could prove his identity to Gu Xiaoling. The wealthy people that
met before were all with a playful attitude, but He Mu was ready for a wedding, and even made careful planning for a series of things after the marriage.
Seeing that Gu Xiaoling was about to realize her wish to marry a rich man, she suddenly hesitated. The cause of the
incident was that her girlfriend and sister needed 5 million yuan to start a business. When she asked He Mu, he asked her if she had read the prenuptial agreement he gave her.
He Mu clearly mentioned in the prenuptial agreement that he did not have any financial obligations to Gu Xiaoling before marriage; the other is how long after marriage and how many children he has, Gu Xiaoling may enjoy a certain amount of property Dominate.
It is normal for rich people to sign a prenuptial agreement to insure their property so as not to pay IQ tax.
However, Gu Xiaoling suddenly questioned her choice at this time. She asked Lei Haowen, who had been pursuing herself but had no money: "If I borrow 5 million from you, if you have the money, will you lend me? "Z2z
Lei Haowen said: "I borrow it, I have to borrow it." Gu Xiaoling said: "You don't ask me what I do with it, maybe it's a bad thing?"
Lei Haowen said with a face of affection, "Your head, me I don't know yet, what else can I do besides buying bags and clothes?" Lei Haowen's words may not be reliable, but the attitude of men toward women when they spend money is often his attitude toward love.
Although the man who can give you money may not love you, but the person who cares about you money is hard to say love you.
If he marries He Mu, Gu Xiaoling will lead a life without worry, but if he lives according to the prenuptial agreement drawn up by He Mu, there are altogether nine chapters and 23 items, 347 items, covering all aspects.
also made plans for the pre-marriage, wedding, and marriage continuation stages. He Mu hopes that she will sign this agreement before the wedding preparations.
is obviously a joyful thing, but when it is really placed in front of you, it makes people hesitate. Is it really that good to marry a rich man? It's not necessarily so.
Although He Mu later gave 5 million to Gu Xiaoling, they may not be truly happy. Because Gu Xiaoling is not a person who understands the rules, she got bread and wanted love.
Women are not fools, they have already penetrated the truth of life. People who marry in love may not be happy and get what they want.
In "Thirty Only", Ms. Chen, who spent more than one million custom diamonds under the service of Wang Manni, worked hard with her husband when she was young. She was reluctant to eat and wear. After earning a rich family fortune, the man began to hate herself.
She has experienced the difficulty of starting a business, and she has been used to the hard work of poor couples. Her greed is just "want home to get better and better, and the days become more and more prosperous", but her head came to nothing.
And how long a woman’s youth lasts is just a fleeting thing. Therefore, Wang Manni is also used to seeing too many joys and sorrows, and is determined to marry a man who can satisfy love and money.
But everyone knows that fish and bear paws are sometimes hard to have both. Sometimes the arrangement of the film and television drama is just to cater to a psychological tendency of the viewers, but how can life be one for one or two for two.
Gu Xiaoling in "Dear Myself", she doesn't understand how difficult it may be to marry a robot like He Mu, so she will go to Lei Haowen to talk, because she can only let go of everything in front of him Disguise.
But she knows that marrying Lei Haowen, she doesn't want to live a life that starts from scratch. It's too tired.
then how to do itOnly then can we achieve true happiness.
More and more women begin to no longer rely on love, but choose to take control of their lives.
In a variety show, artist Yang Chaochao was asked: "Will you give up a play because of your feelings?" She immediately replied: "No, it is hard to find a good job, and a boyfriend can always find it."
Someone asked her again: "What if her boyfriend is a rich person?" Yang Chaoyue said, "That's not okay. I will ask him for money. It's a shame." The artist, she clearly knows what she wants and what she should do, and is willing to work hard for it.
is not that she is unwilling to want love, but she understands better that if you choose to give up the opportunity to earn bread when you don't have bread, and run towards a love, it is very dangerous. The final result of
is likely to lose even love. It will be very difficult to earn bread by then.
Luo Zijun in "My First Half of Life" is a good example. She listened to Chen Junsheng's "I raise you" and lay comfortably on a comfortable wedding bed. Only when she lost her marriage one day found out that she was even capable of making a living. No.
Fortunately, her friend helped her stand up bravely. When she is independent and strong enough, love is really not that difficult in her eyes.
Too many women in life understand this at the cost of their own blood and tears, but it is not too late to understand after all. Women can choose love or bread, but the premise is that you have the ability to be independent first. In
"Dear Myself", Zhang Zhizhi was deeply aware of this after experiencing the pain of marriage. She took her daughter to work hard alone, and was later proposed by a successful man, Su Lixing.
But when she made up her mind to start a family with Su Lixing, she gave up her idea because of a word from him. Su Lixing said that his favorite scene was that his lover boiled a pot of steaming soup at home after get off work and the children were well taken care of.
And this experience Zhizhi had already encountered with her ex-husband Liu Yang. At that time, she tried her best to be the best housewife and build her career—marriage, but was betrayed mercilessly.
When history was surprisingly similar, Zhang Zhizhi chose to face herself bravely. What she needs is not the protection that men can bring to her, but the confidence that she can bring to her.
More and more women are awakening, because they understand that living in this world is worse than relying on themselves.
The bread you earn by your own hard work is the most fragrant, and you can eat it more confidently. And when you can truly decide your own life, love will come on schedule.
But if there is no love, it does not prevent you from living at ease.
Because, for anyone, love is the icing on the cake, not a necessity of life. If
has it, it is best. If not, instead of looking up at the sun, it is better to be the light by yourself.
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