Article|Pan Fan Talks
The urban emotional inspirational drama "Dear Myself" starred by Liu Shishi, Zhu Yilong, Kan Qingzi and Peng Guanying etc. has been continuously topical since its broadcast, and hot searches are endless.
This drama looks a bit like "Thirty Only". In addition to the male lead, it also tells the emotional and workplace stories of three women. Even the derailment in marriage seems to be the same, but "Thirty Only" is a bit like Unreal, "Dear Myself" is more realistic.
It is worth mentioning that Zhang Zhizhi, played by Kan Qingzi in "Dear Myself", a woman who is devoted to saving money for her family and children, also did not escape the fate of being cheated.
Looks like Liu Yang (played by Peng Guanying), a small public official who doesn't have much money for a month, but he actually cheated.
Some people say that Liu Yang is another Xu Huanshan (played by Li Zefeng in "Thirty Only"), and Wei Yayun (played by Zhang Yuning) is another Lin Youyou (played by "Thirty Only" Zhang Yue Character).
But what I want to say is that compared to Xu Huanshan Liu Yang is not even qualified to be "scum", at least Xu Huanshan is a boss anyway, of course this does not mean that men can be "scum" as long as they have money.
A man like Liu Yang who can't even pay for the surgery when his mother is hospitalized, really don't know where his confidence comes from?
Let's talk about Wei Yayun again, saying that she is another Lin Youyou, how do I feel that I am insulting Lin Youyou? Of course, this is not just to justify the "Little San".
Why do you say Wei Yayun?
keeps saying that she loves Liu Yang. When Liu Yang was asked about an accident, she beat Liu Yang to get rid of herself, so that Liu Yang was fired by the unit.
This woman is young, but her mind is wrong. What she calls "love" is to find a backer for herself in the work unit. If the backer falls, protect yourself first.
But she ruined an originally intact home. Of course, the flies don't bite, and Liu Yang is not a good bird!
looked at Wei Yayun and suddenly realized that Lin Youyou is "good". Of course, Lin Youyou is not a good person, but compared to Wei Yayun, Lin Youyou is still much better.
Liu Yang was unemployed. Zhang Zhizhi asked him for the child's support, but he couldn't get it out. There must be something hateful poor people, , he was talking about people like him.
Just when he found a job with the help of a friend, he suddenly fainted. As a result, he was sent to the hospital for a checkup of illness and was hospitalized for recuperation. Zhang Zhizhi felt compassionate when he saw this situation!
Liu Yang, who has experienced all this, can see the true face of Wei Yayun, and also see Zhang Zhizhi's goodness, and wants Zhang Zhizhi's forgiveness.
As for whether Liu Yang can be forgiven by Zhang Zhizhi? According to the trend of the conventional plot, Liu Yang and Zhang Zhizhi are also destined to reconcile as before and give the audience a satisfactory result.
Whether it is Xu Huanshan in "Thirty Only" or Liu Yang in "Dear Myself", after derailing, both expressed their regrets and wanted his wife's forgiveness. The
screenwriter writes the plot in this way, in fact, it is also conveying a point of view to the audience, that is, "the man who cheats in the marriage of has no good end" and "the wife is still the original partner."
Xu Huanshan was in jail, only to understand that Gu Jia (the role played by Tong Yao in "Thirty Only") did everything for him. After Liu Yang was unemployed, he saw Wei Yayun's true face and remembered Zhang Zhizhi's goodness.
Although Xu Huanshan's imprisonment and Liu Yang's unemployment were not directly caused by derailment, they are more or less related to derailment!
So, after the "scum", you know how to cherish men who want to reform, should they be forgiven?
This depends on the specific situation. Just like Zhang Zhizhi in the play, it is not easy to bring a child by yourself. There are still many characters like her in real life. If Liu Yang really repents and doesn’t do anything else, even if it is For the sake of the child, Zhang Zhizhi is also very likely to choose to reconcile and giveA complete home for the child.
In reality, many people will make the same choice as Zhang Zhizhi!
However, the incident of a man cheating, it will be like a scar, it will meet the lives of two people from time to time. If
recombines, there will be stumbling again in life, this scar will become a man’s pigtail and will be pulled from time to time.
Although I agree with many plots or real-life re-acceptance of such a "reformed" man, it does not mean that I will be willing to accept it.
If you are Zhang Zhizhi, would you like to accept Liu Yang again?
