Lu Yao "Ordinary World"
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Introduction:
"Ordinary World" is a writer The novel written by Lu Yao won the "China's Third Mao Dun Literary Award". The novel is as long as one million characters and has three novels. It was first published in December 1986.
The novel takes the ten years from the mid-70s to the mid-80s in China as its creative background. It portrays the vivid images of many ordinary people from all walks of life in the society at that time, and presents contemporary urban and rural social life in China in a panoramic manner.
In the process of reading this book, you can have different degrees of insights about life, career, love, daily life and social conflicts.
It can be said that "The Ordinary World" is a comprehensive life revelation, which shows the process of ordinary people in the tide of the times. It also tells us: Under the ordinary world, there can be extraordinary things. life.
If your lover loves Tian Runye, if you marry a wife, he will marry He Xiulian.
This is what most readers will feel after reading "The Ordinary World".
Run Ye, as Sun Shaoan’s first love when he was young, always carried a heart of innocence. He did not compromise under the pressure of the world, nor was he shaken by the huge gap between the two.
No matter how many years in the past, the person who fell in love with her when she was young has always lived in her heart.
She can take the initiative to confess for love, or she can choose to understand after she is given up. Even if she finally marries someone else, she will always be Sun Shaoan's mind.
If Tian Runye's sincerity has amazed Sun Shaoan's green years, then He Xiulian is the person who has warmed Sun Shaoping for the rest of his life.
1: Before marriage, no promise of bride price
After Tian Runye expressed his heart to Sun Shaoan, he panicked.
is not only because I feel I can’t climb high, but also because I can’t bear to drag Run Ye into the water. After all, the situation in Sun Shaoan’s family is too complicated.
His parents have been farmers for a lifetime, relying on the sky to feed, and are always struggling with food and clothing. For this reason, he himself had to choose to drop out of school and go home to help. There is a sick grandmother on
, and two younger brothers and sisters who go to school underneath. As the eldest son in the family, Sun Shaoping is under too much pressure.
In the village, most of the men his age are already married and married, and the reason why he lags behind others is because he is too poor.
The daily expenses of the family are already stretched, not to mention the many gifts when they get married, they don’t even have a decent new house.
He belongs to Love Tian Runye, but he can't give her anything. This kind of helplessness based on reality is the reason Sun Shaoan had to refuse this feeling.
is different from the courage of running the leaves and breaking the boat, Sun Shaoan is not only sober, but also pragmatic.
What he wants is not a love, but a suitable marriage. Rather than finding a woman he loves deeply, he wants to find a partner who can accompany him through hardships.
And his blind date, Xiulian, fits this perfectly.
Because he was very satisfied with the man Sun Shaoan, He Xiulian did not ask for a gift.
She does not have the knowledge and talent of Run Ye, but she has the same good qualities as most rural women: simplicity, diligence, kindness, and selflessness.
When Sun Shaoan confessed to her about her poverty situation, not only did she not dislike him for being poor, but she also wanted to work hard with him.
is just a series of behaviors before marriage, and the image of He Xiulian is already on paper.
Two people go to buy clothes together, Xiulian only needs the cheapest material, it does not matter if there is no new house, only two people have a place to live. Save everything that can be saved, not vanity, nor love for face.
Sun Shaoan, who missed his true love, found all her imagination about the future in He Xiulian.
He Xiulian, who doesn't want a gift, gave up too many things in order to marry Sun Shaoan.
Like Runye, she also loves Sun Shaoan deeply. Unlike the former childhood sweetheart, her affection is more mature and fanatical.
Before marriage, she is willing to give up interest for love, and after marriage, she can sacrifice everything for happiness.
Her native family is not bad, but she is willing to fall to the bottom for Sun Shaoan and help him.
Two: After marriage, give all of your contributions
He Xiulian marries the man she loves as she wishes, but how big is her longing before marriage and the psychological gap after marriage Just how big.
She thought that no matter how difficult life is, if two people move forward hand in hand, there will always be the day when the sun is set aside. But when she really became a grandson's wife, she realized how naive she was.
She is Sun Shao'an's wife, and she needs to take care of his daily life and give birth to children. At the same time, she has to be a grand-daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, and elder sister-in-law, and devote herself to the whole family.
is obviously married to a person, but has to bear a lot of responsibilities.
She is not without complaints, but because she loves the man in front of her too much, she chooses to be patient again and again.
She has talked about the separation of the family more than once. In her opinion, if the young couple were alone, life would be better than now.
However, Sun Shaoan will be unhappy every time he hears such advice.
Yes, he is really a good son, a good brother, but when he plays these roles, he forgets that he is still a woman's husband.
Moreover, the woman who married him has always been with him and has never enjoyed a day of blessing.
He Xiulian is willing, but it does not mean that she does not have the slightest care.
Not only does she mind that she can't get the happiness of the two lives, but also that she can't stand Sun Shaoan alone to carry all the hardships.
Therefore, every time she was responsible for serving meals to her family, she would give Sun Shaoan the thickest part. Without him, it was because she felt so sorry for him.
Faced with such practices, what is Sun Shaoan's attitude?
Not only did he not appreciate his love, he also accused his wife.
It turns out that in his eyes, the so-called husband and wife relationship is placed behind his family, or in other words, he must be a good son and a good brother before he can think of being a competent husband.
Since she married Sun Shaoan, He Xiulian has become his accessory, smiling for his smile, crying for his crying, busy for his family, and working hard for his career .
The mule used by Sun Shaoan for the first time as a migrant worker was obtained by He Xiulian when he went to her family’s home to borrow money. Sun Shaoan was frustrated in running a brick factory, and Xiulian helped to fill the financial vacancy.
According to the current standards, He Xiulian's marriage can be regarded as a genuine poverty-relief marriage.
The "poverty alleviation" here includes not only material assistance and support, but also spiritual companionship and recognition.
In a sense, it was He Xiulian who made Sun Shaoan.
She did not want to give a gift, and gave Sun Shaoan a chance to get married. After marriage, she worked hard and complained and was the biggest motivation for Sun Shaoan on the way forward.
3: Ending, rest in peace after a half-worked life
He Xiulian is a good woman, but she failed to have a good ending.
She worked half of her life for this family and accompanied Sun Shaoan through countless troughs. When everything was about to complete, she fell seriously ill.
When everything is welcoming the dawn, she is almost dead.
This is the last scene that many people want to see, which is a point that many people cannot understand.
Why does Lu Yao, as the author, set her ending so miserably? It seems that she is the noble person in Sun Shaoan's destiny. The mission of helping Sun Shaoan get rid of poverty has been completed, and it is time for her to end.
But if you go back to the source and understand the cause of He Xiulian's death, you will find the answer to all this.
He Xiulian in marriage is the third mother desperately, whether she is a daughter-in-law, wife or someone else's sister-in-law, she is always dripping.
She who devoted everything to her marriage has long forgotten to love herself.
It is no exaggeration to say that she is exhausted from illness.
It is true that He Xiulian is the ideal wife in the eyes of many men, but even the best woman needs care and consideration.
Her dedication and deep love are her choice as a wife. Similarly, as a husband, consideration and compassion should also be a man's responsibility.
Perhaps, this is why Lu Yao wrote this ending.
He Xiulian is a perfect wife, but after all, this perfection is just a dream written by the author, or in other words, a dream written by Lu Yao to all men.
As a man, don’t expect a woman to pay for yourself without reservation. Husbands and wives have always achieved each other; as a husband, don’t ignore the demands and feelings of his wife. The long-lasting intimacy has always been It's mutual.
He Xiulian in the book finally turned into a piece of loess, which also means that many people’s dreams should wake up.
He Xiulian is the best person, but the ending is the worst. This is precisely Lu Yao's brilliance. He is reminding men: cherish the people in front of you who are paying for you.
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