Margaret Mitchell "Gone with the Wind"
Illustration: Stills from the movie "Gone with the Wind"
Introduction to the work:
The novel "Gone with the Wind" is an American writer Margaret Mitchell, with the American Civil War as the background, tells the story of Scarlett's love entanglement and the turnaround in the war, the eldest daughter of the farmer of the Southern Tara Manor, and finally from a wayward and proud big Miss, a story about becoming a strong woman in the wave of times.
portrays many classic character influences, whether it is the heroine Scarlett. Melanie, as well as the male protagonists, Brad and Ashley, are all remarkable, and they have left a deep impact on us. The stories between them have also left us with varying degrees of inspiration.
This novel won the Pulitzer Prize for Literature in 1937. Over the years, it is still an indelible classic in the hearts of many people.
If you ask about the most regrettable part of the novel "Gone with the Wind", my answer is: Melanie died in childbirth. But many people may think: Scarlett and Reid separated, the most regrettable.
Scarlett loves the wrong person. Rhett can't wait for her to turn around. Finally, Melanie passed away. Scarlett finally jumped out of the cage of fantasy, hoping to start again with Rhett, but Rhett at this time , But turned and left because he was disappointed enough. A proud man who worked silently for his beloved woman for many years, and finally waited for her to wake up, but he gave up decisively. What a pity.
I thought this way when I was young, but when I was an adult, not only did I feel sorry, but instead thought that Rhett was right to leave.
Reid took the initiative to give up Scarlett, and left behind years of hard work. It seems that he has given up this relationship, failed to achieve his previous wish, failed to make this relationship mature and harvested successfully. The ending; In fact, Reid has already become the biggest winner in these years. It is a wise choice to take the initiative to leave, and to stop the loss in time is the greatest responsibility for your feelings and yourself.
Reid Aisijiali has surpassed loving herself, and the relationship itself has been out of balance.
If Rhett continues to stay with Scarlett, he is giving Scarlett the hope of restoring the good old, but in fact, he has already lost patience with her. With a personality like Scarlett, the things Melanie confessed to her will definitely be done well, and she will definitely spare no effort to take care of Melanie's children and Melanie's husband, Ashley.
Although Scarlett has begun to despise Ashley and has found that she does not love him, this does not mean that Ashley will not take the initiative to approach her, and will even begin to rely on her.
These Rhetts have to endure, Rhett has silently endured for many years, and now they have to endure them. Even if Scarlett really doesn't like Ashley anymore, as long as Ashley is still with Scarlett, it will be enough for Rhett to mind.
Just ask, which man can accept, his wife has another person in her heart?
Even if you don’t have him in your heart, you still live together?
Now take the initiative to leave, it can even show that Rhett is sober, facing this relationship is really no regrets, and really does not care about Scarlett's future life. From then on, it is the best choice to live independently.
Passively giving up feelings may be regrettable, but Reid gives up actively. He loved, worked hard, gave up his principles for her, tried his best, and there is no regret.
Feelings with regret are usually regrettable, but Rhett will not. His departure is a farewell to Scarlett. He will not look back, nor will he easily regret what he has done. the man. Although Rhett's reputation is not good, but with his perseverance and unyielding character, he can do nothing, he can bear the burden of humiliation, and he can just leave.
Here in Scarlett, Rhett has no regrets for everything he has given. He can meet another similar self in a parallel world. The two people are like fighting monsters and upgrading, dealing with each other, and growing up with each other. A blessing in life. I didn't flinch when it was time to talk about love, and I didn't entangled when I didn't love.
Leaving is not becauseNot to love, but because I can no longer love.
Ruide has been loving sincerely for many years, so much so that he has forgotten how to love himself. He is tired and his love is exhausted. Leaving is the last dignity for himself.
One: A good love will never disappoint the encounter-Falling in love with Scarlett, Reid has never regretted
The first time in Twelve Oaks Manor When they met, Rhett saw Scarlett's difference from the crowd at a glance. Her unique temperament and the dress specially arranged for excellence were enough to attract attention. Reid stared at Scarlett intently, watching her say hello to different people, and desperately trying to attract others' attention, knowing that this woman is extraordinary.
When she ran into Scarlett from the study again during lunch break, Rhett discovered the secret that Scarlett liked Ashley.
Scarlett was ashamed of being rejected by Ashley at the time, and Rhett was still ridiculing, so in Scarlett's impression, Rhett was a cynical and not gentleman man.
Of course, this is not Rhett's heart, he just wants to explore Scarlett's heart with this, hoping to enter her heart.
Before Ruide left, he confessed to Scarlett that he had hesitated many times during the years of pursuing her, and I wonder if she should know her love. Rhett even believed that he could occupy Scarlett's heart, but she did not expect that Ashley was the only one in her heart.
Things backfired, Rhett failed to wake Scarlett in time, but after all, he did not regret and fell in love with her desperately. Because in the process, he gradually became a better self.
Two: Good love, will not let down the process-Falling in love with Scarlett, Reid tried his best
Reid from the moment he fell in love with Scarlett , I just hope this woman will one day like herself like Ashley. At the fundraising ball in Atlanta, Rhett met Scarlett again, and because he could see through her uncontrollable mind, he invited her to dance with a high profile.
Reid told her at this moment: "One day you will propose to me."
But the truth is that instead of waiting for Scarlett’s proposal, he quietly became her driver. At that time he knew that Scarlett is not easy to get, she has her own pride.
Ruide knows that Scarlett likes to participate in social dance parties, likes to socialize and attract others' attention, so she thinks of ways to make her happy.
Since Scarlett lived in Atlanta's aunt's house, Rhett went to "please" every day, wait for Scarlett to go downstairs, and take her to the dance party to participate in activities. Scarlett was extremely excited, as if she had found her hope in life again, after all, she had been in mourning until then.
Reid tried her best to meet Scarlett’s needs, hoping she could know her intentions.
Soon after living in Atlanta, the Civil War became more and more fierce, and the unfortunate news from the front gradually came that the people of Atlanta were in a mess and fled frantically. Scarlett was scared when she saw all this. Rhett went to the street to find her, hoping to take Scarlett out of here to a safer place.
But Scarlett didn't appreciate her, so Rhett had to wait with her.
Scarlett gradually realized that the situation was not good, but because of her commitment to Ashley, she wanted to help him take care of Melanie and the children. Melanie had not given birth yet. Scarlett was unable to leave, lying weakly on the bed alone.
Seeing the fierce battle, Melanie was facing a dystocia, Scarlett helped deliver the baby by herself. All the fears and worries at the time were twisted into a ball and got stuck in Scarlett's throat.
She asked someone to call for Rhett. The moment he saw Rhett, Scarlett instantly became the backbone. Rhett sent them out of Atlanta overnight despite the danger to their lives.
Later, Reid left Scarlett to join the army. At the time of parting, Reid confessed to her and told Scarlett how much he cared about her. After the two separated, Rhett turned back to Tara several times to secretly visit Scarlett, wondering if he should see her.He really loves Scarlett, the suffering and all the misfortune she has suffered, but he doesn't know whether he can make Scarlett fall in love with him.
All this was spoken by Reid himself before leaving. He also said: "I love you to the extreme point where a man loves a woman. I have loved you for many years before I got you."
This sentence is Red's sincere words, he tossed and turned for Scarlett. The contradiction was entangled, but in the end, the inner voice told him to come back to Scarlett, even if she didn't care about herself.
When Ruide loves someone, he makes every effort and effort. Even after the war, she still risked being arrested and went to Scarlett the first time she wanted to give her money to help her tide over the difficulties.
Reid did not regret the love he did so hard at the beginning, even if there was no result in the end, but after all, he did his best and there would be no regrets.
Three: Good love, will not live up to the result-never regretted, turned and parted For many years, Rhett will still have at least some love for herself, so she wants to fight for it at the end. But Rhett laughed. He thought Scarlett was still innocent like a child, so he told her clearly:
"No, there is no love at all, love is exhausted, now there is only what is left, it should be It's sympathy and pity."
Reid has never lied to Scarlett, and the words have been sincere so far. Reid does not have to cover up the fact that he still loves Scarlett, and simply speaks directly.
If you don’t love, you don’t love anymore. Since you don’t love anymore, what is the point of staying around? It is better to leave each other to find a better tomorrow.
Scarlett realized that she had missed so much precious love. Today's compassion and sympathy are the two feelings she least want, which is equivalent to contempt. Thinking of this, Scarlett stopped her humble request, stood up proudly, endured the grievances in her heart, and let Rhett leave.
Reid walked magnanimously and calmly, without any inclination to let go, nor caring about the big house in Atlanta, who would live in in the future. Scarlett and Ashley's future lives are completely irrelevant to him.
How he could afford it at the beginning, now he can turn around and leave with confidence.
The words Reid said to Scarlett before parting are what I have wanted to say but have not said for many years, and it is also the first time to communicate with Scarlett so peacefully. I confessed my heart for many years, that is, I showed my love to Scarlett, and at the same time gave myself an explanation.
Although these loves have never received a response, they are indeed proof of their love. Since it is not cherished, then take it back. At any time, one should not love a person more than oneself, otherwise, he is bound to face loss.
To say regret, if Rhett did not confess this, Scarlett was still kept in the dark, this is a pity. But they are not. They are sober and see each other clearly. There is no need to cover up and pretend. Love well when you love, and separate generously when you don't love. This is due to the character of the two people, and it is also the pride that has always been in the bones.
The most regrettable thing is that it is often not the failure after hard work, but the initiative to give up on many things without daring to try. Reid has taken the initiative to pursue everything he loves, but he didn't succeed, but he didn't regret it. Love is a process in which you want to get what you need and what you lose. I have loved seriously when I am in love, even if I have gone through thousands of miles, the experience of this journey is worth it.
Since it's worth it, since I've loved it, since I really don't love it anymore, what regrets leaving? This is the expression of love being open and sincere.
Reid can afford to put it down, this is a kind of chic, and it is the most direct manifestation of his independent personality.
It is right for him to leave. There is no regret. He has no way to grow up with Scarlett. The only thing that can make her grow up is time.
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If it were you, would you love someone without a bottom line?
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