In the TV series "Knowing Whether It Should Be Green, Fat, Red, Thin", the heroine Sheng Minglan has three relationships before and after, namely, the little father-in-law Qi Heng, He Hongwen, and finally married husband Gu Tingye. The young and beautiful relationship between Ming Lan and Xiao Gongye Qi Heng is really beautiful and moving, but the two finally did not come together, which made many people deeply regret. After Ming Lan weighed the pros and cons with her grandmother, He Hongwen, who was more compatible in all aspects, was also decisively abandoned by Ming Lan because Cao Jinxiu came out halfway. In the end, she married Gu Tingye, who had a strong personality and had a strategic role.
Although Minglan failed to marry Xiaogongye or He Hongwen in the end, based on Minglan’s situation and growth experience, we can draw a conclusion that is to marry Gu Tingye , Minglan can live as herself, marrying two other people, Minglan can only live as a good wife! What is missed may be just inappropriate.
Little father-in-law Qi Heng, no matter his appearance, talent, character, and family roots, he is an extraordinary character, and he is the coveted couple of many girls of the right age. The county owner and Rong Feiyan admire him. Such high-ranking and upstarts, as well as several young ladies in the family of Shenghong, the five-ranked official of the Qingliu, are all attracted by the gentleman's temperament of Xiaogongye, and Minglan is compared to the above few girls. , She is too ordinary.
She is cautious and concealed a little foolishness, and she is responsible for living the life in front of her. There is no other way to think, just like a Cinderella, but she is just as good as a prince. But with a wise eye and knowing the bead, in the midst of the plump swallows and the thin red flying emerald, she fell in love with the forbearing and elegant Minglan, who can be loved by such an excellent young man, although Minglan has to be due to the difference in status I refused him again and again, but my heart was still infinitely happy, so under Qi Heng’s affectionate and dedicated offensive, Ming Lan finally slightly removed the impeccable mask of conformity that had been invulnerable since growing up, showing her true heart. Knowing that he cannot do anything, he is willing to fight for the future of both of them for Qi Heng.
It’s a pity that Ming Lan just waited, Qi Heng recognized her as her sister, and Qi Heng married the county lord. Ming Lan cried bitterly about this and fell ill. . For a long time, this is the only time Minglan listened to her own inner feelings without weighing the pros and cons, but she died quickly, and also made her the laughingstock of the whole Bianjing. From then on, she decisively withdrew from herself. Her obsession had returned to the formerly appropriate, steady and impeccable Six Girl, she was not unable to extricate herself from memories and unwillingness. Let’s analyze it here. If Minglan gets Minglan as she wishes after Xiao Gongye’s first bereaved wife, then can Minglan be satisfied with the happiness?
It is estimated that after marriage, she will still have to live the same cautious and proper self in Sheng's house and become a dignified and decent wife. Because her husband’s family has the highest rank, and her mother-in-law, Princess Changning, is also a arrogant and powerful person. The little grandpa obeys and respects his parents everywhere. Minglan can only live in the model of a good wife. Thoughts live freely.
Let’s talk about the gentle and considerate warm man He Hongwen. In fact, when Minglan met him for the first time, his hard-working insights from the woman made people very popular. It was not easy for him to think about women at that time. In a society where men are superior to women, it is not easy. It can be seen that he is very compassionate and pity for women, and at the same time he has a very good impression of Minglan. Unfortunately, his heart is too soft to do things a bit indecisive, and a cousin Cao Jinxiu will be able to disturb the people and animals in his family. After Ming Lan got married, even if He Hongwen treated him well, it was obvious that Ming Lan had to worry about everything by herself after the meeting and needed to manage the family well according to the standards of a good wife.
Let’s talk about Gu Tingye again. Gu Tingye’s growth and rebelliousness in his youth have gone through a lot of ups and downs. He was miserably deceived by his stepmother Xiao Qin and Zhu Manniang outside the room, so he knows the back house well. Inside the twists and turns, he understands the difficulty of the back house, and at the same time he is a very independent person, determined and responsible. Long ago, when Wei Xingshou saw Ming Lan's heroic figure on the polo field, it showed that Lan was alive and well.When it was like the sun, Gu Tingye sighed and said, "You don't know her, she actually lives very hard!"
He sees through the impeccable appearance of Minglan when it fits. What is hidden is infinite depression and grievance, and he is very distressed about Minglan’s situation and does not want her to suffer any more. Feeling wronged, he explained that Lan marries himself and dare not say that the weather is good, but he promises that in the future, where is he ranking among men, and how many she will be among women! These words slammed into Minglan's heart like thunder.
Ming Lan grew up so big and has never shown the look that appeared after Gu Tingye’s confession to her, the kind of high stride and the joy of raising eyebrows, for the first time Appearing on her face, you don't need to live in violation of your heart, and one day you can no longer suppress your nature and release yourself, and live freely and freely. After marriage, Gu Tingye did fulfill the promise he made to her.
After marriage, Minglan finally does not need to hide under the wings of her grandmother in her parents' family. Finally, she can openly and forcefully seek justice for her unjustly deceased girl. After her grandmother is poisoned, she can swiftly and vigorously preside over justice for her grandmother. She can finally express her true opinion of Sheng Hong in her heart over the years. Suddenly, Sheng Hong felt that she had become the chess piece that he could never pick up again.
At her husband’s house, Ming Lan doesn’t bother to deal with her in-laws, because Gu Tingye supports her in all aspects, and she doesn’t need to get involved in the dispute between his wives and concubines, because Gu Tingye only sees her in his heart. Whether Lan marries Qi Heng or He Hongwen, he will inevitably suffer one of them. After marrying Gu Tingye, she did not have to follow the strict rules of the nobles at the time to be a well-behaved big lady, because Gu Tingye herself was an unruly and unruly person. Minglan just be yourself! This comparison only revealed that Ming Lan can live as herself when married to Gu Tingye, but Ming Lan can only live as a good wife when marrying other people!
