well-known actor Chen Xiaoxu , played the role of Lin Daiyu , who had a grim face, outstanding temperament but haggard face. In addition to being an actor, she is also a businessman and has a good writing style.
She has starred in film and television works such as "Family Style", " Dream of Red Mansions ", and " Family Spring and Autumn ". Fortunately, they are all high-quality works.
has a bright future in the film and television industry. Unexpectedly, she transformed into business and achieved a billionaire. She was also the best advertising person in the 20th century and won the honorary title of "China's Person of the Year".
Whether it is acting or doing business, Chen Xiaoxu is a king. She is already a winner in life, but she became a monk at the age of 41 and became a monk.
However, things are unpredictable. Less than 3 months after becoming a monk, Chen Xiaoxu unfortunately passed away due to breast cancer , which made the rest of his life ache for his parents and made thousands of fans feel uneasy.
years after Chen Xiaoxu passed away, her husband who accompanied her to become a monk had married another person, and her parents' insistence made people cry...
965, Chen Xiaoxu was born in Anshan, Liaoning, and grew up in a family full of artistic atmosphere.
Father Chen Qiang has a profound attainment in opera. The Anshan Theater Troupe is also a good mother, and is a well-known dancer in the local area.
It is said that when Wang Yuanxi was pregnant, he had a strange dream. Someone named the fetus in his belly "Yefen".
After the master's dream interpretation analysis, he felt that "Yefen" was very unlucky. The scientific name of Yefen was Aphrodisiac , which belongs to the herbal plant , and has barbed stems and leaves.
The master admitted: "Yefen is not good, and he has the same fate as Lin Daiyu, so he recommends changing his name."
As we all know, the master's criticism of fate is not credible, but it is related to the child. Chen Xiaoxu's parents, based on the mentality of "It is better to trust the existence than to trust the absence", really changed their name for their daughter.
Chen Xiaoxu was born just after dawn and when the morning light first appeared, he was named "Xiaoxu", which means to overcome all difficulties and break through the darkness.
As a dancer, Wang Xiyuan has a soft appearance and a weak personality, while Chen Qiang, as a director, is just the opposite, strong and outgoing.
Grown up in such a family atmosphere, Chen Xiaoxu is different from his mother and is different from his father. She looks weak on the outside and has to be strong on the inside and stubborn on the inside.
After graduating from middle school, affected by the general environment, his peers either went to the countryside to be educated youth or to work as workers in factories. His parents could not bear to have their daughter suffer and silently planned for Chen Xiaoxu's future.
As the director, the father hoped that his daughter could inherit his father's business and engage in the Peking Opera industry. Chen Xiaoxu's choice surprised his parents.
978, Chen Xiaoxu, who had just graduated from elementary school, entered the Anshan Acrobatics Troupe to learn art under the arrangement of his parents. Her boring academic career made her worried. Fortunately, the ballet dance made her smile.
secretly practiced ballet short interval became the only dawn in Chen Xiaoxu's boring life.
Because of love, I invest.
Chen Xiaoxu was immersed in the world of ballet and devoted a lot of time and energy to it. He could do the difficult movement of "kicking the gold pot backwards" at the age of only 12.
even successfully passed the ballet exam, but unfortunately, due to his father's special reasons, he was ruthlessly eliminated in the final review stage.
In the cruel collision between ideals and reality, Chen Xiaoxu felt the helplessness and vicissitudes of life.
In order to relieve inner grief, Chen Xiaoxu developed a good habit of reading books. She was familiar with famous Chinese and foreign works, including "Jane Eyre" and "Dream of Red Mansions".
is especially fond of "Dream of Red Mansions". He can memorize many chapters and even specially prepared a notebook for the character "Lin Daiyu" in the book to record what he feels and thinks.
Long-term reading, Chen Xiaoxu's literary background has become increasingly revealed. At the age of 14, he published his first poem in his life, " I am a willow catkin " in Youth Magazine.
Chen Xiaoxu's knowledge and literary skills are booming. Unfortunately, the acrobatic group , which she had been to for more than 3 years, went bankrupt due to poor management, so she could only make another way to live.
979, shortly after the acrobatic troupe was disbanded, Chen Xiaoxu, a talented woman with a reputation, received an olive branch from Anshan Drama Theater.
During her repertory troupe, Chen Xiaoxu was responsible for the report work. The wonderful performances of the actors on stage aroused the curiosity of the girl.
In addition to completing his job, Chen Xiaoxu also spontaneously rehearsed with the actors. She was willing to endure hardships and was eager to learn. She soon learned well and was often arranged to play a supporting role on stage.
1982, 17-year-old Chen Xiaoxu was invited to star in his first film and television drama "Family Style" in his life, playing the role of "Liu Damei".
That year, Chen Xiaoxu was in a happy mood, made new breakthroughs in his career, and good news came from his relationship.
Chen Xiaoxu's face is beautiful, and he can stand out even in the theater troupe of beautiful women. There were many people chasing her at that time.
When he saw Chen Xiaoxu's arrogance as cold as ice and frost, most people retreated after confessing his love but failed.
Only 10 years older than her Bi Yanjun has been persisting. Bi Yanjun knows the long-lasting knowledge and has always cared for Chen Xiaoxu as his brother. When the time is right, he confesses his love and captures the goddess's heart as he wishes.
If it weren't for Bi Yanjun, maybe Chen Xiaoxu would have passed by "Lin Daiyu".
1983, Bi Yanjun, who has always liked reading and reading newspapers, saw an advertisement for collecting actors in the newspaper of "Dream of Red Mansions".
knows that Chen Xiaoxu likes "Dream of Red Mansions". In order to please his girlfriend, Bi Yanjun immediately informed the other party of this good news.
That day, Chen Xiaoxu was still reading a book in the house. Bi Yanjun's urgent shout came from outside the door. He stumbled in and said anxiously: "Xiaoxu, do you know? "Dream of Red Mansions" recruits actors, I think you can try it."
Listening to her boyfriend's words, Chen Xiaoxu's expression quickly changed from confusion to astonishment, which was undoubtedly good news for her. She hurriedly put down the book in her hand and couldn't wait to snatch the newspaper in her boyfriend's hand.
But before I finished reading the newspaper, Chen Xiaoxu's heart, which had just been excited, instantly sank into the bottom of the valley, and his delicate face was filled with sorrow.
Bi Yanjun saw her concerns at a glance, and encouraged Chen Xiaoxu gently and patiently : "I believe you can do it, go with a try."
has the encouragement and trust of her boyfriend, which made Chen Xiaoxu, who was unsure, feels a little confident. After making up his mind, he wrote a self-recommendation letter and sent it to the strange and longing place.
In addition to the letters, the envelope also includes photos that Chen Xiaoxu is proud of and poems written when he was 14 years old.
Since the news of the recruitment of actors in a magazine and newspaper, the crew has received thousands of letters from all over the country every day.
The director team carefully checks every letter in accordance with the attitude of rather wasting one more minute than missing someone.
There are countless people who are beautiful, and not many people can meet the requirements of the original work until director Wang Fulin opens Chen Xiaoxu's letter.
In order to save time, Wang Fulin usually looks at the photos first and looks at the content. If his appearance does not meet the requirements, he will not look at the content again. After all, as an actor, without the support of his appearance and full of talent, there is no use.Chen Xiaoxu in the photo is in his youth, and his beautiful eyebrows and eyes are faintly revealing a bit of depression. This form coincides with Lin Daiyu in Wang Fulin's heart.
What surprised him even more was that Chen Xiaoxu not only looked in line with aesthetics, but also knowledgeable. He had read the original book "Dream of Red Mansions" well, and immediately wrote back to inform Chen Xiaoxu to come to Beijing for an audition.
Chen Xiaoxu stood out among the many candidates for Lin Daiyu and successfully won the corner of Lin Daiyu.
From 1984, from being confused to participating in the performance, and then to the end of filming, after three years of hard time,
987, "Dream of Red Mansions" was released as expected and was officially broadcast on TV. Whether it is the director or the actors, including Chen Xiaoxu, are very nervous, and they care especially about the outside world's evaluation of the work.
Fortunately, he worked hard and created the classics of the times. "Dream of Red Mansions" has been well received. The plot developed into a topic of conversation for the people after dinner at that time.
As the starring actor, Chen Xiaoxu became famous overnight and was given the beauty of "My Lady Lin", becoming a famous popular actress.
High-quality resources are coming to her, and there are already many suitors, and more people will be gained after becoming popular.
Chen Xiaoxu has long been accustomed to it, but there is a person who is anxious and always feels that his status is threatened. That person is Chen Xiaoxu's then boyfriend Bi Yanjun.
Fortunately, Chen Xiaoxu is also a person who values love and friendship. After becoming famous, he did not forget Bi Yanjun. While his reputation became popular, the relationship between the two gradually warmed up.
In order to make this relationship bear fruit, Bi Yanjun decisively gave up the stable work of Anshan and came to Beijing for love.
Shortly after the broadcast of "Dream of Red Mansions", Chen Xiaoxu got married with Bi Yanjun, who was 10 years older than him.
After marriage, Chen Xiaoxu's popularity continued to rise and was invited to film and television works such as "Black Grapes" and "Family Spring and Autumn". The role he played is still a type of depression and sorrow.
Although the popularity is high, the resources are good. Unfortunately, the character "Lin Daiyu" was portrayed too successfully. Even in subsequent films, there were excellent performances, so it was difficult for the audience to remember.
has a reputation but no market. In a short period of time, from being crowded to being ignored, the directors who once begged Chen Xiaoxu to film have long disappeared.
Acting career has gradually declined, and the same is true for love life. Chen Xiaoxu is far more famous than her husband Bi Yanjun. The marriage of a strong woman and a weak man is gradually unbalanced.
plus professional factors, the conflicts are gradually revealed because of the reasons such as filming, which leads to the separation of two people and the disagreement of personality. This marriage, which is 10 years apart, soon ended in divorce.
html In the early 190s, Chen Xiaoxu suffered setbacks in his love and acting career. She decided to stop and change the track, and
transformed from an actor to a businessman.
991, under the guidance of a friend, Chen Xiaoxu joined Great Wall Advertising Co., Ltd., where he served as the general manager of the production department.
crossed the industry like a mountain. As a newcomer to advertising, Chen Xiaoxu has always maintained humility and continuous learning, and his business ability is improving at a speed visible to the naked eye.
Business ability has improved, but due to personality factors, Chen Xiaoxu repeatedly hits walls when negotiating cooperation.
Chen Xiaoxu was a little willful and refused interviews with business reporters many times. Her partner invited her to dinner was also ruthlessly rejected by her.
Father Chen Qiang saw that his daughter was so willful and in order to make Chen Xiaoxu's career smoother, he criticized her severely.
On the surface, Chen Xiaoxu changed it, but in fact he was still very willful at heart. When he invited a customer to a meal, he ordered a table of vegetarian dishes without saying a word. The customer was very angry about this and almost missed the opportunity to cooperate.
Fortunately, Chen Xiaoxu has always been helping him, and this noble man later became her second husband.
992, Chen Xiaoxu got married with Hao Tong, a former CCTV director. Hao Tong graduated from the famous film and television institution Beijing Film Academy . He is also a talented person. He met Chen Xiaoxu in filming in
991. They were both single and admired each other. They quickly developed into lovers and their relationship progressed rapidly. After only one year of being together, they entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, influenced by Chen Xiaoxu, Hao Tong also entered the advertising industry. Since then, the two of them have combined their swords and become an enviable business couple.
In the fourth year of marriage, Chen Xiaoxu left the original company and founded Beijing Shibang United Advertising Company to serve as CEO, while her husband Hao Tong served as general manager.
At that time, the advertising industry was just starting out. Hao Tong's planning and copywriting skills, coupled with Chen Xiaoxu's celebrity effect, the advertising company quickly became popular.
quickly helped Chen Xiaoxu achieve a billion-dollar fortune. He was also rated as "30 outstanding female advertisers in China" by professional media, becoming one of the most outstanding female entrepreneurs. After making money, Chen Xiaoxu did not enjoy it in time, but bought a house for his family in a prosperous area in Beijing so that his parents who had been busy for half their lives could live a stable life.
Chen Xiaoxu transitioned from an unknown ordinary girl to "Lin Daiyu" who became popular overnight. At the peak of her acting career, she chose to retreat bravely and counterattacked to become an entrepreneur with a net worth of over 100 million.
Whether it is profitable from the company or personal value, Chen Xiaoxu is undoubtedly a winner in life, but she is not happy.
Chen Xiaoxu once admitted on the show: "I found that I made money and fell into new confusion again."
She pursues perfection in things and strives to do the best in everything. This will certainly make her career successful, and at the same time it also exhausts all her enthusiasm.
Chen Xiaoxu and Hao Tong have been married for many years, have been busy with work and have no children for a long time. The parents of both sides have been giving birth to her and are still indifferent.
Children are the continuation of life, but unfortunately, Chen Xiaoxu's life has no continuation.
In March 2006, Chen Xiaoxu's body was abnormal and there was pain in his chest. She had been working hard for her career for many years, but she mistakenly thought it was a transition of fatigue and did not care about it.
The parents saw that she was in pain and kept persuading her to go to the hospital for check-up, but Chen Xiaoxu disagreed. She just bought some Chinese medicine and did not undergo a comprehensive examination.
Until the pain was so painful that she could not breathe, and she was unable to sleep all night. Chen Xiaoxu reluctantly went to the hospital for check-up.
The result is unacceptable. Chen Xiaoxu, who is only 40 years old, was diagnosed with breast cancer. The doctor suggested Western medicine treatment, that is, for resection.
Hearing that the operation was going to be performed, Chen Xiaoxu immediately became angry and said stubbornly: "If Western medicine is used for treatment, I will directly choose to die. After treatment, it will be no longer decent..."
Dad Chen Qiang looked at his stubborn daughter. He accidentally wet his eyes, red eyes and choked with sobs: "Who will do those things in the future?" There are still many things I haven't done. How do people in the world evaluate you? "
Even though they are deeply troubled by the disease, Chen Xiaoxu still did not compromise. He just said lightly: "It doesn't matter, I can see it no matter how I look at it."
In addition to refusing Western medical treatment, Chen Xiaoxu also made a major decision in the last stage of his life.
As early as 1999, Chen Xiaoxu became a relationship with the Buddha. By chance, he heard the " Amitabha Sutra " explained by Master Jingkong.
every word is like the sound of a god, which made her suddenly understand, understand many things, and no longer so annoyed in her heart.
years later, Chen Xiaoxu was already terminally ill. When her life was in danger, she decided to convert to Buddhism.
On February 23, 2007, Chen Xiaoxu, who knew that he had not had much time, chose to become a monk in Xinglong Temple in Xinyue Village, Changchun. His Dharma name is Miaozhen.
Before becoming a monk, she also specially divided her property into three parts, one for filial piety to her parents, one for developing Buddhist careers, and the last for charity.
Her husband has been with Chen Xiaoxu since she got cancer. She knew that she could not change Chen Xiaoxu's decision to become a monk, so she chose to support her.
Ten days after Chen Xiaoxu became a monk, Hao Tong followed her and converted to Buddhism.
Chen Xiaoxu stated that she was away and converted to Buddhism and soon appeared in the newspaper. During this period, many people thought that she chose to become a monk because she had cancer.
But this is not the case. On March 1 of the same year, Chen Xiaoxu, who was extremely weak, denied that he had "choosed to become a monk because of cancer".
immediately issued a statement: "Take the most important and correct step in life when you are not confused."
Of course, Chen Xiaoxu did not reduce the pain he suffered because of converting to Buddhism. The cancer cells spread completely. She was already thin and lost to only 70 kilograms.
My parents couldn't bear torture from their beloved daughter and insisted on sending her to Shenzhen for chemotherapy for the final struggle. Chen Xiaoxu was weak and did not directly refuse.
After seeing the doctor, Chen Xiaoxu said that he was unwilling to receive chemotherapy,
Her health became worse and worse, and she was in a coma for a while until she never woke up again.
On May 1, 2007, Chen Xiaoxu, who was only 41 years old, was eventually defeated by the ruthless disease and ended his young life.
Chen Xiaoxu's death made many fans feel uncomfortable, as if he had lost his faith, and even made his elderly parents send a black-haired man, which made the pain of the rest of his life.
Because I missed my daughter too much, my father had hallucinations. Every night, the father would turn on the lights in the room where Chen Xiaoxu was originally living.
The lights flickered due to poor contact. However, the old father moistened his eyes and kept shouting to the empty room: "Xiaoxu, are you coming back to see your parents?"
Chen Xiaoxu's cemetery was in Beijing Changping Tianshou Cemetery . In order to accompany his daughter at any time, he did not return to his hometown in Anshan.
Every Qingming Festival holiday, no matter how busy Chen Xiaoxu's parents are, they will go to the cemetery for a long time no matter how windy or rainy they will stay in the cemetery, and say a lot of thoughts to the lonely tombstone.
Tell me about my thoughts, tell me about my daily life, and share what my daughter saw and heard after she left.
In 2022, Chen Xiaoxu has passed away for 15 years, and her elderly father Chen Qiang passed away in 2021. The 85-year-old mother is still alive today.
My parents' love for Chen Xiaoxu has never diminished, and her husband Hao Tong, who once became a monk with her, has long returned to secular life and remarried to form a new family.
The husband Bi Yanjun, who also had a new family and a child, continued the length of his life.
Fortunately, whether it is Bi Yanjun or Hao Tong, Chen Xiaoxu, who has passed away for 15 years, has always been a heart-wrenching feeling in their hearts. How can the person they truly love, easily forget it!
Some people have been forgotten alive, while others have been living in memory for many years.
The world is vicissitudes, time flies, Chen Xiaoxu will always be the best "Lin Daiyu" in the hearts of the audience.
