Author: Duanmu Wanqing
Image source: Internet
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Last time Taiwanese artist Big S accused ex-husband Wang Xiaofei of failure to fulfill the divorce agreement and owed NT$5 million.
Da S applied to the court to freeze Wang's assets in Taiwan.
This matter was on the Weibo hot search and triggered the emotions of his ex-husband Mr. Wang Xiaofei. He posted several Weibo posts to respond that he did not fail to enforce the divorce agreement and did not owe any fees to be paid.
He said that the house he lived in was bought by Da S for 400 million yuan before, and he paid the mortgage of more than one million yuan a month. He has always paid for his ex-wife and children. After the divorce, I pay Big S and the children more than more.
DaS and Ju JunyeHave remarried, he bought the mattress he slept with. Now he just doesn't want to pay them water and electricity bills.
and thus the "famous" mattress battle was created.
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Da S should not have expected that the ex-husband would openly pull out the mattress and water and electricity bills, and other private matters such as publicly called war.
She quickly changed from active to passive position. It was very embarrassing for a moment.
She quickly made a decent statement. As always, she maintains her independent and sober heroine's character and gentle and elegant image.
makes people feel that Wang Xiaofei's crazy literature has dropped several levels.
But after things fermented. Is Big S truly decent or fake? It has also triggered widespread public discussion. More people think that her move is green tea.
Sister Zhang Lan turned the tide and turned the world around with her own strength.
Selling goods, shaking materials, and hitting back. It makes people absolutely see her explosive combat ability, vigorous vitality and unsimple business acumen.
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I wrote an article at that time.
is mainly uncomfortable.
I feel that the close lovers, the parents of children who have loved each other, have faded, and there is a crack, and it is nothing to get divorced.
However, after divorce, it was said to get together and parted ways, but in the short term, it developed into a state of fighting each other, trampling on each other, and trampling on each other, which is a very sad thing.
In this kind of fight, no one is the winner . Perhaps the biggest winner at that time was his mattress dealer, and he saved all advertising fees.
But the biggest injured person in is the children.
Children need to grow up, the Internet has memories. What do children think when they see their parents tear them like this when they grow up? Will it be uncomfortable?
Later, Wang said that Big S was the mother of the child after all, so he didn't say anything. I thought this matter ended here, and I stopped losing in time.
But that's not the case. To this day, I accidentally opened the Weibo Entertainment Channel, and the first few of them are still news about their family fighting each other.
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Big S came out again for some reason.
She sent a message that she probably said that Wang’s ex-husband borrowed her money during marriage and that she also said that she bought the house she lived in.
This triggered Wang's emotions again. Mr. Wang Xiaofei posted his divorce agreement and bill.
has a new round of teardown.
Judging from the bill posted by Mr. Wang Xiaofei, after Da S divorced, he still used Wang Xiaofei's credit card to buy various clothes and accessories. Very valuable.
The veil and necklace she and Gu Junye used when they remarried were also bought by using their ex-husband’s credit card. Combined with the previous mattress storm and water and electricity bills, Wang Yi became a great injustice in the hearts of netizens.
According to the matters clearly stated in the agreement during the divorce, it is reasonable for Big S to swipe his ex-husband’s credit card. But emotionally, it is a bit unreasonable to buy the veil necklace she used to marry her remarried partner and the others she bought with her ex-husband’s money.
At least in the hearts of ordinary people, Big S thinks that doing this is a bit "ruthless" and spends everything on his ex-husband. He uses his ex-husband's money to support himself and Gu Junye after remarrying. He did not pay the water and electricity bill for several months, and he also had to come out to sue his ex-husband for not paying living expenses. Not satisfied.
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has caused great controversy for this.
Big S independent and sober female, her gentle and elegant character collapsed suddenly. The comment area of
was scolded by netizens.
Big S also closed the comment area.
This storm involves houses, loans, and credit card issues after divorce, and also includes who cheats in marriage first?
Many things were suddenly exposed and nakedly hurt. Once again, it is a pity.
Until now you tore me and bite me. A mess of feathers. Who is right and who is wrong? Who is true and who is false? We outsiders don't know.
But I saw a cruel fact that I completely ignored my years of love for the sake of my interests.
Still want to say this: continue to fight after divorce, no one will be the winner, and in the future, both sides will suffer from losses and are covered in scars.
Big S seems to me to be smart but is just a mistake by being smart. Make yourself a mess.
And the child will look back at the parents' fight today in the future. Even salt was sprinkled on the wound.
couldn't help but feel very moved.
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people reach middle age. If marriage cannot become a safe haven, don’t hurt each other.
pierces the last warmth and affection and becomes a slaughterhouse with serious interests.
The former is regret, while the latter is sin.
After divorce, he was also the person he loved once, and all the endings were just to pay for his original choice.
Even if one of the parties in the marriage is very wronged, he was sincere when he loved and gave. Later, choosing to separate is to stop loss in time and say goodbye to each other.
The true decency is to be together and love each other sincerely, separate from each other, respect each other and blessing them, and get together and part. Good to everyone.
instead of constant storms and continue to hurt. So where does stop loss come from and the so-called good gathering and separation?
When the storm arises, what kind of regret and embarrassment will be left to each other? Is it love or harm left to the child?
Marriages are unpredictable, and it is inevitable! There is no need to do some things that cannot be sweetly nourished.
Leave a way for each other, and the rest of your life will bring you two flowers to your own peace.
There is no need to separate, calculate the interests, calculate the mechanisms, fight each other, think that it is a effortless chance of winning!
In fact, in the end, the losses may be even heavier.
