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There was no drama to watch some time ago, so I accidentally flipped into "The Smiling and Proud Wanderer" and watched it again.
When I watched this drama, I started to feel that Lin Pingzhi, who was destroyed, was very pitiful, and later I felt that he had become bad. When I look at it again, I don’t think he is pitiful or hate him. I just feel that his destiny is destined.
Many people have had carefree time like him, and then their lives began to be turbulent, and they passively felt the sinisterness of people's hearts and the world.
At the beginning, as the young master of the Fuwei Escort Agency, he never thought about what the outside world would look like. Pampering life is the whole of his life. He would not have thought that he would be wiped out, nor that Yu Canghai would have targeted their family, nor that Yue Buqun and Zuo Lengchan would have the evil-proof sword score.
He has been PUSHing forward. On the surface, the gentleman sword has taken him as his disciple, and many people are guiding him. However, behind this warmth, there is a more fierce force in PUSHing him, which is equivalent to constantly reminding him to take revenge.
His obsession is hatred and revenge. From then on, his destiny was destined, because except for obsession, he could no longer hold anything else in his heart, and he was unwilling to believe in other things . The seemingly inconspicuous supporting roles like
are often the closest to the true face of life. In everyone's heart, there is a self-castrated "Lin Pingzhi".
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Anyone who has felt powerless will feel inferior and have obsessions. They want to turn over, become the best, and become the best master.
This obsession is often mixed with resentment. In order to achieve one's own goal, he will abuse himself without hesitation, and he only wants to find a quick secret book and then do it once and for all. A person like
seems to be focused and looks like a person who can accomplish great things. But in fact, because they are entangled by resentment, their values will become deformed, and their original intention of achieving their goals will gradually deviate from themselves and turn into revenge.
Some people, like Lin Pingzhi, got the Evil-Breaking Sword Score as they wished, and then became anxious and stared at a certain point to fight to the death, and then mistakenly thought that they had achieved success in their studies and could show their skills. As a result, because of lack of practical experience, it hurts others and yourself.
Some people have been looking for the evil-proof sword recipe. The more they can’t get it, the more anxious they are. They don’t like anything. They always think that the whole world is enemies with them, and the whole person exudes resentment, and eventually end up in depression.
02
There is a reader who is still in college. She claims that her relationship with her roommate is very bad, and said that none of her roommates are good people, either selfish or petty.
She said she had never met someone like her roommate before going to college. It was her roommate's selfishness that made her resentful and she hated them.
She wants to take revenge, but she dares not do anything that is right. Unfortunately, before she could take action, she was bitten back by her roommate.
One day, a roommate's thermos bottle was broken, and he was sarcastic in the dormitory, saying that it must have been someone in the dormitory who deliberately broke it for her.
The other roommates seemed to have agreed, and they left themselves one by one, and in the end they were the only ones left. The more she didn't speak, the more her roommate was reluctant to let go, pointing at the same time, believing that it was her good thing.
She was angry and started to fight with that roommate. In the end, although other roommates were pulled apart, what the other roommates said made her feel heartbroken: "Isn't it over for apologizing? The more you don't admit it, the greater the conflict!"
She had troubles, and the more she thought about it, the more she hated her. Every day she thought about was how to retaliate. She even went online to search for information when she had time, hoping to find a quick secret to retaliation for her roommate.
She didn't find the secret, but she wasted herself, failed the exam, had physical problems, and finally had to apply for a leave of absence.
I don’t want to say that she is self-inflicted, but that solving the problem in her way will not have any effect at all.
Frankly speaking, if it were me, I would have gone crazy in such a dormitory, but how can you take revenge? Is there only revenge left in your life? Don't you care about other things? In any case, protecting yourself first is the top priority, and then finding ways to solve the problem and finding ways not to have any interaction with bad people is the correct solution.
03
It is true that Lin Pingzhi took that path to avenge his family. But returning to our lives, the problems that cause us to feel resentment are often not that serious.
When you magnify a less serious problem by ten thousand times, it becomes very serious, so serious that you are trapped by it and do something that is unreasonable.
Many people have released the "Lin Pingzhi" in their hearts. Some rely on fancy clothes to bluff people, some run to tattoos, and some deliberately play bad people, thinking that this will make people look down upon. As a result, commanding will expose more weaknesses and are more susceptible to damage .
is like Lin Pingyi chasing Yu Canghai and constantly torture him. He thought that he would torture Yu Canghai to death sooner or later, but he never thought that this would give the other party a chance to see his flaws; he didn't expect to meet a hunch on the way, and in the end, because of his high vision and low skills and lack of practical experience, both sides suffered losses. He was avenged, but he was also blind.
He went to settle the score with Yue Buqun. In fact, it didn't matter if he took revenge, but he gave up and was simply crazy. Yue Buqun is such a thief, and he has also practiced the Evil-Breaking Sword Guide, so Lin Pingzhi cannot win.
starts with resentment, but finally resentment, which doesn't work in reality. For many people, there is not only one way in front of them. You only follow the path you should not take the most. Every victory is actually a defeat, because your soul has been corrupted by resentment.
Life is subjective, and both good and evil thoughts are born from the heart. Only those who reasonably distribute good and evil thoughts can live a good life. Apart from this, it is all wrong .
