Introduction:
Tao Hong and Xu Zheng have been married for 19 years, but the two have not been calm along the way. During this period, Xu Zheng was exposed to cheating many times, but Tao Hong not only did not file for divorce, but instead came forward to help clarify.
What exactly is the reason why she tolerated this way?
1. Scandal
In 2008, Xu Zheng was exposed to go to nightclubs for two consecutive days, and he always played until three or four o'clock in the morning. At this time, Tao Hong had just given birth to a daughter Xu Xiaobao . After the incident of
was exposed, netizens took charge of Xu Zheng online, and even reported that the two had divorced, but Tao Hong did not respond to this matter. In the end, only the agent responded that there was no divorce. After the agent of
responded, the storm on the Internet calmed down a little. I thought this was a small episode and their marriage was not affected.
Not long after, Xu Zheng was photographed by paparazzi again. At night, he hugged a woman in white and entered the hotel singing room and stayed in it for 8 hours. As soon as the news of
came out, netizens were in a rage again, and some people even found the information of the girl on the Internet and kept yelling at her.
, but Tao Hong still did not respond to this matter. Xu Zheng made a timely clarification the next day, saying that the girl was invited to shoot the MV of " Lost in Thailand ".
At the same time, Tao Hong was photographed by paparazzi. When she left the airport, a man in red was accompanied by her. The couple broke into scandals, but Xu Zheng quickly gave a negative attitude towards this matter.
Xu Zheng was exposed to scandals twice in succession, but Tao Hong never responded. This situation made many people very curious about how they get along in their marriage.
Later, Tao Hong was asked during an interview on the show:
"Which one do you value more in terms of physical and mental loyalty?"
"The body is physiological, and physiological things are not a matter, that is a health issue..." After the interview with
was broadcast, rumors that Tao Hong and Xu Zheng were "playing their own things". Through this interview, people believe that their marriage model is an open marriage.
In 2015, Xu Zheng was again photographed having fun in a club, and even asked a hot girl to accompany him, dancing with a beautiful girl on the dance floor. Public opinion hit him again, but Tao Hong was still very calm.
Not only that, Tao Hong also said:
"It is not a bad thing for someone to pounce on him, it can only prove that I have a good vision."
In addition to Xu Zheng and her family, Tao Hong has more time to do something she likes, and her career in the entertainment industry has also begun to gradually rise.
She also has a clear understanding of herself. From Xu Zheng's perspective, she is a qualified wife. When Xu Zheng was in a scandal, she not only did not get angry, but also took the initiative to help explain.
and she is also a qualified mother. Since her daughter was born, she has often shared her daughter's life. During interviews, she often shared her happy daily life with her daughter.
Some people think that Tao Hong puts all her focus on the family, but she thinks it is a very happy thing to be able to participate in her daughter's growth.
Some people say that Tao Hong is compromised by doing this, while others say that this is exactly where Tao Hong’s wisdom lies. It is precisely because of her wisdom that she has won a different life.
Tao Hong has won many awards in the entertainment industry in recent years, and her image in film and television works is also very popular.
For example, in " Little Joy ", she plays a mother who is anxious about her children's learning. Many viewers said that they were very real when they saw it, as if they saw their own mother.
Early, Tao Hong went to the crew to visit the set and gave some advice on the scene. Later, Huang Bo praised in the interview:
"She gave some suggestions, which made me think that this woman is a bunker, which is stronger than her husband's story structure."
It can be seen that Tao Hong not only has good acting skills, but also a very thoughtful woman. In "The Birth of an Actor ", she interpreted the shyness of the girl Wanrong to the fullest, and her acting skills were simply a hit on traffic stars.
So, how did she embark on the path of actors?
2. Synchronized swimming team
972, Tao Hong was born in Wuxi, Jiangsu In an ordinary family, her father is an engineer. When she was a child, she moved to Beijing with her father's family. After she moved to Beijing, her mother was originally a full-time housewife. Later, because of the pressure of life, she had to go out to find a job. She found a job as an administrator in the library. This job is not tiring, and she can take care of her family in time. But the life at home is still very hard, so her mother had to put Tao Hong at her sister's house. Tao Hong, who has been living under someone else since she was a child, developed a very good personality.
Although the aunt She has regarded her as her biological daughter, but Tao Hong still did her best to help her family do some work. After she reached school, she returned to Beijing to study.
In school, her grades have always been among the best. Tao Hong, who is well-behaved and sensible, has not only been favored by teachers, but also has become the pride of her parents.
In order to make her develop more comprehensively, her parents sent her to the Children's Palace to learn dance. Tao Hong has been very serious in doing anything since she was a child, and so is learning dance.
dance teacher Seeing her talent, she suggested that she apply for Beijing Dance Academy . At this time, the coach of Synchronous Swimming also fell in love with Tao Hong and invited her to join the swimming team with the temptation of free tuition.
Facing two choices, Tao Hong did not want to give up dancing, so she had to refuse the coach's invitation and applied for Oriental Song and Dance Troupe . Her outstanding performance and successfully obtained the admission notice of the song and dance troupe, but at this time, the Beijing Sports Committee Synchronous Swimming Team also sent her an admission notice.
Tao Hong stood at the fork again, and she loved dancing very much. But if she chooses dancing, she will have to pay 24 yuan a month for tuition, and there is no need to pay any fees to participate in the swimming team.
and the swimming team also guarantees that Tao Hong can enter the national team in the future. After hearing this, her parents directly agreed to the swimming team and sent Tao Hong over.
At that time, Tao Hong was naively thinking that entering the swimming team was just playing with water, but after she really started training, she found that she had to stay in the water for at least six or seven hours a day, soaking in the water for a long time. Every time she came up, her hands and feet were already white.
The parents really couldn't bear to watch their daughter continue to suffer, so they applied to the coach to let her daughter withdraw from the swimming team, but the coach said that she would not let anyone go, and promised that Tao Hong would definitely join the national team in 10 years.
Hearing such a promise, her parents had to continue to let Tao Hong stay in the swimming team, and the coach fulfilled her promise at that time. Tao Hong successfully entered the national team 10 years later.
After she entered the national team, she also achieved many results. At this time, she had nothing to do with the actors. She thought she would stay in the national team forever.
The turning point of all this happened in 1983. When director of Jiang Wen was filming the movie " Sunny Days ", he went to the swimming team where Tao Hong was in to pick people, and he fell in love with Tao Hong at a glance.
Tao Hong showed a good acting talent during the filming of this movie, and Jiang Wen also saw her talent and recommended her to apply for Central Academy of Drama .
She also became popular because of "Sunny Days" and has been inviting to the public. , but she did not choose to exercise directly, but applied for college.
Because Tao Hong had always had a college dream in her heart, she naturally would not let go of such an opportunity. She accepted the director's opinion and directly applied for three schools: Central Academy of Drama, , Shanghai Opera, and Beijing Film Academy.
Not long after, all three schools sent her admission notices . In the end, she followed Jiang Wen's opinion and chose Central Academy of Drama. Only after entering university did she officially start to get involved in acting.
Tao Hong finally realized her dream of college, spent 4 years happily in school, and also met her friend Duan Yihong .
It is precisely because of Tao Hong's appearance that Duan Yihong, who was originally introverted, gradually became cheerful, and Duan Yihong gradually developed feelings for Tao Hong.
But before he could confess his love, Xu Zheng suddenly appeared halfway...
3. Marriage
997, Tao Hong, who was still in his junior year, was selected by director Chen Guoxing and starred in the heroine of the movie " Black Eyes ". Tao Hong in the play made the blind man vivid, and thus won the " Golden Rooster Award " Best Actress. A year later, she graduated from university and entered the Central Experimental Theater. Because of her own excellent performance, she soon received an invitation from the crew of " Spring Glory Zhu Bajie ".
She and Xu Zheng met because of this TV series. Before she met Xu Zheng, she thought that the one who worked with her would be an uncle. It was not until she saw Xu Zheng that she realized that it was a clean Xu Zheng. During the shooting of
, Xu Zheng often had a lot of mud glue on his face, so it was inconvenient to eat. At that time, Tao Hong noticed this situation in time and took the initiative to feed Xu Zheng bite by bit.
Two are all seen by Tao Hong's care and seriousness. During the filming period, the two became more and more familiar with each other and gradually became friends from cooperative relationships.
As the relationship between the two got closer, Xu Zheng was gradually impressed by her tenderness, and Tao Hong also liked Xu Zheng in her heart, so the two naturally started dating.
000 "The Legend of the Spring" was broadcast, and Xu Zheng gradually gained some fame. At that time, this TV series also became a childhood memory of the post-80s and post-90s. After , Tao Hong's career has also improved step by step. Her starring in " Empty Mirror " won her dual actress best actor " Feitian Award " and " Golden Eagle Award ".
Although her career in the entertainment industry is booming, this is not the life she wants. Her ideal life is to go from nine to five every day, focusing all on her family.
In 2003, the two entered the marriage hall. After getting married, Tao Hong gradually faded out of the entertainment industry. They did not hold a big wedding, but went out for a few days.
In an interview, Tao Hong recalled that Xu Zheng was particularly interesting when he proposed to her. At that time, Xu Zheng invited Tao Hong to go out to relax at night. When the two walked to the Meridian Gate, , Xu Zheng suddenly took out his ring and knelt on one knee to propose.
But before Tao Hong could bring the ring, a security guard suddenly rushed out, and Xu Zheng pulled Tao Hong and fled there quickly. Although the proposal was not so successful, Tao Hong still agreed.
After the two got married, Tao Hong volunteered to be the woman behind Xu Zheng, and Xu Zheng took on the task of making money to support the family.
Xu Zheng quickly became a hit in the entertainment industry with his superb acting skills and his reputation became increasingly greater. As the saying goes, a big tree attracts wind, and his scandals also followed.
But when Tao Hong faced these scandals, she not only did not get angry, but instead came forward to clarify it, and also helped Xu Zheng's career very much.
At that time, director Ning Hao wanted to invite Tao Hong to star in the filming of " Crazy Stone ", but she didn't have time. She looked carefully at the script and felt that it was very suitable for Xu Zheng.
is like this. She recommended Xu Zheng to the director and told Xu Zheng that she would act even if she didn’t have money. She also asked Xu Zheng to invest in this movie because she felt that she could earn money again, and that if she lost the opportunity, she would be completely gone.
, with Tao Hong's strong recommendation, Xu Zheng successfully joined the group for filming, and Huang Bo also joined the group. The movie became popular after it was broadcast, and Xu Zheng and Huang Bo also became famous because of this movie.
was also because of this movie that Xu Zheng officially entered the film industry, and later became a golden partner with Ning Hao. From then on, Xu Zheng discovered his drama talent.
In 2010, Xu Zheng and Wang Baoqiang co-starred in the movie " people on the road to the road" and won many praises from viewers because of their funny and humorous plot.
Two years later, Xu Zheng and Tao Hong established a company and filmed "Lost in Thailand" in one go. This series also successfully made Xu Zheng popular. During Xu Zheng's rise, Tao Hong never made any noise.
As Xu Zheng's scandals continued to break out, Tao Hong also explained in the interview that the two had a good marriage and that she also began to gradually take on invitations for some dramas.
If Tao Hong was unable to live without Xu Zheng at that time, now Xu Zheng is unable to live without Tao Hong. Tao Hong is really a military advisor in Xu Zheng's career. Maybe it was because of this that Xu Zheng did not choose to divorce Tao Hong.
Tao Hong did not give up her career because of her family. The TV series "Little Joy" was broadcast in 2019, which won the "Magnolia Best Supporting Actress" award.
As Qin Hailu said, "It's fine if she doesn't act, she will win the prize as long as she acts."
4. Conclusion
Tao Hong's edge in the entertainment industry has never been closed. After she won the award, Xu Zheng also showed her love in a high-profile manner and said:
"Tao Hong belongs to everyone, I am Tao Hong."
Tao Hong is now 50 years old, but she is still the shining star in the entertainment industry. As long as she is willing to act, she can always shine on the stage.
Because she is not dependent on Xu Zheng's life, but can shine completely on her own, and even her light can overshadow Xu Zheng, her marriage relationship with Xu Zheng has always respected each other.
Instead of entangled with Xu Zheng's feelings, Tao Hong should make herself stronger, and let the rest of the things go naturally. This is where her intelligence lies.
Xu Zheng and Tao Hong both achieved considerable achievements in their careers. According to the minds of the couple, even if they encounter any problems in the future, they will definitely be able to solve them successfully.
