As the saying goes, "A man doesn't cry easily, but he hasn't reached the sad place." However, many fathers choked up at the scene of the popular film "Search and Rescue" during the National Day holiday.
Because, this search and rescue film tells the story of fathers sacrificing their lives to save their children in extremely cold weather, photographs their hearts - they photograph their love for their children without asking for rewards, and also films the "midlife crisis" they may face. In the movie
, Ade, played by Donnie Yen , is a man in midlife crisis.
He has a wife and a child and wants to fight for their better life, but he encountered a ruthless blow from reality:
On the one hand, the contractor ran away, making the family's economic situation not as expected.
On the other hand, the child is disobedient and has some little tempers and minor problems, which is useless no matter how you say it.
At the same time, there may be more or less problems in the relationship between myself and my wife, confirming the sentence "Marriage is a mess."
It seems that the family clearly loves each other deeply, but what they live this life is that everything is not going well and everything is not going well.
However, they still have to straighten their backs and grit their teeth to carry it on their own, because they are men, fathers, and the "reliance" of this family.
However, after watching the movie, everyone realized that hard work is really not a good way. Since there is a problem, it must be solved, otherwise it will only make the problem bigger and bigger until the moment it detonates. If you continue to "hold it in" it will be like in the movie, a big wave will come directly - Lele chose to run away with anger, which will eventually lead to an irreversible tragic ending.
So, how should we solve the midlife crisis we are facing? "Search and Rescue" also gives a very constructive answer.
In the movie, Min Xuan, played by Han Xue, , has been a full-time wife for several years. After the child grows up, she also wants to have a career and share some of the burden for her family.
At this time, why can’t you trust your wife?
Modern society should be a society where men and women are equal . The so-called male lead and female leads to the inside is just a kind of "repression" in the name of "protection".
So, this is not a question of whether she will be affected, but a question of respecting her wife’s personal choices. What's more, the couple is in the same boat through thick and thin, and the pressure on both of them can be relieved a little.
Similarly, when communicating with children, you cannot blindly blame the children and resort to simple and rough means to solve the problem. This is also "increasing troubles" to yourself.
Children are not "the listener is unintentional". The harm caused by words may sometimes overshadow their feelings about their parents' love. At this time, you can clearly trust your children more and treat them like little adults. Everyone communicates with each other and uses hugs to solve problems.
You see, as long as the inertial thinking is broken, isn’t the problem so difficult to solve?
Therefore, Donnie Yen said in the live broadcast that everyone "don't be like Ade!" He does not agree with some of Ade's values, but he has an obligation to shoot the real human nature for everyone to see.
can make people's voices and be entertained with education. This is a well-deserved good movie.
So, do you agree with Donnie Yen’s point of view?
#Movie Search and Rescue reflects the real human nature#
