In " The Legend of Zhen Huan ", An Lingrong is a character that makes me feel sorry for. She is smart, motivated and versatile, but if you lose, you lose, the sensitive and inferiority complex in your personality is too heavy. However, even when she was sensitive and inferior, she could upgrade from a small promise who was returned to Zhao during her bedtime service to Lifei . It can be seen that if she gets rid of her sensitive inferiority, she will definitely have a life of cheating. Because An Lingrong has several advantages that cannot be ignored.
first, emotional stability. An Lingrong has always done a good job in emotional management. Because the journey was long, she almost missed the time when she participated in the draft. At this time, she did not feel anxious or panic, but immediately found a way to solve the problem - say nice things to her aunt and begged her to allow herself to participate in the draft. However, she was not selected during the draft.
At this time, we can bring ourselves in and go to the company we like to interview. We almost couldn't participate in the interview because we were late. After all, we finally let me participate in the interview, but we were eliminated in the initial examination. At this time, we may complain in our hearts that "why is the one who is unlucky" and we may also show our emotions on our faces. But An Lingrong did not have any resentment and was still polite and polite. It was precisely because of this that she won the favor of the empress dowager and praised her for understanding the rules. The emperor also noticed her again and was finally selected. It can be said that the emotional stability determines that she will eventually be selected into the palace.
and her mood is stable, and it is also very helpful to her in the subsequent process. When she and Chen1 Zhen Huan were embarrassed by Chen1 Hua Concubine , although she cried after returning to the palace, she hid her emotions well before returning to her palace. It is precisely because of this that the highest leader of the harem, the queen, looked at her with a high profile and decided to take her under her command.
Second, proficient in the art of speaking. In "The Legend of Zhen Huan", the recognized top scorer in the harem is Zhen Huan. However, in addition to her high emotional intelligence, Zhen Huan's ability to speak is more reflected in her reading a lot, extensive knowledge, and common language with the emperor. An Lingrong has not read many books, and his ability to speak is more reflected in high emotional intelligence and altruistic thinking, and he can talk to the other person's heart.
Zhen Huan is pregnant and scratched by a cat. An Lingrong went to send Shuhengu . She didn't say directly that the glue is so good. Let’s first say that although there are many good things in the uterus, it may not be the right one. Moreover, if you are pregnant, some things may be bad for the fetus. Even in modern society, pregnant people will be careful, not to mention that there is really a throne inheritance in the Forbidden City . So this really touches Zhen Huan's heart. Next, she took out the Shuheng Glue and counted the benefits of Shuheng Glue. In the end, Zhen Huan happily accepted this "abortion gift package".
When Zhen Huan had a rift with the emperor because of miscarriage, An Lingrong went to accompany the emperor. In fact, she and the emperor should have no common language. But, she said this sentence, "The Emperor is always right." Originally, the emperor did not plan to keep her overnight, but after saying this, the emperor kept her directly. It can be seen that this is what the emperor said. Those who have watched "The Legend of Zhen Huan" should know that although the emperor likes to establish a character and pretends to be generous, he is actually both suspicious and cautious. An Lingrong may not have realized so much, but she realized the lowest logic - the emperor is the boss of the Forbidden City, and the boss is always right.
3, multi-talented. This is not necessary to be explained in detail. An Lingrong has many talents, can sing, dance, and makes incense, and every talent has reached the extreme. If you compare with the current society, she is at least a top talented artist and perfume master with good singing and dancing. These talents played an important role in her journey.
Fourth, have perseverance. When her throat broke, she did not give up on herself, but actively looked for other ways out. You know, Bingyou is a field she has never entered before.Moreover, Zhen Huan has already worked hard enough to improve, but even Zhen Huan, who is so ambitious, says that ice sport requires boy skills, and without boy skills, he will definitely not be able to practice it. However, An Lingrong did it. This perseverance is beyond the reach of people.
Fifth, rarely do things with emotions and clear goals. I wonder if you have noticed that An Lingrong didn’t seem to like the emperor from beginning to end. Even Duanfei shows some details about her like the emperor in the play. But An Lingrong is more like a leader to the emperor. She will serve the leader well, but will not bring personal emotions to her work. When she fell out of favor and became favored several times, she did not complain to the emperor, nor did she show any grievance. Still serving the leader well. Not being influenced by emotions will make it less hindered and easier to achieve your goals. Of course, although she is not emotional to the emperor, she seems to be quite emotional to Zhen Huan. I think she is much more concerned about Zhen Huan than the emperor. But I won't discuss this for the time being.
In fact, if you have one of An Lingrong's advantages and can do it to the extreme, it will be very useful to you. And she has done every advantage to the extreme. However, the most fatal thing about her is her sensitivity and inferiority complex. It is precisely because of this that everything eventually goes in an uncontrollable direction. If An Lingrong can get rid of her sensitive and inferiority complex, she can definitely rely on these advantages to move towards a cheating life.