text | Zhao Yazi
There is a saying in the world of marriage and love: men are afraid of entering the wrong career, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.
Women always have to get married in this life. Some of them are blinded by love, but they end up sleeping in the open and living in a mess. Some people marry into a good family and don’t need to take on the responsibility of supporting their families. Being a full-time housewife with time and money can also make people envious.
However, there are also some people who are "greedy", wanting to be a rich rich wife and a strong woman who relies on themselves.
Zhou Lanjun is such a person. On the blind date show, Mano, who was domineering and cried in "sitting in the BMW car", was not married for 50 million yuan, but was ridiculed by the Internet and his life fell to the bottom. Just when people mocked her in every possible way and then forgot her, they found that she was so powerful that everyone who looked down on her was ashamed.
1 The history of growing up
In 2014, a blind date program on Zhejiang Satellite TV was welcomed by a girl very "arrogant" . She directly threatened in the show that only married the rich second generation, and the rich second generation with a net worth of more than 50 million yuan.
Those who can say such big words are either the arrogant and ignorant "Feng Jie" or the wealthy daughter with strength as the confidence.
But Zhou Lanjun is not, she is a mixture mixed between the two.
In 1992, Zhou Lanjun was born in Anhui. Her father is a state-owned enterprise engineer and her mother is a dormitory manager at a university. Although the family is not rich, it is also a well-off family.
Because she is the only daughter of the family, she has been taken care of by her parents since she was a child and gave her high hopes. At the age of 6, he went to Xiamen with his parents. For the first time, he witnessed the prosperity and competition of a big city, which made Zhou Lanjun, who came from a remote town in another place, feel inferior.
Under the strict requirements of her parents, she has been a strong enterprising spirit since she was a child and has always been the best in the class in terms of study. In the college entrance examination, she scored more than 140 points in English and mathematics. With her dazzling college entrance examination results, she could choose any 211 university. But no one expected that she would give up the key university, but instead chose the ordinary Zhejiang Business School of Industry and Commerce.
Such a decision makes people confused. I feel that I can't see the situation clearly for a while, including her parents, and I don't understand it. Faced with their doubts, Zhou Lanjun expressed her thoughts
on the one hand, it turned out that Zhejiang Business School is close to Xiamen, Fujian, and on the other hand, it is because it is a business school. is the cradle of business superstars, and there are more rich people. In this way, her wish to find a good family will be easily realized.
It can be seen from this that Zhou Lanjun's values have serious "materialism" ideas, and it is not surprising that she can do such a thing later.
2 Aspiring to marry a rich second generation
people are as bold as they are, and how big is pigs.
I have to say that Zhou Lanjun is very thoughtful , and she has thought carefully every step she takes.
In Business School House people are everywhere. Zhou Lanjun, who has ordinary family conditions, is obviously impossible for him to gain the attention of others through wealth. , but if he wants to get more opportunities and be well-known to more people, he must be "famous" in the college.
After realizing his shortcomings, Zhou Lanjun used his strengths to learn and became a famous academic master in the college.
In the impression of the students, Zhou Lanjun is not outstanding in appearance, but because of her good grades, there are many boys who pursue her.
But not many of them have very good conditions, and they are not generous to Zhou Lanjun.
Other girls are in love, and their boyfriends are rushing to send flowers, jewelry, and luxury goods, but their boyfriends are always "deaf ears and only read books of sages" and come to Zhou Lanjun to study in addition to studying.
Zhou Lanjun seems to be indifferent to such a difference, but she feels unwilling to be jealous in her heart. In her opinion, she is not worse than her classmates. Why does the boyfriend she found is not as good as theirs? There is no other person's generous action?
In order to find a "prince charming" in her mind, Zhou Lanjun began to mark her conditions for choosing a spouse and also did relevant consultations on a well-known dating website. After listening to her introduction to her, the so-called emotional instructor gave her a very high evaluation, believing that her existing conditions could match her boyfriend who was worth 20 million yuan.
Zhou Lanjun was overjoyed about this evaluation, and her idea of marrying a rich second generation was even more firm.
After listening to the sweet words of the dating website, Zhou Lanjun's heart became more and more drifty. Over time, she even had an illusion that felt that it would not be a problem for her to get 50 million.
3 Contact the blind date platform
In the era of information explosion, it only takes a few minutes to understand a person's work and financial resources. In order to help single nobles who cannot find a suitable partner for work or other reasons, the TV station launched a blind date program.
An accidental opportunity, a program called " Blind date will win " broke into Zhou Lanjun's heart. The option to introduce the partner according to her requirements made her very moved. She called the participant without hesitation.
According to convention, before the program starts broadcast, a special commissioner will communicate with the mate chooser in advance, and after asking about specific matters, he will start looking for candidates who meet the requirements.
When it was Zhou Lanjun's turn, before the host spoke, Zhou Lanjun couldn't wait to explain her request to the special commissioner for choosing a spouse, and she must find a rich second-generation in the city worth 50 million yuan. As soon as the speech ended, he shocked the special commissioner Hu Dan and other program team members.
Everyone is muttering: 50 million? A second-generation rich city? Did she think she was a "celestial immortal"?
Commissioner Hu Dan came to his senses and asked her why she asked for this.
Zhou Lanjun explained it very bluntly. She said that does not find a rich second-generation in the city with a net worth of more than 50 million yuan. I am sorry for her talent and soul.
After hearing this answer, Hu Dan said something for a moment, feeling it was a bit unrealistic, so he slightly changed the topic and asked if the shoulder bag on her body was a brand luxury.
Zhou Lanjun directly said that he is still a student now, he is not financially independent, and he still has to rely on his parents, so the bag is not a real brand, but he just thinks it looks good, so he bought an imitation.
Hu Dan smiled after hearing this, and asked her what advantages she had worth the rich second generation to pay her time and money.
Zhou Lanjun began to tell the story confidently, first expressing his praise for his figure, appearance, personality and quality to the special commissioner Hu Dan, and also introducing his future life plan.
Zhou Lanjun said that She must obtain a master's degree and doctoral degree before the age of 30, and in her early 30s, she must obtain professional certificates such as accounting and lawyers. Faced with such an excellent self in the future, she is confident that it is natural to choose a partner worth 50 million.After listening to her, the staff of
did not make too much affirmation of her praise and ambitions. They just kindly reminded her that is open because the program is open, once her remarks are released, it will inevitably cause a sensation in the public's view, and it is very likely to attract a lot of criticism and criticism . If the parties involved do not have strong psychological qualities, they may not be able to withstand the attacks of public opinion.
Zhou Lanjun seemed to be indifferent and said more generously that she would not care about her other people's comments, because no matter how many debates were, they could not bring her a bright future.
Without waiting for the re-suggestion of the special commissioner Hu Dan and others, she further emphasized that she paid attention to the maintenance of her bare face and thought she was better looking than many celebrities. This is also one of the confidence that she has to find a value of more than 50 million yuan.
Seeing Zhou Lanjun with such a tough attitude, the staff couldn't say anything else.
4 Three blind dates failed
After the inquiry and search by the special commissioner, the program team finally found a "Mr. Liu" , who fully meets the requirements of Zhou Lanjun in terms of assets.
Mr. Liu is a private entrepreneur returning from abroad, and his business has certain development scale and prospects.
Zhou Lanjun is very satisfied with this.
On the day she met, she was dressed up and happily waited for a date.
But who would have thought that as soon as we met, Mr. Liu refused the invitation from the program team, claiming that he had something to do and could not come.
The second blind date is called Beta .Beta is a rich second generation, handsome and sunny, and has a good personal dressing taste, which makes Zhou Lanjun very moved.
The most important thing is that Beta is Zhou Lanjun's "Dream Love Child".
However, Beta told the program team that he did not like Zhou Lanjun and did not want to meet her, but his friend Pippilu was very interested in Zhou Lanjun and wanted to meet her.
Two blind dates failed. Zhou Lanjun didn't want to get nothing, so she had no choice but to meet Pipilu.
The meeting place of the two was set in a high-end Chinese restaurant.
On this day, Zhou Lanjun dressed up specially, wearing a white lace headband and a purple veil.
Accompanied by Hu Dan, Zhou Lanjun and Pipilu met.
Just as I sat down, the waiter presented a plate of fruit. Zhou Lanjun started eating directly at the watermelon. Hu Dan felt that it would be very impolite for the male guest to eat first if he was not present, so she quietly reminded her of this behavior. Zhou Lanjun didn't care at all, and retorted:
"What does it matter if I eat it? When the male guest comes, I'll just put a new plate."
When the staff told her that she asked her to pay for the new plate, she immediately put down the fork in her hand and admitted that she was rash.
After seeing Pipilu, Zhou Lanjun immediately said that she only likes rich second generation. If he is not rich second generation, his parents will definitely not be hardworking and capable people, and he does not want to call such parents "My parents".
This made Pipilu who came to the appointment funny, and told her that some rich second-generation parents were difficult to get along with.
The implication is to tell Zhou Lanjun not to find fault with other people’s parents, and you may not meet the standards of others choosing a wife.
But Zhou Lanjun didn't seem to hear what Pipilu meant. She immediately said: I'm not getting married to be a nanny.
Pipilu did not attack Zhou Lanjun's rude behavior on the spot, but instead expressed his own opinion: If you want to marry a rich second generation, you must at least be versatile, have a child early, and be a virtuous wife at home.
Hearing this made Zhou Lanjun very upset. In her opinion, this person could not give her anything other than giving her some money, and also wanted to use money to limit the development of her career and bind her life's value.
Marrying a person like him will never be happy.
Zhou Lanjun's words also made Pipilu very angry and immediately stood up and left. After leaving, he did not forget to tell the commissioner Hu Dan that he had never seen such a strange girl. In Pipilu's view, all Zhou Lanjun's thoughts were separated from social reality and self-centeredness, and he felt that he could not accept such a person.
Another blind date was fruitless, Zhou Lanjun began to feel anxious, She began to change her strategy and look for some potential stocks.
Although Done, the manager of Zhejiang Business Club, did not meet the 50 million standard, his family is from a good place, and Zhou Lanjun thinks it is also a good choice.
When I learned that Don't have a high education, Zhou Lanjunhao said mercilessly: "That may not work. I am very outstanding. I gave up 211 university just to find the rich second generation and came to this business school.
The two chatted for a few minutes, and Don't was also scared by Zhou Lanjun.
That's it. Zhou Lanjun's three blind dates failed. She wanted to marry a rich second generation and become a rich wife's daydream into bubbles.
5 The program attracted criticism, and the parties publicly admitted their mistakes. After the broadcast of this episode, Zhou Lanjun became a popular figure. Various comments and discussions about her were one after another, and at the same time, they also questioned the program team's bottomless hype.
Originally, Zhou Lanjun only wanted to find the rich second-generation prince in her mind through the program. As a result, the object was not found, but she got into trouble.
With the broadcast of the program, Zhou Lanjun's popularity spread throughout the Internet . Her shocking remarks surprised netizens and attracted a lot of criticism of her.
Some netizens believe that an ordinary girl in her twenties actually thinks that not marrying a rich second generation will ruin her soul. She is simply the most confident materialist in history.
Some netizens think that how can there be such an inflated self-confidence in reality and no self-positioning? Zhou Lanjun must have been deliberately arranged by the program team for the sake of ratings.
Some netizens think that how can there be such an inflated self-confidence in reality and no self-positioning? Zhou Lanjun must have been deliberately arranged by the program team for the sake of ratings. After seeing this, the program team of
timely clarified to the public for their reputation that it was not deliberately hyped. After learning that everything was her own subjective consciousness, netizens carried out various "sarcasm" to her.
Zhou Lanjun's study and life were also affected. The classmates and teachers kept their distance from her, and the admirers on campus also gave up their pursuit of her.
Zhou Lanjun fell into deep thought. , she began to reflect on her words and deeds. Half a month after the broadcast of the program
, Zhou Lanjun took the initiative to contact the program team and sincerely admitted his mistakes to the public. Facing the camera, she said sincerely:
"Evaluating a person does not depend on a person's financial situation from the beginning. I think this is wrong. Now I am clearly aware of my actual conditions, so I no longer have a whimsical idea. I still have to work hard to fight for myself step by step. It is unrealistic to reach the sky one step. ”
As time goes by, this incident has also been forgotten, and Zhou Lanjun also disappeared in front of everyone.
In August 2019, Zhou Lanjun posted the latest updates online, and she found the value of her life in her words.
06 Years have passed, the current situation is enviable
Now eight years have passed, how is Zhou Lanjun living?
Since the blind date incident, Zhou Lanjun devoted all her energy to study, and gradually, her life has returned to peace. After graduating from college, Zhou Lanjun returned to Xiamen to work.
After years of hard work, Zhou Lanjun became the founder of the Internet technology company . Through her own efforts, she realized her life ideal step by step. Netizens who once scoffed at her also expressed surprise and praised her for her change.
Now eight years have passed, and Zhou Lanjun will update her social platform from time to time. From her dynamics, we can see that her life is rich and colorful. In addition to managing the company's daily affairs, she also chooses tea art, learns cooking, painting, and baking, and lives an enviable life.
She also said that she would no longer hold on to the ridiculous idea of marrying a rich second generation. For the rest of her life, she wanted to find someone with similar ambitions, consistent goals and consistent values to spend her life together. The idea of
has also been praised by netizens. Indeed, who doesn’t like independent, confident and capable girls?
@Zhao Yazi I want to say: In fact, every young person will have some unrealistic ideas when he is young. It is understandable that he is divorced from the reality of life because of his recklessness. As long as he can realize his mistakes in time, it will not be too late.
Through Zhou Lanjun's incident, we can also learn that whether a person will be respected does not depend on how strong the person you marry is, whether a person can live a good life, nor can he rely entirely on his spouse. Only when he becomes strong can he be truly recognized and valuable.
At the same time, we must also know that the richest man is not necessarily suitable for you. He has common ideals and goals. Being able to act in the same way and treating each other sincerely is a good match.
I think even more, the so-called reality of women is that they are greedy for wealthy people, hugging their thighs, and not marrying them. They are all caused by money. Why do they have to think so? Because of the limitations of one's own conditions, because of poverty! When she is so strong that she is the "rich generation", why do you need a rich second generation man to support her?
So, women either try to be the strongest one, and men in the world can choose from, whether they are poor or rich has nothing to do with you. Either you should be independent with your heart. A financially independent woman, even if she is just an ordinary workplace, can stand up and say to a man: I can support myself!
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