Venus has always been famous for her "poisonous tongue", and she has also received a lot of criticism for this.
Some people say that she is so "poisonous" in her words and actions, but in fact she is just to attract attention.
Some people say that she is outspoken, but in fact she has no malicious intentions.
Some people also say that she is one of the few people in the entertainment industry who dares to tell the truth.
Venus is the first artist in China to openly admit that he is a transgender person .
So far, it can be regarded as the only one.
Looking at the entire entertainment industry, there are really few stars who dare to speak like Venus.
However, Venus was also slandered by some people because of her openness.
So what kind of criticism does Venus suffer? And why can she always face life openly?
Where is Venus now and what is doing?
Try to face your career
Venus was born in the Northeast. Perhaps the Northeastern people have generous personalities, and have also cultivated Venus' openness.
However, although Venus is a genuine Chinese, her father is from North Korea and her mother is from South Korea. Her parents settled in China for various reasons.
eventually became a husband and wife and gave birth to Venus and her sister.
is almost a well-known thing. Venus was originally a boy. The children in the
family were one boy and one girl. Just now they formed the word "good". People around
will inevitably make a few polite words and say they envy the venerable family.
However, Venus didn't take these compliments to heart,
Because since he was six years old, Venus has deeply realized that she should be a girl.
Although he is a boy, Venus has a relatively delicate appearance, so
has become one of the few male propaganda backbone in school.
On weekdays, he rehearsed the program with the students of the art team at school.
Venus and girls had a good time, but this inevitably made other boys feel that Venus was alternative.
So at that time, boys would be more repulsive of Venus.
Venus doesn’t feel sad either. Anyway, Venus likes to play with girls,
Venus feels like a girl in her bones.
In 1976, Venus was selected by the art troupe, and Venus was only 9 years old that year.
At that time, Venus' parents were not relieved and did not want Venus to go.
, but Venus stubbornly chose art and entered the art troupe to start formally studying dance.
As a boy, Venus did not develop very quickly when he was young, so he was not tall. After several years of study, he saw that his classmates had a way out, but Venus could only stay in the art troupe for the time being, waiting for unknown arrangements.
At that time, the dance teacher of military arts, Song Zhaokun found Jin Xing, and took Jin Xing to Military Arts.
In the military arts, Venus has received a better educational environment. In addition, Venus himself works very hard, and
has always been among the best in the scores, so it quickly gained the appreciation of many teachers.
But no matter how good you perform in school, you will look different when you leave society.
After graduating from the military arts, Venus returned to her original art troupe again.
, but she rarely had the opportunity to perform. In desperation, Venus wanted to try to sing popular songs.
After Teacher Song Zhaokun found out, he thought Venus was simply a mess,
because he knew Venus was the material for dancing, it would be a pity if he went to sing.
So the teacher pushed Venus to the Taoli Cup dance competition. As a result, after layers of selection,
Venus lived up to the teacher's expectations and successfully won the first place in that competition.
has this title of champion, and Venus began to make its mark in the dance world.
soon became the chief dancer of the art troupe and was promoted to the military rank. Venus was not yet 20 years old at that time.
Not long after, Guangdong Dance School recruited an modern dance experimental class.
At that time, there were only twenty people in this class, and Venus was taken in.
performed while studying in the experimental class. Two years passed in a flash, and
Venus was selected to be sent to the United States to continue to study.
For Venus at that time, compared to Shaoshen’s ignorant understanding of gender,
At this time, Venus at this time had clearly known that she was a girl.
However, due to physical and physical characteristics, Venus cannot get along with the world as a daughter.
But Venus is not willing to suppress his nature, but openly publicizes it with some relatives and friends.
Of course, Venus's first frank "confession" did not receive support,
but opposition, even criticism and confusion.
In that era, people's understanding of the LGBT group in China was rare. It was difficult for
to recognize even the same sex, and they even talked about the type like Venus.
However, after arriving in the United States, Venus met a group of like-minded people, and
also began to have a bold idea, that is, one day in the future,
must become a woman from the inside out.
When he was in the United States, Venus was in love, but the other party was homosexual,
But Venus essentially thought he was a woman, so the two parted ways. Experiences like
did not hit Venus, but instead gave Venus a deeper understanding of itself.
In 1990, Ken Polyn, a classmate of Venus, was worried about accommodation issues,
, and Venus also needed a support in the United States. The two discussed it. In order to allow Ken Polyn to move into the apartment rented by Venus, the two chose to get a certificate.
So Venus had her first marriage as a man.
However, Venus and Ken Polynne will not be a husband and wife, because it is a temporary measure for two people to get a marriage certificate.
At that time, Ken Polynne also had a boyfriend. The three of them maintained a magical relationship in a wonderful marriage, and spent a long period of time like this.
The second year of "marriage", Venus reached a new peak in her career.
Venus created the dance work "Half Dream", which received extremely high feedback from the audience.
and successfully won the Best Choreography Award at the American Dance Festival, making Venus famous and very famous in China.
It was this year that Venus met a man he liked.
Kelei and Venus soon fell in love. They went out to play together.
Kelei also taught Venus to fly a plane. The two spent a very happy period together.
Venus is even deeply addicted to this relationship and is unwilling to return to the stage.
But Lei did not want Venus to continue to "degenerate" like this, but instead encouraged Venus to return to the stage.
With Ke Lei's encouragement, Venus returned to the stage and said goodbye to Ke Lei. After
, Venus also experienced several relationships, but all of them turned to the ending of breaking up. In this process, Venus never forgot his dream, the dream that truly became a woman.
Courage to face life
After staying abroad for a long time, I have been traveling to many cities,
Venus began to miss her family and her domestic life.
So at the age of 26, Venus returned home with honors and joined the Ministry of Culture.
became a modern dance teacher, leading students while performing.
At this time, Venus attracted much attention from the domestic dance industry and was promoted to the official title.
However, in addition to working normally, Venus has been preparing for an important thing,
, that is sex change surgery . At that time, Venus reported this matter to the leader, and
also told some friends about it, but most people still objected.
even persuaded Venus with great sincerity, hoping that Venus would experience more life as a man first,
might change his mind in this way. After all, it was a rare and dangerous thing to do sex change at that time.
However, Venus cannot be shaken. The life that has been waiting for more than 20 years is about to return to the right track.
No matter how nervous Venus is, it will stick to it. This is your own life and must be firmly held in your own hands.
Before the operation, in order not to violate ethical customs, Venus needs to pass the "psychological" level first.
Doctors have provided Venus with thousands of questions to judge whether Venus really recognizes herself as a woman.
At that time, this set of questions scored 100%, and only 80 points or above were considered qualified, while Venus' score was as high as 94 points.
You should know that even girls may not reach 90 or above these questions.
After passing this difficulty, Venus was waiting for a scheduled surgery.
Because after the operation, Venus does not have the male structure, so a friend advised Venus to leave a "seed" for himself. Anyway, it can be frozen, and if you regret it in the future, you can have your own children.
But Venus refused because Venus felt that this was unfair to that child.
1995, after some tests and inspections, Venus was admitted to the hospital.
But at this time, the family didn't know that Venus was going to undergo surgery.
Originally, Venus wanted to "take first and then take action", but she encountered a problem before the operation.
That means after the operation, she was unable to change her identity information to a woman in time, so she needed her relatives to complete the procedures before she could start the operation smoothly.
In desperation, Venus chose to tell her father about this.
Originally, Venus thought that his father, as a soldier, would be furious, but he would not understand.
But I didn’t expect that the last time I met as a father and son, my father accepted all this peacefully.
and personally took Venus’ ID card for gender change, allowing Venus to successfully go to the operating table.
Venus has performed many surgeries because there are many changes.
For example, breast augmentation surgery that was already common at that time was easier for her.
But when cleaning up your beard, Venus encountered a problem.
It is said that when the root of the beard is pulled out, if anesthetic is applied, it will affect the shape of the lip.
Therefore, Venus cannot use anesthetic, and can only endure the pain of the pulling of each beard. The surgery to remove the Adam's apple after
is exactly the same.
Venus endured huge pain and completed these two parts.
The operation started means that everything was irreversible. Venus kept fantasizing about how she looked in women's clothing, and
for the time being forgot all the pain because she knew she would get what she wanted right away.
When performing surgery on these parts, Venus suffered nearly 5 hours on the operating table.
However, these are not finished. She still has the most important part that she has not undergone surgery.
However, in China, sex change surgery was rare at that time and there was little clinical experience.
, so Venus had to take a lot of risks to replace the gender organs.
The several surgeries were not performed on the same day. Before undergoing gender-organ surgery,
Venus has to decide the operation time and sign the risk responsibility letter.
In the end, Venus chose the Qingming Festival of that year. Friends knew that
advised Venus to change the date. After all, Qingming Festival is somewhat unlucky.
But Venus is not afraid, but instead means that Qingming Festival is eliminated and you will live openly after
.
Venus's calmness brought her good luck. Finally, after 16 hours of surgery,
Venus finally got from a male "him" to a female "her" as she wished.
However, Venus's surgery was not smooth. It is said that during the operation,
Due to the negligence of a nurse, the clip that clamped Venus's left leg artery loosened.
Therefore, after the operation, Venus' left calf could not move.
The doctor told Venus that her left leg was likely to be disabled.
This was a fatal blow to Venus because she was 28 years old at the height of her career. If her left leg cannot move, it means she will never be able to dance again in her life.
How can Venus endure such a life? She can completely change her gender.
has the ability to overcome all seemingly impossible difficulties again.
So Venus began painful rehabilitation training. At first, she was unwilling to sit in a wheelchair, so
started to use crutches . After a period of recovery, she learned to use crutches.
to the end, Venus threw away the crutches and limped.
Gradually she returned to her original appearance and recovered completely in 1996.
But after all, he was still injured, and Venus's body cannot recover from its peak state. Shortly after
recovered, Venus performed her first performance.
had someone familiar with her at that time and said she was not as high as before.
But Venus was not convinced because she knew it was already a miracle that she could stand on the stage again.
After the operation, as a celebrity in the dance industry, Venus has received a lot of criticism.
Because many people cannot understand her decision to undergo a sex change operation,
even used many dirty words to scold her.
But since Venus chose to openly make her experience of transgendering to public,
is ready to accept public opinion. Therefore, Venus once said that
has the freedom to choose gender, so she is willing to leave the freedom of comments to others.
After surgery and postoperative recovery, Venus is still shining on the stage.
Not only did she win the Cultural Award, she also founded her own dance troupe.
You should know that Venus is the first dancer in China to establish a personal dance troupe.
When it was still in 1999, Venus led his team to start a domestic tour.
later opened the performance to Europe and achieved great success.
Just as Venus was busy performing and rehearsing, a long-lost friend contacted her.
When this person was Venus or a man, the married wife Ken Polyn.
It turns out that Ken Polynn is pregnant and decides to marry her boyfriend,
However, the marriage relationship between her and Venus has not yet been dissolved, so she asked Venus to divorce.
Just like that, Venus ended her first absurd marriage.
Facing the child sincerely
After becoming a woman, Venus had a career, but did not start a family.
When she finally accepted her transgender mother, she also began to worry.
Whether it is her son or daughter, she always wants to get married.
So with the advice and accompanying of his mother, Venus went to adopt a newly born abandoned baby.
This child is Venus’ eldest son Dudu.
Because Venus cannot have children, she regards this adopted child as her own.
Holding the little duo, Venus poured all her maternal love.
Maybe it was because she was afraid that a child would be lonely, or maybe it was because Venus was not satisfied with having only one child. After
, she took home a baby girl under 1 year old and a newborn baby boy.
With the company of three children, Venus has more warmth and happiness every day after returning home.
Although the children are growing up vigorously under the care of Venus, Venus is also worried about one thing.
That is how to explain the children's life experience in the future.
Originally, she thought that the children were still young and did not rush to say it, but she didn't expect Dudu to give her an opportunity.
When Dudu was young, he asked Venus if he was Venus' biological child.
was shocked by Jin Xing at that time, but she still chose to tell her son the truth calmly.
Venus told Dudu that although she wanted to give birth to Dudu for ten months,
, she turned out to be a man and could not have children. Only by becoming a woman can she have children.
Dudu understood Venus very much, so he told his mother that her mother actually wanted to give birth to him, but
but couldn't give birth, so she asked other aunts for help.
Mother can only live with him after the aunt gave birth to him.
, and Dudu asked Venus naively if she could thank that aunt.
Venus told her son sincerely that she thanked the aunt.
Vincent's educational method is sincere and gentle, allowing children to accept reality well.
After having children, Venus also experienced several relationships, but they all ended up in vain.
Until one time on the plane, she met the German hans .
Hans fell in love with her at first sight on the plane, and the two exchanged contact information.
soon confessed to Venus, and Venus was also honest with Hans.
truthfully informed me of my sexual experience and the fact that I adopted 3 children.
But after Hans thought carefully, he still felt that he loved Venus very much, so the two got together.
In 2005, Venus and Hans held a wedding and received their certificates.
Hans also respected Venus's life and work and chose to stay in China.
was also in this year. Venus made a guest appearance in the movie " Tom Yum Kung ".
played the role of Mrs. Rose in the film, leaving a deep impression on the audience.
Unconsciously, Venus entered the entertainment industry in controversy.
In addition to appearing on some variety shows, he also occasionally makes guest appearances in film and television dramas.
In fact, Venus and Hans had divorced once because their children needed to register for household registration,
However, since Hans is a foreigner, the child's household registration is not easy to register,
so they had no choice but to divorce. Of course, they naturally got the marriage certificate again.
The relationship between Venus and Hans has always been very good. In an interview, Hans once said that he and Venus have never had any slack, but this does not affect their relationship.
In recent years, Venus has been committed to cultivating newcomers in the dance troupe. In addition,
is doing its own programs and being a host.
The broadcast of " Venus Show " has gained a lot of fans, because Venus has always been very open and has something to say.
has revealed many inside stories in the entertainment industry and told many stories she has experienced, which made the audience admire it.
However, Venus's openness infringes on the interests of some people.
Shortly after, "The Venus Show" was reported and cannot continue to be recorded and broadcast.
, and many other programs that Venus participated in have cut her clips.
Of course, as bystanders, we can't tell which is right and who is wrong, but it's a pity that this program has been suspended.
However, this cannot hinder the development of Venus. She still hosted some programs, such as
in 2020's " Chasing the Light Brother ", and last year's " Hello Other Half ", etc.
Venus's hosting style is sharp and humorous, and has won the love of many people.
In the dance world, Venus has always been supporting the younger generation and encouraging newcomers to continue their dreams.
Venus was a judge in a program and heard a female contestant say that
was once accused by the teacher of not being a dancer. Venus, who has always been a stinky tongue,
tried his best to comfort the female contestant and said, "Who is not this material, your teacher is just jealous of you."
and encouraged the girl to stick with it.
Liu Yuxin also participated in that program. When the gender was questioned,
was also Venus spoke for Liu Yuxin and encouraged her to continue.
Every time Venus dances, he will stand in the C position, holding the hands of the dancers on both sides,
walk forward with them, but halfway through,
Venus will release the hands of these young dancers, and stand in place, watching them walk further.
Some people say that Venus is sending the hope of these dances to a further future.
She has always been committed to cultivating excellent dancers, and
has never been separated from her beloved dance career for a moment.
has also been broadcasting live frequently in the past two years. Many people say that she has no lower limit.
even does live broadcasts in order to make money, but Jin Xing said frankly that the money earned by
live broadcast can be used to pay wages to assistants and employees without embarrassment.
In July this year, someone posted a photo with Venus on a social platform.
Venus looks in a good mood and has a very close relationship with friends.
It is said that Venus and Hans are now living in Paris, and they will take a walk and have dinner together when they have nothing to do.
Her children have grown up, and Venus can live a leisurely little life.
Venus has been sober all her life. She has a clear understanding of her gender since she was a child.
can unswervingly choose her own path in the face of all kinds of rumors.
She is firm and brave. Even though she was told by the doctor that she would be disabled, she still worked hard to recover and returned to the stage of love.
Although Venus's "poisonous tongue" has been criticized by many people, it has to be said that
is now less and less people in the entertainment industry who dare to tell the truth like her.
is exactly this way, and the audience will like Venus, and her openness and justice are both liked.
Now Venus appears less frequently, and she spends more time with her family.
Some time ago, someone photographed Venus shopping with her daughter abroad, which looked very happy.
Vincent has lived the life she wants through her own efforts and has a perfect family.
So what if there is a big controversy in the outside world? At least Venus herself knows it.
The life she firmly grasps is the most exciting and happiest life.
