Have you ever seen the movie "Miso Soup of Little Flower" directed by Japanese director Ajikito, starring Hirosue Ryoko , and adapted from real stories? I saw the movie introduction on "Jiaxin.com" this morning, which made people cry~ Qianhui, a mother suffering from breast cancer, forced her to go to the kitchen to learn cooking when her daughter Xiaohua was only 4 years old. How she takes a kitchen knife, how to wash vegetables... Because she knew that she had little time and wanted to teach her daughter how to survive the most, and children who know how to cook could survive wherever they went.
Xiaohua's family lives in Fukuoka Prefecture, Japan. My mother, Chie, was born in 1975. She studied in the Vocal Music Department at the Graduate School of Fukuoka Education University. After graduation, she worked as a music teacher at Meiji Academy in Kitakyushu.
Father Ahnwu Nobuo is a reporter from the Japanese News Agency, 12 years older than Chie. When I met Chiei, Nobuo had just ended a marriage and his career was in crisis. He was originally depressed and sluggish, but with the encouragement of a young music teacher, he gradually got out of the trough. Later, under Shingo's initiative, the two fell in love.
Qianhui loves to smile, sing, and food, and her brightness illuminates Xinwu's world. But what is unexpected is that during a physical examination, she was diagnosed with breast cancer! Qianhui wants to break up. Xinwu disagreed and proposed to her, wanting to spend the most difficult days with her, and then go to see the mountains, rivers and stars together. After Qianhui's treatment came to an end, the two entered the palace of marriage.
More than a year after marriage, Qianhui became pregnant unexpectedly. Having a child may cause cancer recurrence, but Qianhui and her family want to keep the child. She said firmly: "I was born to see my child."
The idea of being a mother is so unreasonable, knowing that she might have it. She is her own life, but she is unwilling to give up her children. In 2003, his daughter Xiaohua was born. But this joy did not last long. Nine months later, Qianhui's cancer relapsed.
Qianhui opened a blog online to record his anti-cancer process. The condition was gradually under control, and she was very happy and thought she could grow up with her daughter. That was the happiest time for their whole family. My father believed that I would go home after work, and accompanied my wife and daughter to have dinner and sing together. Looking at their smiles, Shingo felt that it was worth it to go around looking for a doctor and working hard to make money.
But when Xiaohua was 4 years old, Qianhui was told that the condition had worsened and the cancer cells had spread throughout the body. As life entered the countdown, Qianhui began to think about what she could leave for her daughter. After experiencing the torture of illness, she believes that health is the most important thing. If you want to be healthy, you must eat well, so the most important skill that children should have is cooking.
On Xiaohua's birthday, Qianhui gave her child an apron. Since then, I have started teaching Xiaohua how to cook, cut vegetables, wash vegetables, and cook soup. Seeing the child's dangerous movements of holding the knife, Qianhui held back and did not reach out to help, but just whispered to remind her of the correct way to handle it. A little child is forced to learn to grow up before he can act coquettishly in his mother's arms.
When Xiaohua was 5 years old, Qianhui passed away at the age of 33.
After Qianhui passed away, Shingo was too sad and couldn't help but pick up the cigarette that he had quit for many years. He occasionally drank alcohol, trying to escape.
Xiaohua tried to comfort him. She secretly threw her father's cigarette into the trash can and advised him to drink less. My father was busy with work and went home late, so she prepared dinner herself and waited for her father. My father praised her for her delicious cooking, so she cooked the meal early for several days in a row, imitating her mother and wanted to take good care of her father.
After all, she is a 5-year-old child. Xiaohua can't help crying when she thinks of her mother. At this time, the father would hold her, coax her like the mother, make delicious food for her, and want to give her a sense of security. The father and daughter depended on each other and lived the most difficult days.Later, their story was published as the book "Hans who can cook can survive wherever they go" and it was also made into the movie "Miso Soup of Little Flowers", which touched millions of people around the world.
After her mother passed away, Xiaohua's father took care of everything. She guided her children to do homework every day, and took her children out for a walk on weekends to exercise. The relationship between the two is not always smooth. During the rebellious period of youth, Xiaohua once did not want to talk to her father. For two years, the two had little conversation and communication. My father felt very sad. There were only two people in the family. If he didn't talk to his daughter, no one would chat all day long.
When Xiaohua recalled it later, she also felt that she was annoying at that time. I don’t know why, but during that period, I just didn’t want to meet people, didn’t want to talk to people, and I didn’t want to say anything. She was also sorry for making her father so sad.
Later, Xiaohua took advantage of the opportunity of Father's Day to write a letter to her father, saying: "Before my heart is truly mature, please be patient." The corners of his eyes were wet after seeing it. He knew that all he could do was wait, and then he went into the kitchen to make bento for his daughter.
Now, Xiaohua is 19 years old and has been admitted to university to study food and food. She wants to work in diet-related jobs after graduation and is preparing to take the qualification exam during college. In order to accumulate diet-related experience, she also worked at the sushi restaurant in her spare time. After getting into college, the father and daughter had fewer opportunities to have dinner together. But as long as the daughter has time to go home, they will go to the kitchen to cook, miso soup, , and have a lively meal.
Husband An Wu Xinwu has never remarried. During the process of taking care of his daughter, he had many feelings and wanted to tell his wife. Wu Xinwu opened a new blog called "Little Flower's Miso Soup". He added the words left by his beloved wife to his annotation and posted them. Many of them were also what he wanted to say to his daughter.
Xiaohua also read these blog posts. She gradually understood her mother's thoughts, knew what her mother had done for herself back then, and what kind of person she was.
Recently, Anwu Xinwu's book was published, and he and his daughter took the book to visit Qianhui. The program team interviewed and filmed her family for 12 years. In 2010, the program team asked his father what his wish was, and his father said that he "I hope the family of three will have dinner together."
12 years have passed, and the program team asked about his wish again, and his father still said with tears in his eyes: "I want a family of three to have dinner together." That is his unchanging wish in this life.
When I was 7 years old, the program team asked Xiaohua what the fun of making miso soup is. Xiaohua said, "Father will smile at me." Xiaohua's answer is still the same now. If you cook, your father will be very happy and she feels very happy.
In the long 19 years, an dining table closely connects the father and daughter.
Qianhui has been away for 14 years. For Xiaohua nowadays, it is natural to live without a mother. She forgot many things, but looking at what her father did for her mother and her cooking skills she had practiced since childhood, she felt that her mother had left her with the best wealth.
Although the sadness has not subsided, the father and daughter will firmly move towards the future and live their lives well. Cherish the present and cherish everything your mother has given for herself. This is the meaning of life.
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