Foreword
In 2011, the beautiful Tujia girl Liu Sai won the annual championship of "Avenue of Stars" with her song "Looking at the Moon".
What is touching is that her voice is like the sound of nature, her smile is sweet and she has a sweet personality The lively girl turned out to be blind.
Although she was born with a disability, she is still self-reliant, spreads positive energy, and never cries about her fate. Instead,
has always inspired many disabled people with her own experience, and is known as the "blind lark" and "moon" daughter".
Such a positive personality also won her wonderful love.
During her competition, a rural boy traveled thousands of miles to express his love to her.
Liu Sai’s mother was always worried at the beginning that he was looking at her. He fell in love with his daughter's fame, and it was not until he went through many tests that he gave her to him.
Now the two have been married for 7 years but have not given birth to a child. How is their life going?
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Liu Sai was born in Zhangjiajie, Hunan Province in 1987. His father is a soldier and his mother is a kindergarten teacher. The family is very happy.
And my mother is very good at nurturing children. She taught Liu Sai singing and playing piano since he was a child.
By the time Liu Sai was 5 years old, he had become a famous "little singer" in the kindergarten.
But all this collapsed when she was 5 years old.
As she grew up day by day, her parents discovered that Liu Sai was a little different from ordinary children.
At first, she would occasionally have blank eyes, and her mother once thought she was There is something wrong with your intelligence.
Later, he took her to the hospital for a check-up and found out that Liu Sai had a congenital fundus disease.
had no way to cure it, so he could only let her eyesight decrease little by little, until she couldn't see anything at the end.
Mom and dad could not accept this cruel result. They took a long vacation and took Liu Sai to seek medical advice. They spent a lot of money, hoping for a miracle,
but the final result was the same, no one could cure him. Her eyes could only be delayed through expensive treatment.
After returning home, my mother cried all day long. She looked at her lovely daughter and thought that she would become blind in the future, and her heart felt like a knife.
Although my father was also in pain, he was always stronger than my mother, and he was a soldier with a resolute and powerful personality.
After thinking about it, he told his mother: "We will be stricter with her in the future, and we can no longer pamper her."
From then on, in addition to teaching her to sing and dance, her mother also had another job, which was to teach her to be independent.
Combing hair, washing face, cooking, washing clothes, etc., these are things that many children cannot do, and her parents require her to learn them and practice them constantly.
She has been in elementary school for six years, and her parents have never picked her up or dropped her off once. Even when it was windy or rainy, they always let her go home by herself.
Liu Sai once thought that her parents didn't love her because she couldn't see. ,
Later she learned that the clothes she had washed were not clean at all, and her mother would wash them again carefully.
Her father escorts her to and from school every day, but he doesn't let her know that
all this is to make her more independent so that she can take care of her own life in the future.
And at that time, the parents had the target to have a second child,
but in order to give all their love to Liu Sai, they resolutely gave up.
Fortunately, when she was in elementary school, Liu Sai could barely see.
She could read and write with a magnifying glass in her left hand and a flashlight in her right hand.
But after entering junior high school, Liu Sai refused to go for treatment no matter what. She was almost blind and her life became even more difficult.
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When Liu Sai entered junior high school, he began to realize that the huge annual treatment costs were a huge pressure on his parents.
Later, his parents ran out of savings and could only borrow money from relatives everywhere.
Liu Sai looked at his parents who were busy and tired, and couldn't bear that they worked so hard for him, so he never agreed to go to treatment.
No matter whether her mother beat her or scolded her, she refused to go. Liu Sai felt that he was too sorry for his parents. Yes, we must live up to our expectations in the future and let them live a good life.
Due to lack of treatment, Liu Sai's eyes only have a little sense of light.
He can only rely on 1000-degree glasses, and it is very difficult to read and write with a magnifying glass.
Needless to say, she has difficulties in learning. Her mother is more worried about her other things.
Because with the complete disappearance of her eyesight, Liu Sai’s eyes are becoming more and more dull.
She will not go back to look at others when they talk to her, and her eyes will become more and more dull. Getting sluggish.
’s mother is a kindergarten teacher and has always paid attention to her daughter’s image, so she strictly required Liu Sai to listen to the voice and turn her head to “look” at them no matter who spoke to her.
"My mother doesn't allow me to be in a daze, saying that I look dull. She wants my eyes to be bright and shining," Liu Sai said.
Moreover, her mother did not allow her to ignore her appearance just because she was disabled. She always required her to dress appropriately, have a generous manner, and have a sweet smile. As time went by, many people could not tell that she was blind.
In his third year of junior high school, Liu Sai also participated in the "Three Solo" music (solo, solo dance, and solo) competition for primary and secondary school students in Hunan Province and won the first prize in the Zhangjiajie competition area. After
graduated from junior high school, her mother decided to let her go to Hunan Art Vocational School. If she could become a disabled singer in the future, she could also support herself.
But an art school like this would definitely not recruit people with disabilities, so her mother thought of a way. She had used this trick many times since Liu Sai was a child.
She went to see the examination room in advance, and remembered where the judges were sitting, where they were waiting, and the distance to the middle of the venue.
After returning home, she accompanied Liu Sai to practice at home, counting over and over again. He walked step by step until Liu Sai could walk to the middle of the field accurately and naturally.
A miracle happened. On the day of the examination, Liu Sai walked into the examination room gracefully. After introducing herself, she started singing and performing.
Her beautiful voice quickly conquered the judges. No one could see that she was a Blind person,
Liu Sai finally passed the exam with fifth place in the professional course.
Liu Sai and his mother were very happy, thinking that everything would be fine.
However, the fire could not be suppressed. Soon after the school started, the school teacher called Liu Sai's parents.
He asked her to take his daughter back with an unhappy look on his face, and said: "How is it possible that a blind man still wants to sing and dance? Don't make trouble for the school, go to a special school."
Liu Sai's father was very sad after hearing this. , but they still begged the teacher in a low voice to let Liu Sai stay and study, otherwise she would really have no way out,
and they assured the teacher that Liu Sai could take care of herself and would never cause trouble to the school. Teacher
had no choice but to agree to let Liu Sai try it first before deciding. If it didn't work, he would still have to leave.
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In the following days, in order to stay, Liu Sai studied hard.
She would get up before dawn every day to practice her voice and sing, and she would still practice dance hard in the practice room late at night.
During the few years in school, she participated in many majors The competition achieved very good results.
Liu Sai was also named one of Changsha's "Top Ten Youth Models" because of her inspirational growth experience.
was also awarded the "Outstanding Actor Award" by the Hunan Provincial Department of Culture. The school also held the first "Excellent Actor Award" for her in the 55 years since the school was founded. A student solo concert.
Liu Sai proved herself with hard work. After graduation, she was admitted to China Disabled People's Art Troupe with excellent results and became a real singer.
She not only sang loudly at the National Center for the Performing Arts, Beijing Poly Theater and the 2008 Paralympic Games torch-collecting ceremony,
also followed the troupe to tour in Japan, Singapore , Israel, Norway and other countries.
was well received by the country. cordially received by leaders and International Paralympic Committee President Craven and others.
In 2011, 24-year-old Liu Sai ushered in the highlight of her life.
The director of "Avenue of Stars" saw her performance and invited her to participate in the competition. When
showed off her talents, the program team even asked her to dance on a drum with a diameter of less than 2 meters. You can imagine how difficult this was for her.
But Liu Sai relied on his strong will to complete the difficult problems given by the program team. When everyone knew that the person dancing on the drum was an invisible girl, they were all shocked, and the program was very effective. In the end,
Liu Sai won the annual championship with his song "Looking at the Moon" and became famous overnight.
Many people fell in love with this optimistic, cheerful girl with a sweet smile, including a rural boy from Henan.
During a break in competition, Liu Sai posted a message on the social platform: I am so hungry, I really want to eat egg yolk pie .
Unexpectedly, the next day, this "egg yolk pie brother" knocked on her door with two boxes of egg yolk pies.
Liu Sai didn't expect that he would take a train all night to deliver egg yolk pie to her due to his unintentional words.
Liu Sai expressed his gratitude to him. The two of them left each other's contact information and gradually became good friends.
During Liu Sai's competition, the "Egg Yolk Brother" gave her a lot of support and encouragement,
This made Liu Sai, who had never been in love, develop a love interest.
However, this relationship was opposed by Liu Sai's parents.
They felt that "Brother from the Egg Yolk Party" might just take a fancy to Liu Sai's fame and not really love her.
But "Brother from the Egg Yolk Party" impressed his parents-in-law with his true feelings.
Liu Sai's mother also saw her daughter's real happiness in love. They also knew that when her daughter grew up, she needed her own life, so they let go with tears. .
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In 2015, Liu Sai and his "egg yolk pie brother" got married.
After her marriage, Liu Sai continued to perform in commercials and made a lot of money. She also began to consider treating her eyes.
Before, her eyes needed constant treatment to maintain the last bit of light perception, but later she voluntarily gave up because the cost was too high. Now,
is rich, husband She took the initiative to go to a famous doctor to see her eyes, and said: "If Saisai's eyes can be cured, I can give her one of my eyes."
But unfortunately, even if the eyes are replaced, Liu Sai's eyes will be replaced. The eyes cannot be cured, so they can only be maintained as long as possible.
After their marriage, her husband became Liu Sai's 24-hour assistant, accompanying her in performances every day. There were also conflicts between the two.
For example, her husband cares about her too much and often wants her to sit down for a while when he sees her standing for a long time.
But Liu Sai doesn't want to sit down, so he keeps trying to persuade her. Liu Sai becomes a little angry: "Sitting down will wrinkle her clothes." "How can I get on stage soon?"
Sometimes her husband brought water to her to drink. Liu Sai didn't want to drink it, so her husband kept urging her to drink it, and Liu Sai had to drink it impatiently.
Sometimes when Liu Sai wants to do something, her husband must grab it, and Liu Sai angrily says, "I can do it myself, so don't worry about me."
Liu Sai feels that her husband is like her other mother. Likewise, he always treated her like a giant baby and took too much control of her. There were also many quarrels between the two of them.
But in the end Liu Sai figured it out. She understood that her husband was too nervous about her because of love.
And her husband also understood that she was used to being independent and needed some space, so that she would feel that her life was valuable and she was a human being. Normal people.
Since then, her husband has learned the methods of Liu Sai's parents and let her do it by herself, while he secretly protects her from the side.
Liu Sai's parents finally felt relieved when they saw that their daughter had married the right person. Liu Sai often told them: "You have taken care of me all my life, it's time to take a rest."
Liu Sai's parents always felt sorry for her and did not give her anything. She has a healthy body, but Liu Sai feels that he has failed them.
"If I were a healthy child, they would definitely be able to live a better life. It was me who dragged them down." Liu Sai said,
After becoming famous, Liu Sai gave all the money he earned to his mother. In the past few years, , she bought a 300-square-meter villa for her parents so that they could enjoy their old age in peace.
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Of course Liu Sai also felt sorry for her husband because she could not have a child.
When she first got married, both her husband and her parents-in-law hoped that Liu Sai would give birth to a lovely child.
However, after Liu Sai asked the doctor, he learned a piece of unfortunate news:
If she gave birth to a child, she might really lose her mind. Gone.
Because Liu Sai's disease is a fundus problem, the blood supply cannot reach the eyes, which will lead to eye ischemia.
If she gives birth to a child, it will have a great impact on her eyes.
She now only has a faint sense of light, which can only be felt by turning on and off the lights.
If she gives birth to a child, she may never be able to see it again.
The final advice given by the doctor is that you can only take treatment first, and then consider having children if it gets better.
Although it was a pity, her husband still put Liu Sai's health first and did not blame her.
Her parents-in-law also gave her the greatest respect and said it was okay not to have children. When Liu Sai was treated for glasses, they would still Take the initiative to take care of her.
Liu Sai is very grateful to them and bought a house for her parents-in-law in rural Henan. She goes back to see them whenever she has time.
At the same time, she does not give up treatment and hopes to become a real mother one day.
Liu Sai is unfortunate, but also lucky. Although
has been disabled since childhood, she has a pair of parents who care about her and love her, a husband who takes good care of her, and parents-in-law who understand her,
even the friends around her were very kind to her. Once Yunfei was on the mic with her and found that she didn't need a sound card to sing, which would hurt her throat.
So Yunfei bought her a sound card and sent it to her. In the past, now they are also called brother and sister, and their relationship is very good.
In fact, it is because of Liu Sai's own strength and optimism that everyone likes her so much and is willing to help her.
As a blind singer, Liu Sai's self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-reliance are vividly reflected in her.
Although she is blind, she always shows others with a bright smile.
She never complains about her fate. Face life positively, rely on your strong perseverance to realize your dreams step by step, and finally gain happiness.
