Buying Hongmei agreed without thinking. At that time, their family gathered in front of an old-fashioned TV, watching the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and performing the sketch "Call Me If You Need Anything".

One day in 2000, singer Sun Nan suddenly proposed to actor Maian Hongmei by kneeling down and proposing:

"Maimai, will you marry me?"

Maian Hongmei agreed without even thinking about it.

Counting from the moment of the proposal, they have known each other for less than 24 hours!

Sun Nan’s courage stems from a childhood vow.

At that time, their family gathered in front of an old-fashioned TV, watching the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and performing the sketch "Call Me If You Need Anything".

Sun Nan suddenly pointed excitedly at the girl on the TV and said to her mother: "Mom! She will be my wife in the future, and this is your daughter-in-law."

The mother smiled and shook her head, obviously not taking it to heart.

But who would have thought that just five years later, his son would really bring this actress home.

In fact, compared to Sun Nan, the courage to buy Hongmei is more worthy of admiration.

A man she had known for less than a day proposed to her, and she agreed without thinking.

Sun Nan was not famous at that time and had no money to hold a wedding, so she paid for it herself;

At the wedding, Sun Nan received a phone call and left the red girl alone, and she even apologized to the guests on his behalf.

In nearly 10 years of marriage, Mai Hongmei put her career on hold to take care of the family, leaving her husband to focus on his career.

But in the end, she got a complaint and it took her 4 years to get out.

Although she has been tortured, until now, Mai Hongmei has never said a bad word about her ex-husband.

Now, 13 years have passed since their divorce, and looking at their situations, they are really different.

I wonder if Sun Nan has ever regretted it when recalling every bit of their lives?

Mai Hongmei was born in Pingdingshan, Henan. Her parents are both folk performers.

She inherited the good genes of her parents. She was good at singing and dancing since she was a child, and she was also pretty and dewy.

She is a sensible girl. She has noticed since she was a child that her mother is envious of other people's children who are soldiers and likes to watch people in military uniforms on TV.

In order to fulfill her mother's wish, Mai Hongmei enlisted in the army at the age of 14 and became a dancer in the Northwest Military Region .

At the same time, Sun Nan had just graduated from junior high school and entered a factory instead of continuing to high school.

In just a few years, he worked as a welder, painter, carpenter, electrician, and even painted pencils in a pencil factory.

In fact, Sun Nan is a gifted child. His father is a well-known local vocal teacher, and his brothers and sisters have all been singers.

As the youngest son in the family, his father named him Dabo, hoping that he would be as strong and powerful as the waves of the sea in the future.

I don’t know if Sun Nanqiang is strong or not. I only know that many years later, his marriage will be like the waves of the sea.

When he was three or four years old, Sun Nan showed his excellent musical talent.

My father was teaching students at home, and he was listening in.

Later, due to the difficult living conditions, a family of five lived in a house with only 9 square meters, and sometimes seven or eight students would come in.

This made Sun Nan resist singing, so he went to work in a factory after graduating from junior high school.

The change happened when he was 18 years old. After Sun Nan was scolded for being late for not getting on the bus for the Nth time, she began to reflect on herself, should I have to be like this for the rest of my life?

Later, there was a cultural performance to be held in the pencil factory. The workshop director saw that Sun Nan often used pencils as drumsticks to beat paint buckets and sing, so he signed him up.

During the performance, Sun Nan's sister was also in the audience. Seeing that her younger brother played the drums well, she asked him to apply for a job as a drummer at the Baihua Art Troupe in Dalian.

Unexpectedly, this test opened the door to a new world for Sun Nan. From then on, he no longer had to squeeze in public transportation.

Sun Nan was also lucky. He caught up with a popular drummer and started singing. With his father's guidance, Sun Nan soon became famous in the local area and joined the coal mine art troupe.

Until this moment, Sun Nan was on the same starting line as the 14-year-old Maihongmei.

But the then 25-year-old Mai Hongmei was already a popular female comedian at the time.

It was during a condolence performance that a sketch actor could not go on stage because of diarrhea. The director went all over the backstage to find a suitable person to save the scene, and finally chose the red girl.

Just like that, she starred in her first sketch "Variations on a Female Soldier" without even rehearsing.

originally thought that this program would be the failure of the entire show, but the result was beyond everyone's expectations. Mai Hongmei also discovered her own comedy talent.

Later, she was admitted to the People's Liberation Army Art Academy without any difficulty, having already had stage experience.

After several years of polishing, her acting skills have become more mature and she has been given the opportunity to appear on the big stage.

In 1995, she partnered with Guo Donglin to perform the sketch "Speak If You Need Something".

She looks sweet and beautiful, and her eyes are very charming when she smiles. She is liked by many viewers.

The following year, she collaborated with Guo Donglin again in the CCTV program " Variety Show " and brought the sketch "Call Me If You Need Anything".

In the same year, the well-known CCTV producer Wang Wenhua created a series of sketches "Xinjiang Girls Maimaiti" specifically for Maihongmei.

After the program was broadcast, the name of the red girl became popular all over the country. At that time, some people even said that she would be the next Song Dandan .

At this time, it was still 4 years before she and Sun Nan met.

Before meeting Sun Nan, Maian Hongmei focused all her thoughts on her career and had no time for love at all.

But Sun Nan experienced an unforgettable love, and his scumbag attributes were also reflected early on.

Sun Nan met Xin Xin at a grand prix in 1988.

The two people often discuss music-related things together, and over time they came together.

Four years after falling in love, Xin Xin went to Japan to study, and the two people who were originally inseparable separated the two places.

Not long after, Sun Nan also went to Beijing again from Dalian and found the singer Gu Jianfen.

Because he heard that Gu Jianfen was recruiting students, he wanted to try his luck.

Fortunately, with talent and hard work, Sun Nan found a famous teacher;

After systematic study, Sun Nan entered the Central Song and Dance Ensemble on the recommendation of the teacher, which made her old father who had been a vocal teacher all his life very happy. Rejoiced.

And he is getting closer and closer to the goddess of his dreams, but he has no chance to contact her at all.

At that time, Sun Nan's monthly income was about 1,000 yuan. Although it was not much at that time, it was not too little either.

Most of the money was used by him to make international phone calls to his girlfriend.

On the phone, Xin Xin often heard him crying about poverty, which made her feel so distressed that she ran back to China soon after.

Sun Nan was having dinner with friends when he saw her. The moment he saw his girlfriend, he was so excited that he couldn't speak. After

, the two people lived together.

In 1993, Sun Nan went to Hong Kong to perform under the arrangement of CCTV. Fortunately, she was spotted by a record company and signed a contract.

After that, Sun Nan began to travel between places. He had never felt so busy.

But he doesn't dislike it, because this proves: He will be rich soon!

But before he could make any money, he persuaded his girlfriend not to sing anymore. In the three years since

has been developing in Hong Kong, Sun Nan has released three albums one after another, but all received mediocre response.

He could only turn around and return to the mainland for development, and asked his friend Li Jie to write a song for him, " Red Flag Fluttering ".

Thanks to this song, he finally made his mark in the music world and appeared on the Spring Festival Gala.

He used the money he earned to pay the down payment for a house in Beijing. His girlfriend Xin Xin is immersed in the joy of a bright future every day.

But what she didn't know was that this house was not their wedding room.

In a program, Sun Nan was lucky enough to come into contact with a red girl. Seeing the goddess sitting next to him when he was a teenager, his little heart was beating fast.

By the time the show ended, Sun Nan proposed to Mai Hongmei in less than 24 hours.

This is not surprising, because he has been rehearsing in his mind for many years how to pursue the red girl.

Mai Hongmei was particularly appreciative of his outrageous behavior. She didn't even think about it and just said what she agreed with.

The reason why she agreed so happily was actually because the romantic scenes at that time satisfied her adolescent fantasies.

When Mai Hongmei was 16 years old, she first fell in love. She said to her mother:

"If my husband from the previous life came to me, he didn't need to know much about me or say anything. As long as he said, Marry me, Maimai." ,I I knew that my husband from the previous life came to me at this time. "

Therefore, she regarded Sun Nan as her "right one" and said to him: You don't have to worry about anything. Don't feel inferior because you don't have money, because I have money. !

From then on, whenever Sun Nan was mentioned outside, she always looked happy.

However, their happiness was based on Xin Xin's pain. She never expected to break up with Sun Nan in this way.

Heartbroken, she still chose to heal alone. She returned to the resident bar and published a series of sad love songs such as "I've Always Standing Where I Was Hurt by You", directly accusing "Ruthless people treat everyone badly." Just as cruel and cowardly."

But Sun Nan's reply was that he didn't know this woman, and she was just using him for hype.

It’s hard to imagine what kind of torture this would be to Xin Xin’s heart.

As for the shopping girl, she still doesn’t know at this time that the beginning of romance often does not have a romantic ending...

"After nine years of marriage, Sun Nan has never even washed his socks. I have washed his socks for nine years. !”

No one knows how much the woman behind Sun Nan paid to buy the famous singer.

In May 2000, a dramatic scene happened at the wedding of Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei.

After receiving a call from CCTV, Sun Nan had to go out midway, leaving only Mai Hongmei to take charge of the overall situation.

Later, Sun Nan asked for a replacement, but she said with love: "I don't want it, I want to make him regret it for the rest of his life."

After that, Mai Hongmei put her career on hold and returned home to raise her husband and children, and gave birth to a son and a son to Sun Nan. female.

Although they have no relationship foundation, their family is happy and happy. Sun Nan's parents are very satisfied with their daughter-in-law.

It is said that as a soldier, Mai Hongmei was not allowed to have a second child, but for Sun Nan, she took off her military uniform and gave birth to a son.

But her desperation failed to win Sun Nan's wholeheartedness.

In life, he is a man with strong machismo ideas.

Every time a couple quarrels, no matter whose fault it is, the one who bows her head and apologizes in the end must be the girl buying red.

In early interviews, Mai Hongmei always said: Her husband is a very easy to coax person. As long as he is given a step down, the solemn atmosphere between the two of them will instantly relax.

did not expect that their "illusion" of happiness only lasted for just 10 years.

In 2009, just after Ma Hongmei gave birth to her second child, Sun Nan divorced her and became deeply affectionate with Pan Wei.

Pan Wei was the female anchor of travel TV at that time. She became associated with Sun Nan because of golf .

She has been married twice. Both of her exes loved her very much and understood and supported his work, but they eventually separated due to personality differences.

When Sun Nan was lonely, she got involved with Pan Wei and had an affair during the marriage.

However, in order to fight for the custody rights, Sun Na took the initiative and claimed that Mai Hongmei was unfaithful to her during the marriage and took her to court.

During that time, Mai Hongmei was so heartbroken that she almost committed suicide by jumping into the sea. Years later, she still couldn’t hide her tears when recalling this past event.

"At that time, I had just given birth to my second baby, and my body was still bloated. I was very desperate. I wrote the names of my daughter buy Baoyao and my son's 'little husband' on the beach and drew a line with my feet. She was afraid that she would jump into the sea without thinking. "

At Sun Nan's insistence, she was forced to have no choice but to finally agree to a formal divorce in March 2009.

At the end of the same year, there was news of marriage with Pan Wei. Pan Wei also publicly praised Sun Nan as a real man who "dare to love and dare to leave."

In the end, after torturing herself for four years, Mai Hongmei chose to reconcile and the two of them raised the child together.

What Sun Nan didn't expect was that not long after, his ex-wife became more popular than before, but he was confused.

In 2011, Mai Hongmei once again partnered with her old partner Guo Donglin and returned to the Spring Festival Gala stage.

Under the spotlight, Mai Hongmei seems to have been immersed in her favorite performance.

In addition, she has also participated in many TV series, such as Divorce Lawyer, Good Life and other works, she can be seen in it.

After this, she became completely popular. Although she was not a big hit, her works were broadcast every year.

On the other hand, in recent years, Sun Nan has acted like a monster whenever he appears in the public eye.

In 2015, during " I am a singer ", he ignored the rules and temporarily withdrew from the competition during the live broadcast of the finals.

In a follow-up interview, he admitted that he had already thought about withdrawing from the competition before the competition, but did not communicate with the program team in advance.

Thanks to Wang Han and who came to the rescue in times of crisis, it did not cause a catastrophe.

However, when talking about this matter, Sun Nan was complacent and said that he was the one who made Wang Han successful:

"He didn't dare to show a bad face to me. First of all, the ratings are very good. Besides, he should thank me and let the people of the country see that he is calm in the face of danger."

This incident caused dissatisfaction among many people at the time, and Sun Nan's reputation also dropped a lot as a result.

However, since then, he has been away from the music scene. He once again attracted everyone's attention because of a topic about "sending his daughter to female Durban ".

In the days when he is not singing, Sun Nan has been committed to the promotion of "Chinese Studies".

He left everything behind and moved his family to Xuzhou to accompany his children to study. Within three years, he and his eldest daughter Mai Baoyao, who was a Hongmei, were arranged to attend a girls' moral school called "Huaxia Academy ".

It is understood that the annual tuition of this school is 150,000, which is not accessible to ordinary people.

On the surface, Sun Nan seemed to be doing her best for her daughter, but everyone had been arguing about this school all the time.

The teachers here have no qualification certificates, and the school has no educational qualifications. There are basically no cultural courses here. They are all specialized courses such as nvren, tea ceremony, guqin, etc. The feudal ideology of women's "three obediences and four virtues" is also advocated.

"I am heading to the paradise in the eyes of parents and hell in the eyes of students."

This is the text that Mai Baoyao once posted on her social account. It can be seen that she was not happy when she first arrived in Xuzhou.

In fact, Mai Baoyao had her own acting dream. When she was about to enter high school in 2016, she was still looking forward to enrolling in an acting academy in the future.

But Sun Nan said to others that she liked Chinese studies and that she respected her child's wishes when she transferred to another school.

Later, some netizens revealed that Pan Wei asked Mai Baoyao to go to a girls' school in Durban, while his own daughter had been attending an ordinary high school in Beijing and had already started to send her to study abroad.

When comparing the education of biological daughters and stepdaughters, the gap becomes clear.

For a time, there were divergent opinions on the Internet. Sun Nan and Pan Wei became the targets of public criticism, and were scolded by netizens for everything.

At this moment, the party involved, Mai Baoyao, published a long article, saying "I learned a lot here" that subverted everyone's outlook.

You can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep. Since Bao Yao himself is willing, we as outsiders don’t need to say anything more.

Compared with their "liveliness", Mai Hongmei lives a low-key and happy life.

While struggling for her career, she met her current husband, Sun Yulun.

The two got married in a low-key manner, and the other party pampered her like a princess. Every time she was photographed, she could not tell that she was over fifty.

buy red girl once said that when you hate someone, the best way to get revenge is to live a better life than him, and obviously she did it.

Now 13 years have passed since the "divorce war" that year.

Looking at their respective current situations, the gap is really clear, and for such a current situation, everything has already been foreshadowed.

You said, if you give her another chance, when you hear the sentence : "Buy, buy, marry me, please?" .

Will she still answer "yes" without hesitation?