mentioned Yi Nengjing , everyone should be very familiar with this name. After all, her achievements as an actress and singer are obvious to all, but since she married Qin Hao and gave birth to her daughter Xiaomi Li, has gradually faded out. Screen , rarely appears in public view.
But some time ago, she participated in two variety shows, " Mother-in-law and Mom " and " Sister Riding the Wind and Waves ". In the former, she showed her method and wisdom in getting along with her mother-in-law , and the two were as close as friends. . In the latter, although she is no longer as innocent and childish as she was when she was young, she is still well-maintained, and her whole person exudes a maturity and confidence that has experienced the world.
So what has Yi Nengjing experienced along the way? Let's take a look.
She was responsible for the family at a young age
Yi Nengjing was born in Taiwan, China. Her real name was Wu Jingyi, but later her mother remarried a Japanese, so she took her stepfather's surname and changed her name to Yi Nengjingjiang, and her stage name was Yi Nengjing.
Although Yi Nengjing's parents are both educated intellectuals, her father's family is very patriarchal, and her mother has given birth to several children, all of whom are daughters, so Yi Nengjing and her daughter have always been treated coldly by their grandparents and father. Later he even had an affair.
So not only has she not experienced the feeling of being loved and cared for by her father since she was a child, but she also has to endure her parents' daily quarrels. This has become a big missing part of her growing up experience. At the same time, it has also caused a lot of damage to her little mind. Shadows and damage.
Later, her parents divorced, and she and her sisters lived with their mother. Her father didn't care about them at all, and her mother's income was very meager. As a teenager, she had to go out to work to support the family. While other girls were being cared for by their parents and sitting in classrooms with clear windows to study, she washed dishes in a small restaurant, and even sang in nightclubs in the entertainment industry to support her family before she was a minor.
She was originally a carefree age, but she was forced to become an adult. This experience created her sensitive, precocious and strong heart.
Later, her mother remarried her stepfather. Her living conditions were better and she could continue to go to school. She has been fond of Western literature since she was a child, and she could always perceive the beautiful artistic conception of the original text in those formulaic translations. At the same time, she also liked singing and art. , she perfectly combined the two and became a creative professional singer.
After growing up, Yi Nengjing returned to Taiwan from Taiwan and Japan, and met her boss Mr. Liu Wenzheng. Liu Wenzheng admired her talent and spared no effort to cultivate her. Soon, she was under the help of Liu Wenzheng Next, he published his first album.
After a rough road of love, she finally found love
After that, she signed a contract with a record company and officially became a singer. Because of her excellent strength , her career began to steadily enter a period of upward growth, and it developed better and better step by step.
During this process, Yi Nengjing managed both career and love. She fell in love with Yu Chengqing, who was also a singer, for 14 years, and later got married and gave birth to her son Harry. The two have been married for 9 years . Just when the outside world thought that the long-distance love between the two was finally successful, the two announced the news of divorce a few years later. Faced with outside discussions, Yi Nengjing said that there was nothing wrong with the two of them, but they were just inappropriate.
She is a very insecure person, and she can’t help but make trouble with Yu Chengqing. Sometimes it’s okay, but in the long run it will really affect people’s normal life. It is precisely because of her words that netizens gave her She was given the title of "princess disease", and she was also called the older princess.
A few years later, Yi Nengjing met Qin Hao, who was 10 years younger than herself. The two fell in love at first sight and soon fell in love. Then Qin Hao made a romantic proposal, and the two soon entered into marriage. palace.
After marriage, the two people are very loving, but occasionally they have some disputes. Yi Nengjing is a very romantic person . She seems to have a little girl living in her heart. She always loses her temper because of trivial things. For example, Qin Hao failed to notice her emotional changes in time and then came to comfort her, while Qin Hao felt that the two When individuals are together, they understand and tolerate each other. Only children need to be coaxed frequently. It would be childish to do this all the time.
And Yi Nengjing also likes small surprises and sweet words. Generally speaking, it is the sense of ritual in life. , but Qin Hao’s thoughts are much more practical. He feels that being truly good to a person means that she has no worries about food and clothing, and no shortage of money to spend. , this is real love. Both of them are still young and there is no need to do so many bells and whistles.
But saying that, his heart for Yi Nengjing has never been shaken by these little things.
Being strong is your confidence.
In addition, Yi Nengjing also performed very well in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves". Even Zhang Meng and Huang Shengyi were willing to bow down to her when they met her. This also made netizens accuse her of being a "princess" disease" reason.
However, in the face of accusations from netizens, Yi Nengjing did not show humility and introspection. Instead, she claimed that she was qualified to have princess disease because she was making money to support her family when she was very young. Later, after she became famous, her income increased with the tide. He also takes good care of his sisters and his mother's family.
Even several of her sister’s children, her nephews and nieces, some want to do business, some want to study abroad, and if they have enough, they all take it from her, and she gives it to them simply every time. In addition, she also bought a connected house for her sisters and mother, hoping that the family could live together and visit would be more convenient.
She feels that she is just being nice to herself, why not? She pursues romance and a high-quality life. This is what she is fully capable of giving herself. Why should she be criticized and interfered by others?
But this is just Yi Nengjing's own thoughts. In the eyes of the majority of netizens, she does have some concubine disease, but the reason why Yi Nengjing is like this is actually inseparable from her childhood experience. Perhaps it was during the days when she could openly ask for sweets that she prematurely shouldered the burden of life, burying the childish side deeply in her heart.
After a few years, when she had the financial ability, she naturally wanted to compensate herself for not getting the candy. To put it bluntly, it was only because of the lack of emotion during her growth that she had such a character, which is understandable.
Conclusion
Everyone’s growth environment is different, and the characters they develop are also different. The influence and harm caused by some bad native families will follow people throughout their lives. Nowadays, Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao are living a happy life. It can be seen from the variety show that Qin Hao is also very good to her. It can be said that they live a happy life.
But we should not doubt ourselves because of other people's accusations and comments, because it is not your fault. Even if you do your best, there are always some things that are beyond human reach. We should try to reconcile with it. At the same time, strengthen yourself, like Yi Nengjing, if you are strong enough, you can confidently say when others criticize and question you: "I think I have this qualification!"