I had nothing to do in the summer and watched a TV series called "Chicken Feathers Flying to the Sky". There is a very classic passage in it, which talks about some people who are very smart and work hard, but why they have not succeeded even after they are so big. 01 Why was he

During my free time in the summer, I watched a TV series called "Chicken Feathers Flying to the Sky". There is a very classic passage in it, which talks about some people who are very smart and work hard, but why they have not succeeded even after they are so big.

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Why was he born as humble as a chicken feather and finally able to fly into the sky?

"Chicken Feathers Flying to the Sky" is an urban commercial drama directed by Yu Ding and starring Zhang Yi, Yin Tao, Tao Zeru, Zhang Jianing, Gao Shuyao, Hua Kun, Lin Yiting. The play uses the emotional and entrepreneurial stories of Chen Jianghe and his wife Luo Yuzhu as clues to tell the tortuous and glorious process of Yiwu's reform and development for more than 30 years.

The protagonist in the play, Chen Jianghe, was an orphan when he was born. He was picked up by the villagers and named Ji Fei. Unlike many of us, he not only did not live his life like chicken feathers on the ground, but instead led the villagers to fly chicken feathers into the sky. Why can a person who was born as humble as a chicken feather be able to fly to the sky with everyone in the end?

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Chen Jianghe said a very classic saying in the play, which can be used as a warning!

1. You are very strong, you are very motivated, but why do you still have no achievements at such an old age? Have you ever summarized your life?

2. You lack judgment and rationality, and you lack the ruthlessness to throw everything away at critical moments.

3. So, if someone randomly throws you a fish, you may be dragged into the water.

4. If a person has a small heart, he will not be able to hide it. If a person's mood is small, he will not be able to do much business in this life.

5. Only when you become a big person can you be able to withstand the pressure and grievances, and your vision will not be so narrow.

6. People, you must live an open life in this life. In this long life, you can only keep making mistakes, keep reflecting, and keep learning, so that you can understand yourself more clearly and understand the laws of things themselves.

The inspiration gained from this:

Many of our parents accompany their children to learn English. They look good in every aspect and work very hard, but why are they not successful? You can refer to these words of Chen Jianghe.

First of all, we need to frequently summarize and review

eight simple theoretical lessons. Are there any problems in our understanding and implementation? Don't just listen to the lecture and understand it. When you finally do it, do you play the games that should be played, do you do the expansion that should be done, or do you just play without talking, only read the grading, and don't play the games. In the long run, time will not lie to anyone.

Second, we need to exercise our judgment and the habit of rational thinking

Many of our parents, especially mothers, decide what classes to enroll their children in and what plans to make, just like buying clothes, lipstick, and bags, it happens suddenly and on a whim. . It takes ten years to grow trees and a hundred years to cultivate people. Children’s education is not as simple as buying and selling.

Therefore, the first lesson, the letter of commitment and the family meeting, must not be vague. Even if you get to that step, you will find that there are many problems and many objective difficulties in all aspects. It doesn't matter if you know that you may not do well in the future. Just set a reasonable small goal and persevere. Even if you complete a small step, it is still a kind of success. success. At least it's better than struggling and asking for nothing.

Third, the ruthless

who can drop everything at critical moments is actually not easy to do this. Only those who have endured hardship know how to cherish.Only those who have experienced hardships know how precious opportunities are. This cannot be taught, but if you can, if this matter is important to you and worth your efforts, then of course the more energy you put in and the more you dare to smash, the better.

Fourth, withstand loneliness and temptation

In the second season, many parents have learned some gains and feel good, but they feel that this matter is not that easy. In addition, because it is online learning and there is no one to supervise you, it will inevitably be a little difficult to concentrate. After a while, this lesson package, that box, what about reading, bilingual explanation, STEM classroom, science, etc., I started to think of various ways to take advantage of it.

There is no need to carry out the three-year bilingual project plan in a solid manner, and check in one by one, even if each one only achieves 60 points, it is extraordinary.

Fifth, put your mind on things, not on your heart.

Chen Jianghe said that people's hearts should become bigger. When the heart is bigger, things will become smaller, so that you can withstand the pressure and endure the grievances. Whether a man is doing a career or a woman is raising children, there will be pressure, and both need to learn to adjust, have lofty ideals and goals, and not be carried away by practical problems.

Sixth, don’t be afraid of making mistakes, but be afraid of not having the opportunity to make mistakes

In this world, there are peaks and troughs, poverty and wealth. It is like a roller coaster. Sometimes it's high, sometimes it's low, sometimes it's smooth, sometimes it's not smooth, sometimes it's flying up, sometimes it's falling down. This is all life, all we need to experience. Only by constantly making mistakes, constantly reflecting, and constantly learning can we understand ourselves more clearly and understand the laws of learning itself. Only then can we truly move from superficial knowledge to the true unity of knowledge and action.

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There is never a lack of opportunities and methods on the way to learning

In the process of learning English, there is never a lack of good methods and opportunities for progress, but there may be some that we have learned about, and some that we have not been exposed to. We should not regret too much about things we did not do in the past, nor should we waste too much energy and fear on things that did not happen in the future. If you should give up, give up, if you should persist, persist, don't hesitate, hesitation is the greatest consumption. We must be decisive in doing things, use our energy in the right place, enhance our own strength, and lay the foundation bit by bit. This is what we should do most.

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