It is not easy to be original. If you like it, please give Qiqi some attention. I love you. If Song Yunhui is an eagle flying in the sky, Lei Dongbao is a tiger fighting for dominance in the forest, then Yang Xun is a cunning fox. , seemingly innocent but full of calculations.

It is not easy to be original. If you like it, please give Qiqi some attention. I love you.

If Song Yunhui is an eagle flying in the sky, and Lei Dongbao is a tiger fighting for hegemony in the forest, then Yang Xun will He is a cunning fox, seemingly innocent but full of calculations.

The first description of Yang Xun in the original work:

Song’s mother said that since the summer, Xiao Yang has been selling steamed buns, and everyone has stopped going to the breakfast shop in the town for convenience. Besides, Xiao Yang is familiar with people. , everyone can talk to him. Everyone calls him a steamed bun specialist, and his business is very good.

From a small businessman walking in the streets to a wealthy businessman, no one knows how much sweat Yang Xun has put in for success, and no one knows how many tears he has shed. Tirelessness seems to be synonymous with him. It's like a perpetual motion machine , full of energy.

Perhaps it is because the responsibilities of an elder brother and a father are too burdensome, or perhaps because the road to starting a business is too difficult, Yang Xun is eager to find a partner who can accompany him through the ups and downs.

In his life, there have been three unforgettable loves, from the heart-pounding Dai Fengjiao, to the perfect idol Liang Sishen, and finally his spiritual partner Ren Xiayi. No matter which relationship he is dealing with, Yang Xun is always the best. Ambitious.

If "profit-seeking" is Yang Xun's label, and "calculation" is Yang Xun's standard for interacting with others, then in Yang Xun's three relationships, we see the truth of wanting to keep the marriage long-lasting.

Love without action

Dai Jiaofeng exists like white moonlight.

Until many years later, Yang Xun still remembered the feeling in his heart when he saw Dai Jiaofeng:

Yang Xun couldn't help being pulled away by Yang Lian, and when he reached the wedding party, he couldn't help but look at it again. The girl in green clothes was happy to see that the girl was also looking at him. The girl's big watery eyes touched Yang Xun's young and passionate heart.

Like all idol dramas, Yang Xun and Dai Fengjiao fell in love at first sight and soon fell in love. They had too many memories together. Of course, the plot inevitably fell into a cliche, and their love encountered opposition from Yang's mother.

Yang Xun, who was brought up by his mother alone since childhood, did not dare to resist. He had to secretly make a promise to Dai Jiaofeng and secretly take her to the Northeast to do business, thinking that his mother would definitely see Dai Jiaofeng's kindness in the future.

Two years later, Yang's mother still did not recognize Dai Jiaofeng's identity, even though Dai Jiaofeng would rather endure hardships and stay with Yang Xun, even though Yang Xun once had nothing.

Every time when Dai Jiaofeng asked about the future of the two of them, Yang Xun always used various gifts to prevaricate. Gradually, Dai Jiaofeng lost confidence in Yang Xun's hesitation. In order to appease Dai Jiaofeng, Yang Xun offered to buy her a house. This time Dai Jiaofeng felt that she finally saw the hope of staying with Commander Yang.

But reality quickly shattered Dai Jiaofeng’s dream. Due to the failure of the cooperation between Yang Xun and Lao Wang, Yang Xun was forced to sell their love nest, and an unexpected misunderstanding made Dai Jiaofeng leave sadly.

In the past, Dai Jiaofeng was willing to travel to the end of the world alone with Yang Xun, but why did she bow her head in front of a mere 8,000 yuan in the end? Has Dai Jiaofeng really changed her mind?

No, it was Yang Xun who did not give Dai Jiaofeng enough sense of security. At that time, Yang Xun was too arrogant. He used money to measure relationships. He regarded Dai Jiaofeng's sincerity as material exchange. In his opinion, money can solve all emotional problems.

So he was unwilling to resolve the conflict between his mother and Dai Jiaofeng. He left Dai Jiaofeng with nowhere to express his grievances, leaving Dai Jiaofeng in panic.

You must know that no amount of sweet words can compare to a real hug. In the world of feelings, what you do is far more important than what you say.

Yang Xun forgot that people's hearts are mutual. If you can't give the other person enough respect and cherish the other person's existence, you will leave even if you love him again.

Three views are different and they do not work together

Yang Xun's unrequited love hurt him to the bone.

When facing Liang Sishen, Yang Xun was no longer the boastful young talent. He had low self-esteem, he was sensitive, and he would even worry about gains and losses because of Liang Sishen's words.

So he tried his best to find common ground with Liang Sishen. He used his weak English knowledge to discuss economics with Liang Sishen, and used his own expertise to get Liang Sishen to open a company with him in partnership.

The hard work paid off, and Liang Sishen agreed to Yang Xun's intention to cooperate. At the moment of signing the agreement, Yang Xun thought that his relationship with Liang Sishen had a good start, but he did not expect that because of his greed, it would be difficult to maintain the friendship.

If Yang Xun had not "faked", would he and Liang Sishen have been able to produce results?

The answer is undoubtedly impossible.

Liang Sishen and Yang Xun are people from two worlds from beginning to end. It's like Yang Xun once spent a lot of money to buy a pure red sandalwood wedding box for Liang Sishen. He replaced it with a bronze mirror full of marks for the sake of beauty, but he didn't know that Liang Sishen was so happy that it had a sense of age.

Regardless of their growing environment or education level, Yang Xun and Liang Sishen cannot achieve emotional resonance. During the "account change controversy", Yang Xun talked about being "unselfish", while Liang Sishen put the crisis of trust first.

For Liang Sishen, who lives in a wealthy family, the world is black and white, with no gray. But for Yang Xun, who has to support his family, the law of the jungle is king.

How can two people fall in love if they don't understand each other at all? Therefore, in this unrequited love, Yang Xun knew for the first time that the harmony of three views was more important than heartbeat.

Equal love should also be cherished

Steamed buns and bread were once a pair made in heaven, invincible.

Before marrying Ren Xiayou, Yang Xun fantasized about his wife countless times. She was either as beautiful as Dai Jiaofeng, or as talented as Liang Sishen, or she had an outstanding family background and could help him at critical moments without any trouble. The featureless Ren Xiayou was never within his scope of consideration.

Until he met "Bread", he was pleasantly surprised to find another self in the world. There was a wise mind hidden under her seemingly plain facial features. She could understand her own thoughts, as if his eyes could tell her anything. Can understand.

Two equally matched people created a business empire, built a safe and comfortable home, and two lonely hearts also found a home.

If the story ends here, how perfect it would be, but the charm of "大江大河" is also its cruelty. Yang Xun, who has a successful career, begins to drift. He also has some unacceptable bad habits and even betrayal. .

After learning that her husband had changed, Ren Xiayou did not hesitate and started a new life in a foreign country with a pair of children, while Yang Xun became a loner this time.

Why did Yang Xun’s marriage change so much?

is like "Jane Eyre" once wrote:

Love is a game. You must always be on equal footing with the other person and be evenly matched in order to be able to cherish each other for a long time.

In the past, Yang Xun and Ren Xiayi had the same pursuit in career, the same dream in family, and they were able to resonate at the same frequency in thinking. However, as Yang Xun became lost, he could not reconcile with him. His wife has a deeper emotional connection, and he is like a cruise ship sailing in the dark, unable to find the direction home.

After Ren Xiayou left, Yang Xun also regretted it and tried to persuade him to stay, but a broken mirror was never healed, and some wounds remained in his heart for a lifetime.

In fact, how many people are not Yang Xun who is in love but not in love?

When he was young, he lost his love because he didn't dare to take it. When he grew up, he couldn't find the direction because of his different views. Finally, he met the person he was destined to be, but he let go of the happiness he had obtained because of his selfishness.

Life is not easy. If you meet your own "Ren Xiayou", I hope you will not follow Yang Xun's old path. After all, it is difficult to meet a close friend in life.