finally finished chasing "Come on!" "Mom", let's talk about the five mothers in the play.
Five mothers, each has his own troubles, and each has his own quirks. In my opinion, there are obvious shortcomings in each of these anxious mothers.
missing time . Wu Yue plays Su Qing, a successful lawyer. What lacks is time . Her career takes up all her time, and it is very painful for her to choose between accompanying her children to grow up and her favorite career.
lacks the complete family . Zhang Yuqi plays the female lead Zhou Nannan, a single mother. What lacks is a man, a complete family that can give and her children a sense of security.
lacks family status . Dong Jie plays the full-time wife He Xiaohan. What she lacks is family status. A marriage with unequal background and education , Her grievances to please did not win her mother-in-law's love;
lack of money . The vain mother Qin Wei played by Hailu is short of money. In order for his children to enter the ideal elementary school, he repeatedly broke through the moral bottom line. Fortunately, he finally turned around and lost money to eliminate disasters in exchange for family harmony;
lacks independence . Pan Zhilin plays the princess's sick mother Zhu Luxi. What she lacks is independence. She had been raised under the care of her parents, thinking that she could always be a princess and a queen. When the scumbag showed his true colors, she was caught off guard and forced to grow up quickly. The pain here should be the most painful.
Virginia Woolf said in " A Room of One's Own ": " If a woman wants to write novels, she must have money and a room of her own" , because, " The annual income of five hundred pounds represents the power of contemplation, and the lock on the door means the ability to think independently ".
For every woman, if she wants to live her own life, these two are actually indispensable.
《Come on! "Mom", the five living conditions of mothers are the epitome of this society. Of course men have an influence, at least during the child's infancy, the mother's role is irreplaceable for the child.
Let’s talk about it one by one.
I don’t want to offend anyone, and no one can offend
The first thing I want to say is Qin Wei, because Qin Wei represents most ordinary families.
She is incompetent, but she complains that men are incompetent; she is obviously destined to be a maid, but she fantasizes about entering the aristocratic circle; her dreams that she has not been able to realize are all placed on her children, saying "Mom, everything is for you" to the father and daughter Conduct moral kidnapping.
That is, in domestic dramas, you can get a good death.
If you were the heroine, would you forgive your college classmates for framed you several times? When Zhou Nannan first entered the family committee, she did not stand on her side; she secretly deleted the photo album that Zhou Nannan made for the event overnight; in order to transfer the ownership of her problem house as soon as possible, she did not hesitate to spread the news about the relationship between Zhou Nannan and Su Qing's husband. The photo of them talking in front of the hotel clearly implies that the relationship between the two is not clean.
If it were me, even if I didn't hold grudges and take revenge, as a classmate, I would definitely stay away from her if I didn't forgive her for smearing her in the back.
Qin Wei must have married the Gu programmer because of love, and maybe she also looked forward to the future in love.
However, when it comes to daily life, especially when faced with a series of practical problems in children's life and education, one thing is worthy of affirmation. She has never expressed regret. Then, she can only overcome obstacles and create a path in her own world, no matter whose blood is sprinkled on this road, whether this road leads to the right path or the evil path.
Perhaps it is because of this reality that everyone can empathize more.
Maybe it’s just the innocence of youth. Otherwise, according to the family of origin of the couple, they should be the most ordinary, and there is still a long way to go before they are well-off.Qin Wei, who is so realistic, did not expect the difficulties after marriage?
Fortunately, our programmer is a "gentle and respectful" honest man, otherwise he would be a straight man with a bad temper. Amidst his wife's constant accusations and complaints every day, Under the shadow of "you are useless", you will either run away or become depressed.
Qin Wei, who is highly educated, has real questionable IQ in the play. In order to get a house in a school district, knowing that there were problems, I demolished the east wall to pay for the west wall, cashed out my credit card, and found a loan from a so-called "financial management center". Not only was my credit report blacklisted, but I was also deceived by the routine loan , and I owed huge debts from loan sharks. .
If you only care about today and don’t care about tomorrow, don’t you need to repay the loan? Where is the source of repayment? What will happen if you can't pay it back?
When she kept emphasizing to the father and daughter, "I am working hard," I felt that the person in front of me was actually an illiterate old man.
Children who grow up in such an anxious atmosphere, Gu Yue’s child is too well-behaved and sensible. There is no innocence in her big ignorant eyes. She cowers to the side, cowardly and fearful: her mother still relies on her cousin, so even if she is I didn't dare to say that I was violated; in order to perform better at the art festival, I got up and played the piano before dawn; I didn't take off the tags of my new clothes, but I obviously felt very uncomfortable, but I didn't dare to say anything...
Children are sensible It's heartbreaking. This is how a child's pleasing personality is slowly formed. Even if they go to an ideal primary school, what will happen to the future of an unconfident child in a group of chicken babies ? I really can’t imagine it.
Just as her programmer husband said, "Ordinary people don't have the confidence to follow the trend everywhere."
Fortunately, she woke up and stopped in time at the critical moment when she was looking for an agency to pay for her school. If a person falls in the same place twice in a row, he is hopeless.
There are many families like this, and there is little happiness in such families.
If you are not married yet, I want to say that choosing a person means choosing how to live your life in the future. While you still have the right to choose, be cautious. If you love him, then fight together. If you want material things, don’t harm your children;
If you Now that you are a character in the play, did Qin Wei's relief in choosing to return to family in the end touch you?
The rest of life is very short, and the most important thing is to suit yourself; a child's childhood is also very short, and as a parent, you need to hold the safest umbrella for her/him so that she/he can fly happily and freely. Holding hands during this period of time affects the child's life.
