Recently, " Meng Hua Lu " starring Liu Yifei and Chen Xiao has caused a lot of controversy.
Some people say that it is a feminist drama, which perfectly interprets the spirit of "Girls help Girls" ; some people say that it sells dog meat with a sheep's head, and can be called "The domineering president of the feudal spoiled wife falls in love with me".
In my opinion, it is an ancient puppet show. The biggest function is that it can be used as "Scumbag Identification Guide" .
01. Zhou She
Song Yinzhang, the sister of the heroine Zhao Pan'er, was born in the same humble family as Zhao Pan'er. As an official actress, although Yinzhang earned a lot of property with her good pipa skills, she has always been eager to find someone because of her low status as an official actress. Find a good man, help you get out of the country, and gain lifelong support.
At this time Zhou She appeared.
He has a talented appearance and is dressed luxuriously. He looks like a rich and handsome man: " The Zhou family has been doing business in Huaiyang for generations, and the family sells leather goods. There are dozens of shops, nearly a hundred servants, and several houses. If Mrs. Zhao can give her permission, they will definitely be invited. Zhang is as precious as a treasure, and lasts a lifetime."
More importantly, Zhou She said that he had relatives in his family who were officials in the court. It could be said that they wanted money and power, so it was easy to help Song Yinzhang deregister himself.
So, after the two had known each other for only fifteen days, Song brought Zhou She to Pan'er, saying that this wishful man was her soulmate.
After seeing Zhou She, Zhao Pan'er, who has a sharp eye, inferred from various details that he was not a kind person and objected to their being together: "He can't even recite Du Zimei's "Ming Fei Song", how can he be the same as you?" Ghost friend! These common tricks in the romance field are just for deceiving girls like you! Look at the posture he uses to serve tea, his middle finger and thumb, this is the posture of a gambler twisting the dice. He has the smell of changing clothes. Smell, this kind of incense, only the most expensive brothels can afford it. You said she is proficient in Xiao Yi, but I want to ask, which businessman who does big business has such a leisurely and leisurely life? He is nothing more than a person who goes to and from the entertainment scene. Just a drunkard and a womanizer."
Song Yinzhang couldn't listen to Pan'er's advice, so Pan'er had to withhold most of her property.
Facts have proved that Pan'er's judgment is accurate. Zhou She is not only a gambler and a drunkard, but also a lawless person who seeks wealth and death.
After he got married to Yin Zhang, they ate, drank, prostituted, and gambled. He plundered all her body parts, and immediately revealed her true colors. He beat and scolded Yin Zhang , imprisoned, and abused her , torturing her to the point of death. die.
If Zhao Pan'er had not gone to great lengths to rescue Song Yinzhang, Song Yinzhang would have been sold to a brothel even if he was not beaten to death.
In reality, scumbags like Zhou She are not uncommon.
Their routine is to cater to your expectations in the early stage, create a personality, and lure you in; later, they will squeeze money and feelings from you, and then kick you away when you have no use value.
02.Fu Xingui
Pan'er's other sister, Sun Sanniang, was born a butcher. She is bold, bold, hard-working and capable.
Her dream is to wear the "Fengguan Xiapei" one day, but her husband Fu Xingui was so poor that he couldn't even give her a betrothal gift when he married her, let alone the "Fengguan Xiapei".
After getting married, Sanniang worked hard selling pork to make money. It took her two years of saving to give Fu Xingui enough capital to start a business.
Fu Xingui made a fortune in business, and Sanniang was not idle either. Not only did she sell fruits to make money, but she also took care of all the housework and the education of her children.
Her son Fu Zifang was very naughty and often skipped school and played wildly in the wild. Sanniang was helpless and often chased and beat her son to force him to make progress.
Fu Xingui doted on his son and often protected Fu Zifang, allowing him to be arrogant and willful.
He despised Sanniang's identity as a butcher and her lack of gentleness, so he hooked up with the wealthy widow Tao without telling Sanniang.
Later, Sanniang discovered the affair between Fu Xingui and Tao. Fu Xingui turned the tables and spoke harshly to his loving wife. He adopted his only son, Fu Zifang, into the Tao family. He also accused Sanniang of being jealous and arrogant, disrespecting her husband and slandering her sister-in-law. Luo even wrote a letter of divorce and kicked her out.
Sanniang would rather die than obey and report to the clan leader, but the clan leader accepted Tao's benefits and ordered everyone to force her to press her fingerprints. Even her biological son Fu Zifang favored Tao, which made her completely heartbroken.
Sanniang knew she had nowhere to go, and in desperation she chose to commit suicide by drowning herself in the river. Fortunately, she was saved by Gu Qianfan and survived.
In reality, there are many scumbags like Fu Xingui.
When they were poor, their wives were their stepping stones. After they became rich, their wives became a stumbling block.
When their wives educate their children, they obstruct, favor, and indulge their children. When something happens to their children, they accuse their wives of not being able to educate their children.
When the children are young, they are indifferent to them; when the children grow up, they will jump out and rob their wives of the fruits of their labor.
They are ungrateful husbands and irresponsible fathers.
03.Ouyang Xu
Three years ago, Ouyang Xu failed in the scientific examination and committed suicide by diving in Qiantang. Zhao Paner rescued him, and the two made a private life.
In life, Paner takes good care of Ouyang Xu and takes every possible care. In terms of career, Pan'er purchased land for Ouyang Xu, allowed him to obtain local citizenship, and obtained the qualification to participate in the imperial examination. He also invited local scholars and provided him with travel expenses to take the examination.
However, after Ouyang Xu was in high school, as soon as he was attracted by Master Gao and offered marriage to his beloved concubine, he decided to regret the marriage and marry another.
In order to abandon Pan'er, he told lies and changed his face again and again.
first planned to blame the uncle at home for regretting the marriage.
It is cowardly and irresponsible to ask others to suffer on your behalf.
Pan'er was unwilling to give in and rushed all the way to the capital to question him face to face, but he kept saying "I have no choice" and wanted Pan'er to be considerate and give in and take the initiative to be a concubine. He even used Pan'er's feelings for him as a bargaining chip to treat her Conducting moral kidnapping "You don't want to be a stain on me, right?"
At the same time, he privately defended his friend Du Changfeng that he had no choice but to abandon Pan'er, and that he deliberately provoked her to leave because he was afraid that the Gao family would hurt Pan'er.
But since he knew that Pan'er had a strong temper and would not be a concubine, why wasn't he afraid that she would do something stupid out of grief and anger?
Pan'er gave up on him and agreed to break off the engagement, asking him to do three things: write a letter of breakup, fulfill the promise made before taking the exam, help Song Yinzhang deregister, and return to herself the "Night Banquet Picture" she entrusted him to frame.
Ouyang Xu promised, but in the end he couldn't do anything.
But he neither explained the situation truthfully nor asked for Pan'er's forgiveness, nor did he want to bear the infamy. He avoided Pan'er at first and allowed the housekeeper to find local gangsters to drive Pan'er away; Because of his family's influence on marriage and career, he bribed corrupt officials and framed Pan'er; when the officers and soldiers beat and humiliated the three Pan'er sisters, he acted like a superior savior and stopped the officers and soldiers from doing anything, and asked the officers and soldiers to pull the three Pan'er sisters. They were paraded through the streets and driven out of the capital.
The faces of ungrateful, cowardly, selfish and hypocritical people have been exposed.
When his father-in-law-to-be, Mr. Gao, took him to a banquet, he once criticized him for "bending too low when toasting, losing his integrity" , but he didn't know that he had never had such a thing as "character" .
He regards everyone around him as a springboard and tool: Uncle De is the thug and scapegoat he is afraid of ruining his reputation, Pan'er is the meal ticket and peacemaker when he is down and out, and the Gao family is the good wind that can make him rise to the top. Du Changfeng was a well-established and famous mouthpiece who was deceived by him.
04.
Teacher He once said: "When a person appears in front of you perfectly, fully meets all your expectations, has no flaws, and seems to be born for you. You should stop. Start to look at him calmly and doubt him wantonly. He must have a purpose or an ulterior secret, and carefully disguise himself to approach you. No one is perfect, when he is ready to be perfect Appearing in front of you, then he must be deliberately approaching you with a purpose."
Scumbags like Zhou She are all about "quick victory", so if you want to deal with them, you must remember what Teacher He said This passage extends the inspection period, calmly examines, and indulges in unbridled suspicion.
The only way to deal with a scumbag like Fu Xingui is the strategy of "egoism". Control your overwhelming maternal love and wifely love, be as self-reliant as possible, and consider yourself first.
And a scumbag like Ouyang Xu is the scariest, most hidden, and most insidious, because on the surface, he appears to be talented, talented, knowledgeable and motivated, and even officials have not escaped his tricks. In fact, he He is a master at playing with people's hearts. He is good at observing words and emotions, and is good at taking advantage of information asymmetry. He has different faces for different people, and he never does it himself. He is as slippery as a water snake. He leaves no evidence at all and will let you know before you know it. Hit.
In reality, it is useless to keep your eyes open when dealing with this kind of scumbag. The best way is "Regardless of one's intentions" and "Treat others in their own way" .
In short, don’t just listen to what a man says, but what he does. As long as you find that he behaves differently and does something sorry for you, no matter what the reason is, don’t choose to forgive and stop the loss in time.
Recently, " Meng Hua Lu " starring Liu Yifei and Chen Xiao has caused a lot of controversy.
Some people say that it is a feminist drama, which perfectly interprets the spirit of "Girls help Girls" ; some people say that it sells dog meat with a sheep's head, and can be called "The domineering president of the feudal spoiled wife falls in love with me".
In my opinion, it is an ancient puppet show. The biggest function is that it can be used as "Scumbag Identification Guide" .
01. Zhou She
Song Yinzhang, the sister of the heroine Zhao Pan'er, was born in the same humble family as Zhao Pan'er. As an official actress, although Yinzhang earned a lot of property with her good pipa skills, she has always been eager to find someone because of her low status as an official actress. Find a good man, help you get out of the country, and gain lifelong support.
At this time Zhou She appeared.
He has a talented appearance and is dressed luxuriously. He looks like a rich and handsome man: " The Zhou family has been doing business in Huaiyang for generations, and the family sells leather goods. There are dozens of shops, nearly a hundred servants, and several houses. If Mrs. Zhao can give her permission, they will definitely be invited. Zhang is as precious as a treasure, and lasts a lifetime."
More importantly, Zhou She said that he had relatives in his family who were officials in the court. It could be said that they wanted money and power, so it was easy to help Song Yinzhang deregister himself.
So, after the two had known each other for only fifteen days, Song brought Zhou She to Pan'er, saying that this wishful man was her soulmate.
After seeing Zhou She, Zhao Pan'er, who has a sharp eye, inferred from various details that he was not a kind person and objected to their being together: "He can't even recite Du Zimei's "Ming Fei Song", how can he be the same as you?" Ghost friend! These common tricks in the romance field are just for deceiving girls like you! Look at the posture he uses to serve tea, his middle finger and thumb, this is the posture of a gambler twisting the dice. He has the smell of changing clothes. Smell, this kind of incense, only the most expensive brothels can afford it. You said she is proficient in Xiao Yi, but I want to ask, which businessman who does big business has such a leisurely and leisurely life? He is nothing more than a person who goes to and from the entertainment scene. Just a drunkard and a womanizer."
Song Yinzhang couldn't listen to Pan'er's advice, so Pan'er had to withhold most of her property.
Facts have proved that Pan'er's judgment is accurate. Zhou She is not only a gambler and a drunkard, but also a lawless person who seeks wealth and death.
After he got married to Yin Zhang, they ate, drank, prostituted, and gambled. He plundered all her body parts, and immediately revealed her true colors. He beat and scolded Yin Zhang , imprisoned, and abused her , torturing her to the point of death. die.
If Zhao Pan'er had not gone to great lengths to rescue Song Yinzhang, Song Yinzhang would have been sold to a brothel even if he was not beaten to death.
In reality, scumbags like Zhou She are not uncommon.
Their routine is to cater to your expectations in the early stage, create a personality, and lure you in; later, they will squeeze money and feelings from you, and then kick you away when you have no use value.
02.Fu Xingui
Pan'er's other sister, Sun Sanniang, was born a butcher. She is bold, bold, hard-working and capable.
Her dream is to wear the "Fengguan Xiapei" one day, but her husband Fu Xingui was so poor that he couldn't even give her a betrothal gift when he married her, let alone the "Fengguan Xiapei".
After getting married, Sanniang worked hard selling pork to make money. It took her two years of saving to give Fu Xingui enough capital to start a business.
Fu Xingui made a fortune in business, and Sanniang was not idle either. Not only did she sell fruits to make money, but she also took care of all the housework and the education of her children.
Her son Fu Zifang was very naughty and often skipped school and played wildly in the wild. Sanniang was helpless and often chased and beat her son to force him to make progress.
Fu Xingui doted on his son and often protected Fu Zifang, allowing him to be arrogant and willful.
He despised Sanniang's identity as a butcher and her lack of gentleness, so he hooked up with the wealthy widow Tao without telling Sanniang.
Later, Sanniang discovered the affair between Fu Xingui and Tao. Fu Xingui turned the tables and spoke harshly to his loving wife. He adopted his only son, Fu Zifang, into the Tao family. He also accused Sanniang of being jealous and arrogant, disrespecting her husband and slandering her sister-in-law. Luo even wrote a letter of divorce and kicked her out.
Sanniang would rather die than obey and report to the clan leader, but the clan leader accepted Tao's benefits and ordered everyone to force her to press her fingerprints. Even her biological son Fu Zifang favored Tao, which made her completely heartbroken.
Sanniang knew she had nowhere to go, and in desperation she chose to commit suicide by drowning herself in the river. Fortunately, she was saved by Gu Qianfan and survived.
In reality, there are many scumbags like Fu Xingui.
When they were poor, their wives were their stepping stones. After they became rich, their wives became a stumbling block.
When their wives educate their children, they obstruct, favor, and indulge their children. When something happens to their children, they accuse their wives of not being able to educate their children.
When the children are young, they are indifferent to them; when the children grow up, they will jump out and rob their wives of the fruits of their labor.
They are ungrateful husbands and irresponsible fathers.
03.Ouyang Xu
Three years ago, Ouyang Xu failed in the scientific examination and committed suicide by diving in Qiantang. Zhao Paner rescued him, and the two made a private life.
In life, Paner takes good care of Ouyang Xu and takes every possible care. In terms of career, Pan'er purchased land for Ouyang Xu, allowed him to obtain local citizenship, and obtained the qualification to participate in the imperial examination. He also invited local scholars and provided him with travel expenses to take the examination.
However, after Ouyang Xu was in high school, as soon as he was attracted by Master Gao and offered marriage to his beloved concubine, he decided to regret the marriage and marry another.
In order to abandon Pan'er, he told lies and changed his face again and again.
first planned to blame the uncle at home for regretting the marriage.
It is cowardly and irresponsible to ask others to suffer on your behalf.
Pan'er was unwilling to give in and rushed all the way to the capital to question him face to face, but he kept saying "I have no choice" and wanted Pan'er to be considerate and give in and take the initiative to be a concubine. He even used Pan'er's feelings for him as a bargaining chip to treat her Conducting moral kidnapping "You don't want to be a stain on me, right?"
At the same time, he privately defended his friend Du Changfeng that he had no choice but to abandon Pan'er, and that he deliberately provoked her to leave because he was afraid that the Gao family would hurt Pan'er.
But since he knew that Pan'er had a strong temper and would not be a concubine, why wasn't he afraid that she would do something stupid out of grief and anger?
Pan'er gave up on him and agreed to break off the engagement, asking him to do three things: write a letter of breakup, fulfill the promise made before taking the exam, help Song Yinzhang deregister, and return to herself the "Night Banquet Picture" she entrusted him to frame.
Ouyang Xu promised, but in the end he couldn't do anything.
But he neither explained the situation truthfully nor asked for Pan'er's forgiveness, nor did he want to bear the infamy. He avoided Pan'er at first and allowed the housekeeper to find local gangsters to drive Pan'er away; Because of his family's influence on marriage and career, he bribed corrupt officials and framed Pan'er; when the officers and soldiers beat and humiliated the three Pan'er sisters, he acted like a superior savior and stopped the officers and soldiers from doing anything, and asked the officers and soldiers to pull the three Pan'er sisters. They were paraded through the streets and driven out of the capital.
The faces of ungrateful, cowardly, selfish and hypocritical people have been exposed.
When his father-in-law-to-be, Mr. Gao, took him to a banquet, he once criticized him for "bending too low when toasting, losing his integrity" , but he didn't know that he had never had such a thing as "character" .
He regards everyone around him as a springboard and tool: Uncle De is the thug and scapegoat he is afraid of ruining his reputation, Pan'er is the meal ticket and peacemaker when he is down and out, and the Gao family is the good wind that can make him rise to the top. Du Changfeng was a well-established and famous mouthpiece who was deceived by him.
04.
Teacher He once said: "When a person appears in front of you perfectly, fully meets all your expectations, has no flaws, and seems to be born for you. You should stop. Start to look at him calmly and doubt him wantonly. He must have a purpose or an ulterior secret, and carefully disguise himself to approach you. No one is perfect, when he is ready to be perfect Appearing in front of you, then he must be deliberately approaching you with a purpose."
Scumbags like Zhou She are all about "quick victory", so if you want to deal with them, you must remember what Teacher He said This passage extends the inspection period, calmly examines, and indulges in unbridled suspicion.
The only way to deal with a scumbag like Fu Xingui is the strategy of "egoism". Control your overwhelming maternal love and wifely love, be as self-reliant as possible, and consider yourself first.
And a scumbag like Ouyang Xu is the scariest, most hidden, and most insidious, because on the surface, he appears to be talented, talented, knowledgeable and motivated, and even officials have not escaped his tricks. In fact, he He is a master at playing with people's hearts. He is good at observing words and emotions, and is good at taking advantage of information asymmetry. He has different faces for different people, and he never does it himself. He is as slippery as a water snake. He leaves no evidence at all and will let you know before you know it. Hit.
In reality, it is useless to keep your eyes open when dealing with this kind of scumbag. The best way is "Regardless of one's intentions" and "Treat others in their own way" .
In short, don’t just listen to what a man says, but what he does. As long as you find that he behaves differently and does something sorry for you, no matter what the reason is, don’t choose to forgive and stop the loss in time.
04.
Teacher He once said: "When a person appears in front of you perfectly, fully meets all your expectations, has no flaws, and seems to be born for you. You should stop. Start to look at him calmly and doubt him wantonly. He must have a purpose or an ulterior secret, and carefully disguise himself to approach you. No one is perfect, when he is ready to be perfect Appearing in front of you, then he must be deliberately approaching you with a purpose."
Scumbags like Zhou She are all about "quick victory", so if you want to deal with them, you must remember what Teacher He said This passage extends the inspection period, calmly examines, and indulges in unbridled suspicion.
The only way to deal with a scumbag like Fu Xingui is the strategy of "egoism". Control your overwhelming maternal love and wifely love, be as self-reliant as possible, and consider yourself first.
And a scumbag like Ouyang Xu is the scariest, most hidden, and most insidious, because on the surface, he appears to be talented, talented, knowledgeable and motivated, and even officials have not escaped his tricks. In fact, he He is a master at playing with people's hearts. He is good at observing words and emotions, and is good at taking advantage of information asymmetry. He has different faces for different people, and he never does it himself. He is as slippery as a water snake. He leaves no evidence at all and will let you know before you know it. Hit.
In reality, it is useless to keep your eyes open when dealing with this kind of scumbag. The best way is "Regardless of one's intentions" and "Treat others in their own way" .
In short, don’t just listen to what a man says, but what he does. As long as you find that he behaves differently and does something sorry for you, no matter what the reason is, don’t choose to forgive and stop the loss in time.
