There are many stars with vicious tongues in the entertainment industry, including Na Ying, Ning Jing, Xiao S, and Jin Xing, who often leaves people speechless. And in her life, she is even more so, bold, outrageous and free.

There are many stars with vicious tongues in the entertainment industry, Na Ying , Ning Jing, little S, and Venus who often leaves people speechless.

But there is another one, and even Venus has to bow to him.

is Yang Erche Namu . The time she was active in the entertainment industry was very short. She came and went in a chic way, but the stories she left behind are often talked about.

And in her life, she is even more so, bold, outrageous and free.

can get married and divorced, and can also make female stars cry on the set. You can live abroad for ten years without regrets, or you can quit the circle if you want to.

This freedom is beyond the reach of many people, and it also makes her still single at the age of 52.

Does she regret today? What other stories are there about her?

In 1970, Yang Erche Namu was born in Liangshan, Sichuan. She and her family were all Mosuo people.

They live in a village with beautiful scenery on the bank of Lugu Lake.

In addition to the beautiful scenery, what Mosuo people are most proud of is their walking marriage system. They are a matriarchal society, and the marriage system is dominated by women. Only the man can interact with the woman if she is satisfied.

After dating, the man will climb up to the woman's window at night, wait until the rooster crows the next day, and then return to his home in the morning light.

Although Yang Erche Namu was young at that time, free love had already been imprinted in her mind. Of course, this is a story later.

When she was a child, she liked to sing. Just as her name implies, she is a "gem fairy". She is smart and youthful, and is very popular among her tribe.

However, her vision goes beyond that. She wants to fly to a wider sky like a bird.

In 1983, Yang Erche Namu entered Shanghai Music with her good voice.

That year, she was only thirteen years old. Everyone in the tribe was worried about her going out at a young age, but she was the only one who was more happy than worried.

She seemed to see the road ahead, which was endless freedom.

After studying for a few years, she graduated. Yang Erche Namu entered the Central Ethnic Song and Dance Troupe . In the troupe, she met many friends, such as Yang Liping and Jin Xing.

The three of them have distinct personalities, and it is this that makes them friends.

However, she and Jin Xing disliked each other at first, and it was not until later that the two became good sisters.

With friends, Yang Erche Namu feels more comfortable in the group. Unexpectedly, in less than a year, she decided to leave the song and dance troupe.

And the reason for all this has something to do with her boyfriend.

By chance, Yang Erche Namu met a photographer. The two had a very happy conversation and it was so late that they met.

It didn’t take long for the two to fall in love and decide to get the certificate quickly.

It’s just that the photographer is an American and wanted to return to China to get his certificate. Yang Erche Namu immediately quit the group and went to the United States with her boyfriend.

When her family heard about her actions, they felt deeply helpless, but there was nothing they could do about it. After all, she was influenced by walking marriage , and she dared to love and hate love, but she was also enviably magnanimous.

During the days in the United States, Yang Erche Namu and her partner experienced a happy time.

As time went by, the cultural differences between the two people soon started to quarrel and they got divorced.

There are even claims that Yang Erche Namu suffered domestic violence. I hurt my ears, so I never showed them.

Yang Erche Namu just sneered at these words and retorted that everything was false.

In short, the married life of the two was not happy, and she simply cut off the relationship.

After the divorce, she did not return to China, but instead lived in the United States. To make a living, she worked as a model and an actress.

even once pissed off an actor on set.

She put on makeup and was about to start shooting, when suddenly a person walked in, arrogantly, as if looking at the person with her chin.

"This is the lead model, playing a singer in the film."

Someone next to her explained it to her, but she became even more angry after listening to it. She could see that people should not act like big names.

So she took off her shoes and danced and sang on the stage. Her voice aroused cheers, praises and applause from the people on the set. When the model

saw this, her expression changed and she walked out of the set angrily.

Yang Erche Namu was extremely happy when she saw the model being pissed off.

Due to this farce, the role of the singer was changed to Yang Erche Namu. Her openness and confidence helped her get a role and made her life abroad more comfortable.

With some money, she started traveling and even opened a clothing store.

Once, a big boss came to the store, named Larry Ellison , who was the owner of Oracle store.

Yang Erche Namu thought it was a one-time relationship. Unexpectedly, three days later, Larry called and wanted to invite Yang Erche Namu to build the fastest yacht.

Faced with an invitation from a big boss, most people will accept it, even if they are seasick and don't like taking a boat.

But she is different.

She felt seasick, so she refused the request directly, and even invited the boss to accompany her to buy Cantonese soup.

Perhaps the boss was also infected by Yang Erche Namu’s straightforward character, and actually accompanied her in line to buy soup, and the two talked for four hours.

After that, Larry became familiar with Yang Erche Namu. Later, Yang Namu met Jobs , and Larry introduced him to them.

Being able to meet and become friends with so many big guys is not just a matter of looks.

It is her character that dares to love and hate, and is straightforward, which attracts others.

Of course, she not only met the boss, but also fell in love again.

After the divorce, Yang Erche Namu fell in love again, but finally broke up.

It wasn't until she later met Norwegian diplomat Shi Danwu that her relationship stabilized.

Because of this relationship, Yang Erche Namu even wrote a book, "China Red Meets Norway Blue".

After that, she started a wave of writing. He wrote many books to record his life. Including your own love.

This love lasted for 7 years. If the seven-year itch passes, it may last longer.

But it happened to be in the seventh year.

Feelings cannot be forced, and forced melons are not sweet. When Yang Erche Namu saw this, she had no choice but to break up with the other party decently.

And she also ended her leisure days abroad, packed her luggage and prepared to return to China for development.

In 2007, she became a judge of "Happy Boys ". The popularity of the show also drew people's attention to Yang Erche Namu on the judges' bench.

She often wears big red flowers, so she is called the "red flower leader".

But for her, she has not only a name, but also a "bloody" review.

As a judge, she is more demanding and severe than others. Whether the contestants sing well, whether they have potential, and whether they can continue to move forward, Yang Erche Namu usually only listens for a few seconds before making a decision.

This made many people very angry and felt that she disrespected the players.

Yang Erche Namu retorted, "Opportunities are like the hair on a bald man's head. If you seize it, you will seize it."

Although the words are not very nice, they are rough and rational. After all, she had been in a song and dance troupe with many masters, and she could immediately feel the support from the other party.

Instead of telling lies and letting people who are not suitable for singing continue to engage in music, it is better to put an end to it, which is in line with her personality.

And what she did was not just that.

In the competition in April 2007, contestant Yang Mu was very good and was recognized by the judges present, but he was not recognized by Yang Erche Namu.

"The player I chose is sunny and brilliant." In short, Yang Mu's image does not meet the standards of Yang Erche Namu.

“This is a male voice, not male sex.” Judge Yang Jun was very angry about her standards.

In the end, neither of them could convince the other, and Yang Jun was so angry that he left the recording scene directly.

This incident caused an uproar. Many people thought that Yang Erche Namu should pay attention to the propriety of her words, but she didn't care at all. A month later, she inadvertently exposed the relationship between Zhang Jie and Xie Na .

Both of them were newcomers at the time, and they concealed their relationship in order to develop their relationship. Unexpectedly, Namu revealed everything. "I said it, I said it."

Xie Na did not go to the stage to get angry, but she also cried aggrievedly backstage.

Xie Na was not the only female star who was made to cry by Yang Erche Namu.

Later, she recorded the show, and a dramatic scene occurred at the recording site.

The guest got the ring from Ke Yimin's hand, turned around and put it on Yang Erche Namu's hand. Yang Erche Namu took the ring calmly, but she was panicked in her heart.

The person who was more excited than her was Ke Yimin.

Although Yang Erche Namu didn't say anything, Ke Yimin still burst into tears at the scene.

However, later this incident was accused of being hyped up by Ke Yimin.

But no matter what, Yang Erche Namu withdrew from the circle and no longer appeared in front of the camera.

's popularity for her also decreased as she quit the group, but she did not regret quitting the group, nor did her mood affect her mood.

At the end of 2007, she even publicly expressed her love for the French president.

Although the incident caused countless ridicules, she didn't care, she just wanted to live her life.

As time goes by longer and longer, people gradually forget Yang Erche Namu.

She didn't care about people's opinions, so she started writing books and traveling as usual, or going to her friend Jin Xing's house.

Every time she arrived at Jin Xing's house, she would immediately open the other person's wardrobe to see what nice clothes there were and then wear them.

was picking and nagging, "What's mine is mine, and what's yours is mine."

Jin Xing saw it from the side and didn’t say much. She knew her friend’s character and she also knew her own character.

may seem weird to outsiders, but in their eyes, they appreciate each other.

Time passed little by little, and Yang Erche Namu lived happily in her own little world until 2018.

In 2018, Li Xiaolu ’s affair caused a stir on the Internet, with many people condemning her and insulting her.

In this limelight, Yang Erche Namu posted on Weibo, "Like mother, like daughter", implying that Li Xiaolu's mother interfered in other people's relationships, and the victim in the relationship was none other than Yang Erche Namu. .

Yang Erche Namu's speech once again made Li Xiaolu's popularity rise several notches, and also allowed people to see Yang Erche Namu again.

After this life, Yang Erche Namu did not gain popularity because of this. Stars need to keep their popularity low, but she is no longer a star.

Even if it was, he wouldn't bother to do it.

She still insisted on studying, and the book signing party for "Thirteen Cities - Love in Morocco" was still full of people.

She did not sing, but she attracted fans with her writing style and attracted batches of readers.

In addition to writing books, she also opened a bar named after herself. Both the design outside the store and the interior decoration are unique.

Many people have heard of Yang Erche Namu and know that she is straightforward and outspoken, so they want to go and find out more.

It turns out that Yang Erche Namu is actually very gentle in private.

Yang Erche Namu will carefully introduce the wine in the store to the guests, and will also sit down and chat with the guests, listening to the guests tell interesting stories.

After tasting the wine, many guests would sigh, "Yang Erche Namu, I saw you were so fierce on TV before, but I didn't expect you to be so gentle in private."

However, for Yang Erche Namu, Mo Some people in the group didn't like her.

feels that she has ruined the reputation of walking marriage people, and thinks that she treats relationships too casually, getting together casually, and breaking up casually.

Many people went to the place where the Mosuo people lived because of Yang Erche Namu's reputation, and asked about local customs and habits. They thought their love was very "casual", which the locals were not used to.

Yang Erche Namu was not too sad about not being recognized by her tribe.

She still loves her family, the university she attended at that time, and accepts everything around her.

Yang Erche Namu is now 52 years old. At this age, many people have families, lovers, and children, and even worry about their children's future.

Yang Erche Namu does not have these love worries. She chooses to be single, has no children, and has no plans to take care of her children.

She had a lot of time in her life, and she gave all of this precious time to herself.

She loves her life, writing, traveling, and trying to cook delicious food. She learned all kinds of things and enriched her life.

Such a free life may not be widely accepted by the world, but in people's hearts, who doesn't want to let go of everything and truly live for themselves?

How can you truly enjoy spiritual prosperity?

In Yang Erche Namu's 52 years of life, she did many incredible things, which even made people think that she was not loyal to love.

If we say we are together, we will stay together. If we say we break up, we will break up.

It is a sign of magnanimity to end the relationship in time and face the feelings bravely.

No matter how much criticism there is in life, whether he is famous or blocked, maintaining his attitude is also a manifestation of Yang Erche Namu's inner magnanimity.

In her life, she is not bound by society, family, or marriage.

I hope you and I will not be bound and find our own freedom between heaven and earth.