"I've only had five girlfriends and two wives."
"I look pretty fancy, but I'm very single-minded."
Xie Xian is a well-known fanboy in the entertainment industry,
's last girlfriend is 5 years younger than his son Nicholas Tse .
He has been divorced twice and has two children.
son Nicholas Tse and the queen Faye Wong are entangled,
daughter Xie Tingting has completely inherited his romantic genes.
The media commented on her, "I thought Xie Tingting was a little princess who was spoiled by her family, but she didn't expect to be a woman who changed her boyfriend's clothes like clothes."
Xie Tingting had many boyfriends, but she didn't One goes to the end.
At the end of 2019, she suddenly announced the news that she had a child out of wedlock.
Even her father and brother got the news from the media.
Xie Xian felt a headache when he mentioned this daughter.
But Xie Tingting's "love to play" has never been inseparable from her father.
01
Before encountering Deborah ,Xie Xian has had two women in his life.
His romantic deeds spread throughout Hong Kong.
Deborah didn't accept his quest at first.
But the strong girl is afraid of entanglement with her husband,
What's more, this "Lang" is a veteran in love,
After a few words, Deborah let down her guard,
Xie Xian Deborah
Forgot that she was in love with Xie Xian at that time On guard,
also disregarded the good words of friends,
insisted on marrying Xie Xian, who was 15 years older than him.
The two people's wedding preparations were very careful,
Xie Xian planned for 6 months, changed 3 sets of plans, specially customized a French wedding dress and royal tiara for Deborah.
The prodigal son's deep affection is enough to impress everyone,
In this wedding of the century, Deborah thought she was married to love.
After getting married, she washed her hands and made soup, and gradually quit the film industry, giving birth to a pair of children for Xie Xian.
Since birth, Xie Tingting has been the jewel in the palm of her hand.
Parents love, brother love.
She can do anything she likes,
Her confidence comes from the love of her parents.
She never thought that one day her parents would get divorced,
Xie Xian and Deborah broke up very decently,
When Deborah remarried, Xie Xian even sent blessings.
But that doesn't mean it didn't hurt Xie Tingting.
She was sent to Canada to go to school,
Xie Tingting lived a very cool life in Canada,
She was photographed by the media many times to go clubbing during school hours.
foreign minds are very open,Xie Tingting also played very openly.
Without the control of her parents, she is like a little bird in joy.
Maybe because of lack of company,
The boyfriend by her side never breaks.
Xie Tingting has many scandals, even worse than her father Xie Xian.
These happy days continued until 2008.
Nicholas Tse called her out of the tender town where she was drunk and dreaming.
"Tingting, go back to China."
Brother's voice warmed her heart like a spring breeze.
The brothers and sisters have broken bones and still have tendons attached.
What's more, Nicholas Tse is really good to her,
On her birthday, the 26 million mansion will be given away.
She can still hear her brother's words.
immediately packed up and returned to China.
After returning to China, Xie Tingting wanted to enter the entertainment industry.
Because dad and brother are insiders.
But Xie Xian was unwilling.
He doesn't want his daughter to follow in his footsteps,
He would rather her daughter go to the office of the building to be a small clerk, or to develop in the entertainment industry.
But Xie Tingting didn't take his words to heart at all.
Growing up she had great ideas.
As long as it is what you want to do, there are few things you can't do.
Xie Xian did not agree with her entering the entertainment industry, so she took a different approach.
Be patient and wait for your chance.
The opportunity soon presented itself to her.
Xie Tingting, who inherited the advantages of her parents, has deep facial features,A long leg is thin and straight,
can be discovered by scouts when shopping with friends.
took over the other party's business card, Xie Tingting knew her chance was coming.
With her perfect body proportions, she became a small model.
is not afraid of the camera for the first time shooting,
poses freely in front of the camera to shoot the action,
is even as complete as some stars.
The scouts who handed her business cards all shouted, "You've found a treasure!"
After the filming, Xie Xian personally came to pick her up from work.
He is very helpless to this daughter,
The daughter's idea is too righteous, and she doesn't want to listen to him.
The matter has come to this point, and it is useless to oppose it any more.
Xie Xian used all his contacts to pave the way for his daughter.
Under his operation, his daughter signed a contract with Wang Jing 's "Shadow Dynasty", officially becoming a new generation of crystal girl .
Wang Jing has received mixed reviews in recent years,
Xie Tingting has not received much dividends.
The " Fabulous Weapons ", " Ghostly Love Story ", and " The Legend of Sakyamuni Buddha " did not make much splash.
A lot of people don't even know her name.
Compared to her brother and father, her acting career is really flat.
But "the east is not bright and the west is bright",
is tepid compared to the acting career,Xie Tingting's modeling career is obviously better.
In the second year of her modeling career, she was invited by Shanghai Fashion Week ,
and became the image spokesperson of Shanghai Fashion Week in 2009.
In the same year, she won the top 10 in the " Miss World competition".
In 2010, she participated in the "Shanghai Fashion Week Opening Ceremony - Fashion Shanghai" Vivienne Westwood show organized by Huayi Brothers Fashion.
In 2011, she made her debut on the Victoria's Secret show in New York;
In 2012, she became the number one female model in Asia. And won the second place in the Hong Kong Model Contest.
No matter what the occasion, she can always be generous and easy to handle.
This is true professionally and emotionally.
02
Compared to the love-hate relationship between my brother and Cecilia Cheung and Faye Wong.
She is obviously more emotional.
When she was 19 years old, Xie Tingting held Bai Rongen's hand generously.
Bai Rongen is Xie Tingting's first boyfriend,
The reason for their breakup is also very interesting.
Once the two went out on a date, they were photographed secretly by the paparazzi.
At that time, Bai Enrong was young and vigorous, and he fought with the paparazzi.
One shattered the filter in Xie Tingting's eyes.
When Bai Enrong was exhausted by the lawsuit,
Xie Tingting broke up without hesitation.
She can't tolerate such a violent man.
All say that first love is unforgettable,
But Bai Enrong is just a passer-by in Xie Tingting's life at best,
The waves didn't stir up a few flowers,
Xie Tingting was photographed kissing a strange man on the street.
Gossip like this is commonplace to her.
The reporter hasn't figured out who the male protagonist is in the photo,
A new face has been changed beside her.
In 2004, she was photographed going out to date during class time.
dated Jackie Chan 's son Jaycee Chan , and
also likes to play Chen Hongye.
In 2005, Xie Tingting had a sweet time with New Zealand model JayAlexander.
Xie Tingting is very serious about this relationship and officially announced her relationship for the first time.
But this relationship still didn't last long.
ended with JayAlexander returning to New Zealand to continue his studies.
Xie Tingting, who is back to being single, continues her pursuit of beauty.
She was photographed kissing on the street with the boyfriend who looks like Hollywood actor Orlando, and
was also photographed being intimate with the "fake Medivh" on the street.
She seems to have unleashed her own nature abroad.
Boyfriend changes more often than clothes.
According to media statistics, in the seven years from 2001 to 2008, she changed at least 10 boyfriends.
Compared with Xie Xian's romance, she is obviously "bluer than blue".
Xie Tingting's lace news has been on the front page of newspapers all the year round,
She was even reported to be dating many men, and she frequently cheated during her relationship.
Parents can't control her,
The elder brother is like a father, and Nicholas Tse takes on the responsibility of teaching his younger sister.
"Go back to China", Xie Tingting finally drifted back to her roots.
After returning to Hong Kong, she met a man who could make her feel at ease.
This man is An Zhijie .
An Zhijie is a friend of Nicholas Tse and the ex-boyfriend of Coco Lee .
When the two meet, there is an object,
, but this does not prevent her from pursuing true love.
When Xie Xian pursued Deborah, Deborah also had a boyfriend, but the two still came together.
Xie Tingting has a good look and has caught An Zhijie.
An Zhijie is Xie Tingting's longest dating man,
The two have been dating for 4 years.
Everyone thought that the "wandering girl" had taken their hearts away,
Even Xie Xian said with a smile in the interview, "I have already identified (An Zhijie) as my son-in-law."
But the breakup came so unexpectedly .
There are different opinions about the reasons for the breakup of the two.
Some people say that Xie Tingting dislikes An Zhijie for not being motivated enough.Just addicted to the game.
Some people also say that Xie Tingting is tired of playing and wants to find a new partner.
Faced with all kinds of speculations, Xie Tingting just denied it,
"I don't want everyone to misunderstand that it is because of his work or a third party. The two of us really spent a lot of time making this decision."
The reason for the breakup is only understood by both parties.
The two broke up and divided very decently.
"I cherish the time we spend together. No matter how we develop or what happens in the future, we are still good friends."
After breaking up, Xie Tingting did not stand still,
became obsessed in less than half a year I hooked up with a muscular man,
was photographed having a secret conversation at the man's house for more than two hours.
This relationship still didn't last long.
During a trip to Thailand,
Xie Tingting was again photographed kissing passionately on the plane with Sean, the son of celebrity Li Guilan.
In the midst of thousands of flowers, all the leaves are on the body.
After returning to China, Xie Tingting did not converge too much.
Father Xie Xian is trapped in the gentle village of his 49-year-old girlfriend.
As for her brother Nicholas Tse, she only got news about her brother from newspapers.
Once she sent 10 messages to Nicholas Tse, but Nicholas Tse read them all but couldn't reply.
There is no difference between domestic and foreign for her.
Enjoying their gentle care,
doesn't want to restrain themselves too much.
03
In June 2019, Xie Tingting suddenly announced the good news of giving birth to a daughter on a social networking site.
"You are my brightest light." (You are my brightest light.)
No one knows who the biological father is.
Xie Tingting had previously posted a 40-year-old Canadian man Mark on the social platform Aite.
Some people think that Mark is the biological father of the child, but Xie Tingting denied it.
From pregnancy to childbirth, her secrecy is tight.
Even her father and brother knew the news of her childbirth from the media.
When the media called to congratulate Xie Xian,
Xie Xian thought it was a random fabrication by the media, "Who told you that Tingting had a baby? I don't even know about it."
Although his daughter's deviant behavior gave him a headache,
he also wished, "As long as Tingting likes her boyfriend, she will be happy."
Compared with Xie Xian's calm, Nicholas Tse is obviously full of anger.
Hong Kong media even broke the news, "36-year-old Xie Tingting revealed that she secretly gave birth to a daughter three months ago,The daughter's father was rumored to be the boyfriend of a wealthy Canadian businessman who gave birth to a daughter out of wedlock, which made her brother Nicholas Tse who had always loved her greatly distressed. "
But all this does not stop Xie Tingting's love for her daughter.
37-year-old unmarried daughter, some people bless her,
Naturally, some people say bad things to her.
"This method Thank you Tingting too much, she is bold and has no scruples. "
"I'm going to find some stepfathers for my children. "
Regarding these vicious comments, Xie Tingting chose to be positive, "I'm an unmarried mother, what's wrong?" "
After giving birth to her daughter, Xie Tingting completely accepted her heart.
changed from a "wave girl" to a "baby madman".
Her social platform is full of daughters growing up Traces,
But she pays attention to her daughter's privacy.
The photos never show her daughter's frontal photo,
She seems to want to subsidize all the love she lacks on her daughter.
When her daughter was one year old, she sent a blessing,
"I love you more than you'll ever know, Happy 1st birthday. "(I love you more than you know, happy first birthday.)
friends Wu Qianyu , Zheng Xinyi sent their best wishes in the comment area.
Daughter is the world to her.
Before giving birth, she had never felt so wonderful.
It seems that there is something that binds the two together,
This little life in her stomach will be connected to her destiny from now on.
Even though the relationship between brother and sister fell to the freezing point,
Xie Tingting never had the idea of giving up her daughter.
It was not until she became a mother that Xie Tingting really grew up.
She no longer travels to different nightclubs and bars,
Instead, she learns how to be a mother seriously.
In February 2021, she celebrated her daughter's birthday as usual.
The cake for her birthday was made by her own hands.
The cake was made by a novice at first glance.
It may not be exquisite, but it contains all the love of a mother.
"I grew up step by step in your eyes
gave me the firmest answer when I was wandering
roaming happily in your ocean
saw me Your smile is flashing with tears of happiness
Mom's eyes, how much affectionate mother's eyes gather
Mom's eyes, my mother's eyes are with me all the way
I can get out of the season of dreaming
Forever I can't get out of your eyes
Your heart
I stand tall and straight in your eyes
The most beautiful sunrise is always reflected
Fly freely in your sky
Mistaking me for my appearance is a sad worry
Mom's eyes Mom's eyes
How much affection is gathered
Mom's eyes Mom's eyes
Accompany me all the way
I can Out of the season of dreaming
I can never get out of your eyes
Your heart
Mom's eyes, how much affectionate mom's eyes gather
Mom's eyes, my mom's eyes walk with me all the way
I can get out of the season of dreaming
Never get out of your eyes
Your heart
Never get out of your eyes
Your heart”
The love that I once lacked,
Xie Tingting gave it to her daughter.
04
In 2003, 13 authoritative scholars on family issues in the United States jointly published an article "Why is marriage important? ——21 Conclusions from American Social Science Research"
The article mainly expounds the impact of marriage on family, children and society.
“In intact families, parents are more likely to have good relationships with their children.
A national survey shows that young children who do not have a good relationship with their mothers make up 30% of single-parent families and 30% of two-parent families. Only 16% of the children are in a poor relationship with their father, and 65% of the single-parent families and 29% of the two-parent families are children.
In the U.S., births out of wedlock and divorce are passed on from generation to generation like a genetic disease.
There is evidence that girls who grow up in single-parent households are more likely to be more stable than two-parent households Middle-aged girls are three times more likely to be unwed mothers; children in single-parent households are twice as likely to be divorced later on.
Parental divorce increases the likelihood that children will be poor in school.
The process and outcome of divorce can affect children Education and schooling have long-term negative effects. From the perspective of high school students' promotion, repetition, dropout, etc., the problems of children in single-parent families are more serious. Moreover, the separation of fathers from children due to divorce has a greater impact on children than the death of fathers.
Parental divorce reduces children's likelihood of completing college and a better career.
Long-term socioeconomic consequences for children of parental divorce, confirmed in multiple surveys. Those who drop out before high school graduation , children who can't go to college, children who can't finish college, young people who can't find a job,And young people with low incomes and financial constraints, more from single-parent households than from two-parent households.
Adults and adolescents are much less likely to have bad habits in intact families than in incomplete families.
A national survey shows that children of single-parent families and divorced adult men and women themselves are more likely to develop bad habits such as alcoholism and smoking. The reason may be the tension and conflict in interpersonal relationships.
For children, the difficulty of single parents to discipline children and the alienation of children from their parents, especially the indifference of their relationship with their fathers, are obvious reasons.
Children of divorced parents are more likely to suffer from mental illness than children of two-parent families.
Divorce brings emotional distress to children, causing psychological pressure on children, leading to psychological disorders or diseases, such as depression and anxiety disorders. This is often not revealed at the time of the parents' divorce. Of course, it also depends on the parental conflict before the divorce. If parents continue to be in a state of sharp conflict, perhaps "long pain is worse than short pain", and parental divorce is more beneficial to children than inseparable. But judging from the situation of most divorced parents, they have no irreconcilable conflict but chose to divorce.
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There is no doubt that Xie Tingting's "willingness to fall" has nothing to do with her father.
In " Baby's New Friend", Xie Xian himself felt guilty, "To son Nicholas Tse , I feel guilty about my daughter Xie Tingting. "
Father taught her to be romantic,
Daughter taught her responsibility.
From the former nightclub "The Prodigal Girl" to the present for washing her daughter's hands and making soup.
I am afraid that Xie Tingting can't think of such a big change in.
A girl who grew up in a lack of love,
became a mother but shielded her daughter from all wind and rain.
Because of her love for her daughter, she learned to live seriously.
has washed away the splendor of the past, she is also an ordinary woman.
I hope she and her daughter can be so happy forever.
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