Text/Xiaozhi
Recently Zhang Jizhong wife Du Xinglin published a long article on Weibo, angering cyber violence.
Since the day he chose to marry Zhang Jizhong, who is 31 years his senior, the battle has never stopped. Why are netizens biting them?
Is "Grandpa Sun Lian" so unacceptable to the public? Or did Du Xinglin's experience make people wear tinted glasses?
From a female doctoral student studying abroad to a female aesthetic lecturer, to the director's wife, Du Xinglin's life is wonderful.
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In 1982, in Lianyungang, Jiangsu, Du Xinglin was born into an intellectual family. Her parents took good care of her and taught her well.
Du Xinglin is often referred to as "the child of someone else's family".
She is particularly interested in languages, and her English grades are particularly good. In high school, she had an ideal of language work.
During college, she started to teach English part-time, teaching high school students new concept English,He has also worked as a teacher in a foreign teacher training institution. After graduating from university, it is logical to stay in school and become a university teacher.
Du Xinglin's polite speech, gentle and lovely personality, is very popular among students.
But her ambition is not there, she has poetry and distance in her heart, and wants to go out and see while she is young. When the school had the opportunity to study abroad, she won a place in France with excellent results.
In France, Du Xinglin has no problem in a foreign country due to his excellent language skills. She lived a wonderful study abroad career with ease, and she chose to study law while studying in France.
In 2009, 27-year-old Du Xinglin received his Ph.D.
This is why many friends of Zhang Jizhong and his wife call Du Xinglin "Dr. Du".
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Du Xinglin has never been a weak woman.
Girls with high education usually come late in love, 27-year-old Du Xinglin's ideal type is a mature and attractive man.
Her career and love started almost at the same time.
After leaving France, she went to Taiwan and started a partnership with a boss named Huang Taiyuan . They founded a company that does corporate branding and training. Huang Taiyuan is the chairman and Du Xinglin is the consultant.
The best thing Shanghai elites do is to package themselves, add their own titles, and package them as workplace elites to make suggestions for the company.
Du Xinglin is no exception. She added to herself the titles of " Hepburn in the planning circle" and "Chinese ladies who are integrated into French culture".
It can be said that Wang Shi wife Tian Pujun The “Independent Women’s Noble Academy” that Du Xinglin is currently playing is the rest of Du Xinglin’s play.
It's not enough to have a thriving career, and my husband has to arrange it too. Her marriage partner, no accident locked the boss Huang Taiyuan.
A married Taiwanese man 20 years older than her.
April 2013For the sake of Du Meiren, Mr. Huang divorced his original spouse, like a bird out of a cage, and did not forget to confess his heartfelt words: Welcome to the spring for me and the princess.
Many feelings are more fragile than expected, and the two of them were very close to each other when they started their business. But after really making money, there is no time to maintain the marriage, so they start to go their separate ways.
Du Xinglin devoted herself to her career in the years after her marriage. She was not satisfied with the cultivation of enterprises, and extended her tentacles to "Women's Growth" .
She has successively launched projects such as aesthetic education institutions, female image and manner management, and spiritual leaders.
An interesting phenomenon is that in recent years, Taiwanese "experts" especially like to come to the mainland to talk about " Successful Learning ", "Women's Inspirational Learning" . Du Xinglin also received a lecture bonus.
In 2015, Du Xinglin successfully taught lectures with actresses,He has already earned a lot of money and is well-known in the industry.
However, the balance of love is increasingly unbalanced, and her husband Huang Taiyuan probably never thought that he would marry a woman with strong career and no intention of running a family. The marriage between the two came to an abrupt end in the second half of 2015.
She ended the marriage by giving up her career, but at the same time she met Zhang Jizhong, a man who would give her broad shoulders.
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Friends who like to surf the Internet in 2016 should still have the impression that Zhang Jizhong's second wife is also a talented woman Fan Xinman .
She tweeted that Du Xinglin was "Little Three" by name.
This wave of operations is really "dog blood".
According to Fan Xinman, During her marriage with Zhang Jizhong , Zhang secretly transferred his property and mansion to Du Xinglin's name, and slept in Fan Xinman's bed.
Zhang Jizhong is not a vegetarian either,Who wouldn't tear his face, He publicly responded that Fan Xinman cheated on his godson.
This incident made a lot of jokes in the past. Fan and Zhang tore their faces and even went to the hospital.
In the end, the old man confessed and divorced after paying a large amount of alimony.
The old won't go and the new won't come. It is at this time that Du Xinglin ushered in the spring when he was smiling like a flower.
On March 5, 2017, Chinese New Year, she and Zhang Jizhong registered as husband and wife.
Their combination is called "Grandpa and Sun Love" by the world.
What a person will become depends on the people around her.
In the first marriage, Du Xinglin just entered the workplace, she needs career and money. After marrying Zhang Jizhong, she was completely reborn, changed from a "feminist" lecturer to a "good wife model".
Abandoning the pursuit of career, focusing on assisting her husband, becoming Zhang Jizhong's manager and assistant, began to actively "create people".
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In order to have the crystallization of love with Director Zhang, she broke through the iron shoes for two years after marriage to find a magical doctor and a prescription.
She likes to write small essays to share her life on Weibo , when she mentioned the time of getting pregnant, she wrote this:
“I have done
in two years 3 implants and Aetna, two babies, one boy and one girl, were implanted every time, and every day injection of oily progesterone and progesterone, the butt was swollen and there was nowhere to put the needle. Three attempts in two years, all ended in failure.”
"I immediately fainted after the second operation, vomited and had diarrhea, and was swollen to the point where I couldn't breathe all night."
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_p2 I went to the United States to seek medical treatment. was a test-tube baby. After 70 eggs were retrieved, I was finally pregnant.
Now Du Xinglin has given birth to a son and a daughter, plus Zhang Jizhong's half-blood son Martin, the family of five is neat.
When it comes to Martin, the child's life is a mystery. So far, Zhang Jizhong has not disclosed who the child's mother is. In the face of controversy over the years, the old man has publicly clarified it once:
"Me and Du Xinglin is a legal husband and wife, and my children are born legally."
Du Xinglin called her husband "Master" at home. Publish sharing about aesthetics on social platforms.
She often accompanies her husband and children to watch the scenery, write calligraphy, and play the piano.
Occasionally I teach my children to be filial to their parents, and I teach my children to wash their father's feet and beat their backs after my husband's get off work.
Zhang Jizhong just passed his 70th birthday last August. Over the years, he has reduced his work and devoted his limited time to his family. He holds the child no less time than a young mother, His professionalism in taking care of the child is no less than that of a mother-in-law.
The only difference is,He is no longer young, and it is because of this that he has become "sand" in the eyes of the world.
After giving birth to two children, Du Xinglin's professionalism returned. She saw the dividends of the small video platform and joined her husband in the live broadcast delivery industry.
Where there are financial interests, there are rivers and lakes , they are a pair of "old husband and young wife", and the frequent and excessive exposure has caused dissatisfaction among netizens.
malicious comments:
such comments a few
this is mentioned at the beginning, 1 On the 15th day of the month, Du Xinglin posted a long article angrily denounced the slander of netizens.
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Do old people still have the right to love?
The answer is yes.
I have seen an answer: When one day in our city, the elderly wear fashionable clothes, beautiful makeup, and elegantly go shopping, it means that the society has become developed and enlightened.
Since the day Du Xinglin's wife's identity was revealed, the question surrounding her has been:
Why do you want to marry an old man?
She replied: Because of fate, because of love.
No one really believes it, because most people preconceived that the old man is not worthy of love, and his body stinks, even his breath stinks, what do you like?
Zhang Jizhong is no ordinary old man. Besides money, he also has talent.
Those who have watched CCTV's "Swordsman", "The Eagle Shooting", "The Condor", " Tianlong Babu" should agree with The drama he directed is the best Close to Jin Yong original,And spread Chinese culture.
Maybe today's young people will not slow down to appreciate a director's intentions and feelings. Because who cares about in the Xiaoao Jianghu, where high mountains and flowing water meet bosom friends , and who cares about the world of "Knights" where happiness and grudges are met?
Undoubtedly, Du Xinglin understands Director Zhang. Her Weibo name is "Mrs. Xia".
It is not uncommon for people to meet love and sex, but it is rare to meet and understand.
I know that this love will have a short time, but it does not hinder the couple's life of viewing the scenery, tuning the piano, playing chess, and writing poetry.
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