Not long ago, a recent photo of Luo Meiwei, who was 52 years old, was exposed, and everyone exclaimed: The 52-year-old body is so good, she looks like a little girl?
In the photo, Luo Meiwei has a smile on her face and her skin is tight. There is no such thing as a 52-year-old. It is not an exaggeration to say that she is 32.
But even so, Luo Meiwei's topical level is far less than that of popular traffic florets.
Because to the public, Luo Meiwei is like a mystery.
When more people mentioned her, they would describe her like this: Jacky Cheung's wife.
In fact, Luo Meiwei was also a very popular actress in the 1980s.
In 1985, Luo Meiwei was discovered by Huang Baiming and starred in the comedy movie "Happy Ghosts for Summer Vacation". Later, Luo Meiwei joined the "Happy Girl Group" and started to catch fire! Together with Maggie Cheung, Carina Lau and Chung Chuhong, they are called "the most promising female actor in Hong Kong.
At that time, Jacky Cheung was still a young actor. When he first appeared in the actor "Infatuated Me", they met Luo Meiwei. The two Therefore, they met and fell in love.
Ten years later, the two entered the marriage, Luo Meiwei also withdrew from the public view, silently helping Jacky Cheung, take care of his finances.
Now, the two have become a model for a happy marriage . One hard work, one wholehearted support.
In this love, we see that the most important thing for a good marriage is to support each other and be grateful to each other.
This makes people think of a very popular video before.
The video of a Taiwanese father giving a speech at his daughterās wedding was swiped, and he said to the two young people: " Marriage is not 1 +1=2, but 0.5+0.5=1. After you get married, you two have to get rid of half of your personality to form a happy family. Marriage is not possession, but union. ā
Some people appreciate this fatherās speech, and some people oppose that marriage should be 1+1, or 0.5+0.5 is greater than 1.
Actually, in the marriage of Luo Meiwei and Jacky Cheung They cut off a lot of their own personalities. Luo Meiwei sacrificed his career, and Jacky Cheung devoted all his love to provide Luo Meiwei with a perfect home. They contributed to each other and achieved this story.
A good marriage should mean that both sides of the husband and wife eliminate half of their own characteristics and defects, tolerate each other, appreciate each other, push each other, complement each other and love each other. Two people tolerate and accept each other's 0.5, and then form a new "1". Only in this way can we have a good marriage relationship. Marriage is not possession, but union.
1. Marriage requires mutual appreciation.
"Keep your eyes open before marriage, and close your eyes after marriage. Only eye. "
This sentence means that you should understand and appreciate something that you cannot understand or does not fit in with your personality but is irrelevant.
If you cannot do this, whether it is marriage or love, Problems are prone to occur.
In 1993, Lin Zhiying and Ruby Lin filmed "The Expendables" together. At that time, Lin Zhiying fell in love with Ruby Lin at first sight. After the filming, the two were quietly together.
But it didn't take long. Lin Zhiying experienced enlistment and comeback, and his career entered a low ebb, while Ruby Lin gradually ushered in the peak of his career. After "Returning the Pearl," he became popular.
Lack of time, conflict in career, two people There was a gradual lack of communication.
Later, various scandals began to follow one after another, most of which was that Ruby Lin fell in love with Su Youpeng.
In 1997, Lin Zhiying was annoyed and wrote and faxed it to the crew, bluntly: "I I want to break up with you".
The breakup incident was well known at the time, but the two of them slowly turned their fights into jade and renewed their lives.As a friend.
Today, Ruby Lin and Huo Jianhuaās families are harmonious and happy, and Lin Zhiying has also become Linās father. The first love back then, how many peopleās hearts were sweet, are now turned into a joke.
But if we communicated more with each other, understood and supported each other, maybe now this love is a pair of Jacky Cheung and Luo Meiwei.
2. Marriage requires sacrifices
When Chen Daoming and Du Xian are in love, they often quarrel. Once it was quite intense, and he said harsh words that he would never contact again.
Finally, Du Xian still wanted to take another look at the Chinese opera, so she got off the car at the entrance of the Chinese opera that day, stood at the school gate for a while, and then backed home. Just when she was backing the last bus, she saw a person standing across the road from a distance, it was Chen Daoming!
Du Xian asked me why I am waiting here? Chen Daoming said: "I just want to take a look at you."
made Du Xian's tears come out all at once: "Do you think I will definitely leave here?"
Chen Daoming explained: "I I think you will. Even if you donāt go here, I will find a way to see you.ā
Du Xian asked curiously: āIf I donāt back up from here, what will you do?ā
ééęSaid: "I will be waiting near your home tomorrow until you show up..."
Later, when talking about marriage with Chen Daoming, Du Xian said:
"I always quarreled when I was in love, I always said If we break up, we canāt separate. This means that we are still very affectionate. Together, we canāt always be as passionate as first love.ā
Actually, Chen Daomingās original temper was very hot. Xian has always tolerated him better, and Du Xian also chose to retire during his career climax to support Chen Daoming's career.
Marriage requires you to give up part of your time and energy, including sacrificing some of your own hobbies and pursuits, in order to achieve the common growth of two people.
3. Marriage needs to share responsibilities.
Responsibility means effort and risk. Most young people now yearn for a relaxed and free life without restraint. But marriage itself is a city. When it comes to the city, the issue of responsibility actually begins long before marriage.
Human nature is selfish. Many young couples have conflicts because they refuse to bear a little responsibility, get angry, and finally divorce. Temporary failures can make them feel discouraged. Giving up responsibility has become the easiest choice. But responsibility is an obligation that people need to bear in life, which means entering into marriage, one needs to give up one's own selfishness and freedom.
There is such a paragraph in "Beijing Love Story".
Zhang Yi said to Li Chen: What can I give her, I can only make her be poor with me for a lifetime, I might as well let him take advantage of his good years and let her enjoy what life is, if I get up, she is willing Looking back, I will take her back again.
Li Chen takes a sip: I donāt understand, what is the difference between this material and love?
Later, in an interview, Zhang Yi once talked to reporters about this drama. He said that after the filming of this drama, I never watched it again. It was only because of brotherhood, but this one. There is a problem with the values āāconveyed by the play.
Loves that dare not assume the responsibility of marriage and use escape as an excuse are fake love.
4. Marriage must learn to forgive
No one is perfect, but when a couple looks at each other, they must be the most perfect in their hearts, but once they enter the marriage, their passion gradually decreases. The shortcomings are constantly exposed, and it is easy for couples to ignore their own imperfections when looking at each other, and care too much about each other's imperfections.
So in marriage, give up your own harshness for perfection, and you must learn to forgive each other's imperfections.
0.5+0.5, in fact, two imperfect people become one perfect person together. Acknowledge your imperfections, remove half of your personality, and have the psychological measurement of making compromises and concessions.Two people work together and make progress together. In the end, it will become a more perfect one.
A good marriage is not possession, but union.
