In the past few days, a group of photos of 40-year-old Jolin Tsai has been on the hot search:
Tight face, firm chest and abdomen, no matter how you look at it, she is not a 40-year-old! Sing, the hourglass of time was smashed by me.
I remembered that someone said after watching "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", I am no longer afraid of getting old.
Indeed, female stars tell us that even if they are 30+, 40+, 50+, they can still live like 18.
However, why did my age anxiety and body anxiety not reduce at all after watching this show?
Actually, there is a cruel reality that has been ignored:
30+, slender body, skin that can be broken by blowing bullets , is called "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves";
30+, with a bloated body and sallow skin, is called "Aunt who has overcome thorns and thorns"! With two slogans, your middle-aged can be so beautiful.
However, when I look around my sisters and aunts who are 30+, 40+, and 50+ in the true sense, the sense of reality comes to my face. Can't help but sigh:
The older women we accept can only wear bright and bright coats?
If the women on the stage are out of shape and their faces are slack, we can still hold the same respect and patience, Do you appreciate the so-called inner beauty?
To get to the bottom of it, people's pursuit of older actresses is based on the fact that they are "not like older women". The original intention of this program
seems to be to eliminate age discrimination and pressure, but in essence it is still forcing mature women to compromise on the "feminine feeling".
In the past few days, a group of photos of 40-year-old Jolin Tsai has been on the hot search:
Tight face, firm chest and abdomen, no matter how you look at it, she is not a 40-year-old! Sing, the hourglass of time was smashed by me.
I remembered that someone said after watching "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", I am no longer afraid of getting old.
Indeed, female stars tell us that even if they are 30+, 40+, 50+, they can still live like 18.
However, why did my age anxiety and body anxiety not reduce at all after watching this show?
Actually, there is a cruel reality that has been ignored:
30+, slender body, skin that can be broken by blowing bullets , is called "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves";
30+, with a bloated body and sallow skin, is called "Aunt who has overcome thorns and thorns"! With two slogans, your middle-aged can be so beautiful.
However, when I look around my sisters and aunts who are 30+, 40+, and 50+ in the true sense, the sense of reality comes to my face. Can't help but sigh:
The older women we accept can only wear bright and bright coats?
If the women on the stage are out of shape and their faces are slack, we can still hold the same respect and patience, Do you appreciate the so-called inner beauty?
To get to the bottom of it, people's pursuit of older actresses is based on the fact that they are "not like older women". The original intention of this program
seems to be to eliminate age discrimination and pressure, but in essence it is still forcing mature women to compromise on the "feminine feeling".
Beyond the glittering screen, don't forget the women who really need our care and respect,The vast majority are standing under the stage where no one can see it, and there is no spotlight.
and the truly worthy of advocating attitude towards life is more than simply making oneself look 18 years old forever.
I have to say that this world is really malicious to people after the age of 30.
Before the age of 30, poverty, ugliness, shortness, and stupidity are not terrible, because youth is a thick layer of filters, which makes people look like "the future is promising".
And once you cross the threshold of 30 years old, you can no longer find excuses, and you can accept as with a faceless face.
The living condition of 34-year-old single woman Qiu Huamei in the documentary " leftover women" can be said to have set off a corner of the cruel status quo of "older leftover women".
She worked hard from Shandong to Beijing, and turned from a rural girl to an elite lawyer. Because she has been single for a long time, her parents called her "stupid reading and reading", and her sister's children laughed at her as a "bachelor aunt".
The dating agency on the other side directly said, "You are too old to be a beautiful woman", knocking her self-confidence to freezing point.
She can't figure it out, she clearly has a firm foothold in a big city and is happy and happy, why is it worthless in the eyes of others? middle.
According to a survey, 38% of single men and women have their first blind date under the age of 23, and 24% of single men and women are 23-25 years old.
More and more post-95s and post-00s are also rushing into the marriage and love market, waiting to get on the bus.
However, 30+ women after entering marriage can sit back and relax?
No, marriage is just the beginning.
enters the mother role,It was the first difficult transformation.
From pregnancy to childbirth, morning sickness, swelling, insomnia, painkillers, lateral incision, postpartum depression and even sequelae, giving birth to a child is not an exaggeration.
And when mothers are embarrassed and milked in public toilets, and are disturbed by crying children every night, the voice in their ears is likely to be this:
"Why can't you even bring a child?"
"Which woman doesn't come here like this, you are hypocritical."
"If you ask for leave again, other people don't have so much to do with you!" , suddenly getting old.
When you see a woman with a sagging face and a protruding belly, haggardly carrying a bag full of diaper bottles, remember that she was also a girl in high heels and a tight skirt!
British writer Rachel Ka Ske believes that once a woman becomes a mother, the importance of the individual is like a plummeting stock, all the way down.
Even Yao Chen and Song Dandan have been distressed. After getting married and having children, their body, mind and career are all in crisis, not to mention our ordinary women? , The husband doesn't understand that there is a little pressure multiplied by the old and the lower, and he doesn't dare to get sick and doesn't dare to relax.
When you are in your 20s, you can and freely, but as soon as the alarm bell rings at the age of 30, the capital of "freeing yourself" will be recovered in an instant.
Amidst the chicken feathers, apart from secretly collapsing and sighing, do you still have the courage to clean up your embarrassed self, break through yourself, and ride the wind and waves? group standard,It was sprayed badly.
Since you want to choose youthful and beautiful ones, isn't "Youth With You" fragrant? Why use the 20+ standard to toss with the sisters of 30+, 40+, and 50+?
And what we want to see is not the independent, calm, confident, free and easy taste of mature women?
Although girls are beautiful, they are charming, but they are somewhat fragile, shallow and panic. And women who have been baptized through the years are more calm, rich and full of texture.
Ma Yili has taken photos of her makeup without makeup more than once, with a death angle and high-definition camera lens. She does not shy away from the fine lines, tear troughs, dark circles and spots that a 40+ woman should have.
Where does Ma Yili's confidence come from?
Her strength never lies in her appearance.
She only became famous at the age of 30. She knows better than anyone that strong ability, solid reserves and solid quality are the foundation of invincibility.
From no-name to the queen of Magnolia, from "doing and cherishing" to calm divorce, every step of steady and firmness is a gift of years and experience, and it is also a testimony of her self-polishing and continuous growth.
As she said:
In the era of "girly feeling", every woman, from celebrities to commoners, has fallen into deep anxiety, daring not to grow old, to lose weight, or to gain weight.
The stereotyped "first love face" on the screen is beautiful, but has no soul; and the "girly feeling" that is hard concave is even more embarrassing to the point where the hair stands on end.
However, only those who are not afraid of the years and face the aging of are the winners of time.
I remember Zhang Ziyi specially shot a set of "old makeup", screenwriter Shi Hang specially forwarded her unrepaired hard photos,Express appreciation.
Maybe this face is not youthful at all, but what is revealed in the deep eyes is her perseverance, calmness and wisdom after the vicissitudes of life, which is far less than that of 18-year-old Zhang Ziyi. It's not so much that she's old, it's that she's changed.
American writer Anna Kunderland said:
Sometimes looking back on the road you have traveled, you will find that the flying rings bring women not only vicissitudes and aging, but also make women calm and have tastes , and these are things I can't understand when I haven't experienced them.
is too young, doomed to be ignorant, blind, and hasty. Experience, wisdom, knowledge, and compassion must be accumulated through arduous and long life experience and learning.
So when we worship youth blindly, aren't we discriminating against life itself in disguise?
The writer Ai Xiaoyang said it well:
The real youth who will not be defeated by time is not PS, water light needle, but a sense of strength.
As the saying goes, beauty is beyond the skin. This not only refers to the bones, but also the bones.
has a strong character, no matter what age, can stand tall and straight, without fear of annual rings.
htmlAt the beginning of 2000, the Speaker of the U.S. House of Representatives Pelosi made outrageous remarks to promote the "Huawei threat theory". Fu Ying, a 67-year-old diplomat, responded sharply with fluent English and became a "national goddess".
Despite her grey hair, Fu Ying's elegance, modesty and demeanor make people completely forget that she is already an old man in her sixtieth year.
Fu Ying's life was very tortuous. She dropped out of school at the age of 16, worked during the day and studied at night, and was admitted to BFSU at the age of 20. After that, she continued to study English, French, and Romanian.To sharpen the profound business ability and personality quality.
Unlike the general impression of a solemn and dull diplomat, she is also ingenious in her outfits. Bright formal dresses are matched with exquisite accessories. She is dignified and elegant.
Compared with 40 years ago, in her old age, her brows and eyes still did not change the eagerness of youth, and she even looked a little more dashing and graceful.
No wonder some people say that before the age of 30, the face is given by the parents, after the age of 30, it is shaped by oneself.
No matter how beautiful the skin looks, there will be a day of aging and relaxation.
Beauty that is worth a woman's life to pursue is by no means a swollen and stiff "fake face", it is not beauty, it is out of fear of aging.
Only a full heart, a rich spirit, and a sparkling curiosity and humility in the eyes are the cosmetics that will never fade.
Of course, the beauty of a woman needs the care and support of and . Women who nourish with in love will bloom more calmly and vigorously.
The 38-year-old Wan Qian said on the show that she was particularly lucky in the support of her family after getting married and having children.
Whether it is parents, husbands or in-laws, no one asks "what you should do and what you should be like", but "do what you want to do, we fully support you."
Therefore, Wan Qiancai She has enough power to search for her love without any scruples. From the screen to the drama, to the stage of the girl group, she acts earnestly, sings and , and she has won the favor of countless people as soon as she appears on the stage.
A woman who is nourished and nurtured by love, just like this radiates light from the heart, less anxiety and pretentiousness, more calm and peaceful,Disgusting.
The poet Yeats wrote in "When You Are Old":
How many people love you when you are young and happy, and admire your beauty, false or true. There is only one who loves your pilgrim soul, the wrinkles on your aging face.
May every woman be proud of herself in every moment in the mirror, and shake hands with age and years;
May everyone applaud women of different ages, and appreciate through their eyes Add embellishment but the beauty of the back of the paper.
entering the role of mother is the first difficult transformation.
From pregnancy to childbirth, morning sickness, swelling, insomnia, painkillers, lateral incision, postpartum depression and even sequelae, giving birth to a child is not an exaggeration.
And when mothers are embarrassed and milked in public toilets, and are disturbed by crying children every night, the voice in their ears is likely to be this:
"Why can't you even bring a child?"
"Which woman doesn't come here like this, you are hypocritical."
"If you ask for leave again, other people don't have so much to do with you!" , suddenly getting old.
When you see a woman with a sagging face and a protruding belly, haggardly carrying a bag full of diaper bottles, remember that she was also a girl in high heels and a tight skirt!
British writer Rachel Ka Ske believes that once a woman becomes a mother, the importance of the individual is like a plummeting stock, all the way down.
Even Yao Chen and Song Dandan have been distressed. After getting married and having children, their body, mind and career are all in crisis, not to mention our ordinary women? , The husband doesn't understand that there is a little pressure multiplied by the old and the lower, and he doesn't dare to get sick and doesn't dare to relax.
When you are in your 20s, you can and freely, but as soon as the alarm bell rings at the age of 30, the capital of "freeing yourself" will be recovered in an instant.
Amidst the chicken feathers, apart from secretly collapsing and sighing, do you still have the courage to clean up your embarrassed self, break through yourself, and ride the wind and waves? The standard of forming a group was sprayed badly.
Since you want to choose youthful and beautiful ones, isn't "Youth With You" fragrant? Why use the 20+ standard to toss with the sisters of 30+, 40+, and 50+?
And what we want to see is not the independent, calm, confident, free and easy taste of mature women?
Although girls are beautiful, they are charming, but they are somewhat fragile, shallow and panic. And women who have been baptized through the years are more calm, rich and full of texture.
Ma Yili has taken photos of her makeup without makeup more than once, with a death angle and high-definition camera lens. She does not shy away from the fine lines, tear troughs, dark circles and spots that a 40+ woman should have.
Where does Ma Yili's confidence come from?
Her strength never lies in her appearance.
She only became famous at the age of 30. She knows better than anyone that strong ability, solid reserves and solid quality are the foundation of invincibility.
From no-name to the queen of Magnolia, from "doing and cherishing" to calm divorce, every step of steady and firmness is a gift of years and experience, and it is also a testimony of her self-polishing and continuous growth.
As she said:
In the era of "girly feeling", every woman, from celebrities to commoners, has fallen into deep anxiety, daring not to grow old, to lose weight, or to gain weight.
The stereotyped "first love face" on the screen is beautiful, but has no soul; and the "girly feeling" that is hard concave is even more embarrassing to the point where the hair stands on end.
However, only those who are not afraid of the years and face the aging of are the winners of time.
I remember that Zhang Ziyi specially shot a set of "old makeup", and the screenwriter Shi Hang specially forwarded her unrepaired hard photos to express her appreciation.
Maybe this face is not youthful at all, but what is revealed in the deep eyes is her perseverance, calmness and wisdom after the vicissitudes of life, which is far less than that of 18-year-old Zhang Ziyi. It's not so much that she's old, it's that she's changed.
American writer Anna Kunderland said:
Sometimes looking back on the road you have traveled, you will find that the flying rings bring women not only vicissitudes and aging, but also make women calm and have tastes , and these are things I can't understand when I haven't experienced them.
is too young, doomed to be ignorant, blind, and hasty. Experience, wisdom, knowledge, and compassion must be accumulated through arduous and long life experience and learning.
So when we worship youth blindly, aren't we discriminating against life itself in disguise?
The writer Ai Xiaoyang said it well:
The real youth who will not be defeated by time is not PS, water light needle, but a sense of strength.
As the saying goes, beauty is beyond the skin. This not only refers to the bones, but also the bones.
has a strong character, no matter what age, can stand tall and straight, without fear of annual rings.
htmlAt the beginning of 2000, the Speaker of the U.S. House of Representatives Pelosi made outrageous remarks to promote the "Huawei threat theory". Fu Ying, a 67-year-old diplomat, responded sharply with fluent English and became a "national goddess".
Despite her grey hair, Fu Ying's elegance, modesty and demeanor make people completely forget that she is already an old man in her sixtieth year.
Fu Ying's life was very tortuous. She dropped out of school at the age of 16, worked during the day and studied at night, and was admitted to BFSU at the age of 20. After that, she continued to study English, French and Romanian, honing her profound business ability and personality.
Unlike the general impression of a solemn and dull diplomat, she is also ingenious in her outfits. Bright formal dresses are matched with exquisite accessories. She is dignified and elegant.
Compared with 40 years ago, in her old age, her brows and eyes still did not change the eagerness of youth, and she even looked a little more dashing and graceful.
No wonder some people say that before the age of 30, the face is given by the parents, after the age of 30, it is shaped by oneself.
No matter how beautiful the skin looks, there will be a day of aging and relaxation.
Beauty that is worth a woman's life to pursue is by no means a swollen and stiff "fake face", it is not beauty, it is out of fear of aging.
Only a full heart, a rich spirit, and a sparkling curiosity and humility in the eyes are the cosmetics that will never fade.
Of course, the beauty of a woman needs the care and support of and . Women who nourish with in love will bloom more calmly and vigorously.
The 38-year-old Wan Qian said on the show that she was particularly lucky in the support of her family after getting married and having children.
Whether it is parents, husbands or in-laws, no one asks "what you should do and what you should be like", but "do what you want to do, we fully support you."
Therefore, Wan Qiancai She has enough power to search for her love without any scruples. From the screen to the drama, to the stage of the girl group, she acts earnestly, sings and , and she has won the favor of countless people as soon as she appears on the stage.
A woman who is nourished and nurtured by love, just like this radiates light from her heart, less anxiety and pretentiousness, and more calm and peaceful, which makes people hate it.
The poet Yeats wrote in "When You Are Old":
How many people love you when you are young and happy, and admire your beauty, false or true. There is only one who loves your pilgrim soul, the wrinkles on your aging face.
May every woman be proud of herself in every moment in the mirror, and shake hands with age and years;
May everyone applaud women of different ages, and appreciate through their eyes Add embellishment but the beauty of the back of the paper.
