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A few days ago, a back photo of Wang Zuxian caused a heated discussion on Weibo. In the
photo, the 54-year-old is wearing a dress and strolling leisurely with a puppy, looking very comfortable.
2001 comes to mind.
Wang Zuxian announced his retirement after the filming of the movie "A Dream in the Garden", and soon went to study in Canada.
On the day he decided to quit the entertainment industry, Wang Zuxian said goodbye with tears in his eyes:
"The only movie I made in the past 7 years, and the last movie in my life, I have seen all the tragic accidents all over the world these days. I suddenly felt that there was not enough time, so I decided to quit the film industry and do something I wanted to do, and now I most hope that I can go out to study and live a life without 'cosmetics'."
Wang Zuxian comes back and starred in the movie "Beautiful Shanghai". After the filming of
was over, this time, she made up her mind to quit the entertainment industry and not make a comeback, and then settled in Vancouver to live an ordinary life.
Since then, although Wang Zuxian is not in the rivers and lakes, her legends are often circulated in the rivers and lakes.
From time to time, recent photos of Wang Zuxian and his current situation will appear on the Internet. Whether it's in a photo or in someone else's description. 18 years after
faded out of the entertainment industry, Wang Zuxian really lived the quiet years she wanted.
In this regard, many netizens said in Weibo comments:
"There will always be such a person in life, who warms the years and amazes the time. After many years, Wang Zuxian is still amazed by my time."
"After Wang Zuxian , there is no Nie Xiaoqian in the world anymore."
"I finally realized what it means to be an undefeated beauty in time."
" So, why did Wang Zuxian quit the entertainment industry in the first place, is it really because of his ex-boyfriend Qi Qin? "
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When talking about Wang Zuxian, it is inevitable to talk about Qiqin .
In the eyes of many people, Wang Zuxian resolutely decided to quit the entertainment industry when he was at the peak of his career, and the reason was inseparable from his boyfriend Qi Qin.
As she said, saw through the sadness of and decided to leave.
At that time, her world was Qi Qin. If you get it, the rest of your life will be complete.
If you lose it, you will regret the rest of your life.
Wang Zuxian and Qi Qin are both "lost" to each other.
In 1986, before the filming of the movie "Fragrant Grass and Blue Sky", Qi Qin was in a group of Among the actresses , Wang Zuxian was chosen at a glance.
As for the reasons, one is because both of them are from Taiwan, and the other is because Wang Zuxian has an outstanding temperament and is the best choice for the heroine in his heart.
The reason for Qi Qin reminds me of In a word:
"Many times, love will happen, often because of that mysterious and mysterious glimpse. "
In fact, as early as the moment he saw Wang Zuxian, Qi Qin was already caught in the whirlpool of love.
Fortunately, this relationship was not a one-man show.
Qi Qin entered the drama, and Wang Zuxian was no exception.
So in Not long after the movie was filmed, the two started talking about love.
However, the parties are optimistic about the combination of a jade girl and a prodigal son, but the people around them are not optimistic. against the love of the two.
In my mother's opinion, Qi Qin is rebellious and unruly, and even went to a correctional institution when he was young. Such a man is not suitable for marriage , nor for love.
But we all know that couples in love always have such a stubbornness: When the world is against the lover, they will choose to stand on the side of the lover and be the enemy of the world.
Wang Zuxian is like this.
She doesn't care about her family's opinion and continues to fall in love with Qi Qin.
But what she never imagined was that there was a world beyond the world.
Before Qi Qin became famous, he had a girlfriend, and then the two chose to break up due to personal incompatibility and other reasons, but at that time, his girlfriend became pregnant and gave birth to a child in 1987. After the
news broke, the two did not break up immediately, but both Wang Zuxian and Qi Qin knew that this love had already cracked and could no longer be repaired. It was only a matter of time before they separated. After more than 10 years of
html, Qi Qin invested in the movie " is about in winter".When a reporter asked him who would most like to see this movie.
Qi Qin replied frankly:
"Wife, daughter, Wang Zuxian."
After going around for so many years, the songs I wrote for you when I was young have all turned into movies.
only knew,
love is gone, but it did come.
I and you can't deny it.
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22-year-old Wang Zuxian, once had a good vision for marriage :
"I will live a very ordinary life in the future, a girl will always get married." "In my dictionary, there is never the word "married".
At the age of 54, she is still single, does not talk about marriage, lives a leisurely life, and is not afraid of the eyes of others.
I remembered that this year, Li Ruotong published a new book "Have a Good Life", and put a photo of her and Wang Zuxian 31 years ago in the book, and bluntly said that Wang Zuxian was the first actress she met in her life, and Wang Zuxian posted on the social network. In response to Li Ruotong:
" life is never defined by others, we all have to live it well."
Whether it is Wang Zuxian or Li Ruotong, the reason why they cherish each other, appreciate and understand each other. The reason for
is that, in essence, they are a type of person.
Li Ruotong, like Wang Zuxian, broke away from the shackles of worldliness, marriage, and her many years ago.
As you get older, there are often people around you, or fans ask Li Ruotong why he hasn't gotten married?
Whenever I hear this topic, Li Ruotong first smiles, and then tells the other party:
"Marriage is not something that you have to do when you are old, and happiness does not depend on whether you are married or not. The real happiness is knowing what you want. , and try my best to get it, one can live well alone, and the relationship needs to be handed over to the right person." Li Ruotong, who was in the early years of
, has the same emotional experience as Wang Yuyan, who she played.
Wang Yuyan was sincere towards her cousin Murong Fu, but she could not get a response.
And Li Ruotong also lost herself for a ten-year relationship.
Once, they were born for love.
Later, they all live for themselves. These principles,
, are things that they cannot comprehend in their twenties.
Because of the increase of age, it brings not only life experience, but also a transparent view of things.
More importantly, she deeply felt that happiness has nothing to do with marriage:
"My happiness is that my mother is healthy, my niece grows up on time, my family is always there, and I live more and more calmly, I also have the courage to believe in love, and I'm still waiting."
Wang Zuxian and Li Ruotong both found the definition of happiness.
Since then, no one can define happiness for them.
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Adler said:
"Life is a constant comparison with your ideal self, rather than living under the evaluation of others."
18-year-old, why can't you get into your ideal university?
25-year-old you, why is your career not going well, you have no savings, and you are still renting?
The 35-year-old you, why don't you get married and have children? What's the difference between this and a "monster"?
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These sounds have always existed in our lives, and they echo from time to time.
But ask yourself, do these sounds really matter?
Are these people really doing it for you?
Can they really take on anything for your life?
The answer is that can't.
Life is one's own, nothing to do with others.
How to define happiness in life is up to you, don't be easily influenced by others.
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