Our life is inseparable from two things: survival and emotion. And in love, the most tossing and turning is love. Many people search for it all their lives, but they are rare to find a good person, and they are ultimately suffering for love. Many people don’t understand how to ge

Our life is inseparable from two things, survival and love. And in love, the most tossing and turning is love.

Many people search for it all their lives, but they are rare to be a good person, and they are ultimately suffering for love. Many people don’t understand how to get true love.

privately believes that if two people can always remain calm and weigh the pros and cons when they get along, it is a layer of separation from true love.

The love between men and women is nothing to say. In the recent hit drama "The Big Test", there is a character named Zhou Meiren. I haven't worked for ten years and I rely on my wife Zhao Shan to raise it, but this is just such a person that makes people hate it.

And his wife really loves him, spoils him, cares about him, understands him, and encourages him. Others have the male lead and the female lead the female lead the inner world. Where is his family? The heroine is the outside, but she also wins the inside.

But in fact, I only understood it at the end. It seems that Zhao Shan was at a disadvantage, but in fact she grasped her husband and son. Her husband was obedient and her son was filial. She had the final say at home.

The husband cheered up again, and his son took the lead in the exam every time, and Zhao Shan used his wholehearted heart to hold the hearts of these two men.

Zhao Shan is a typical woman who can "guard her home", and this kind of woman is really rare. The opposite woman is the kind of woman who is out-of-mind and unwilling to "stay her family".

They usually have these four commonalities, referred to as "four-many".

There are many ex-boys, and the speed of changing men is faster than reading books

Many people say that men are fickle, but sometimes, as more and more temptations in life, some women's hearts are gradually unable to hold back.

can maintain the original intention in a dull relationship, which is mostly determined by a person's self-control and character.

Of course, for fickle women, it is not terrible to be exposed, we can stay away from it. What I am afraid of is women who can disguise themselves and play with others.

Usually, it is difficult for a woman who cannot stay home to give her partner a sense of security. Because they have too many exes, even after breaking up, they are still connected with these exes.

Although the wrong relationship is not what we want to experience, ending a relationship neatly and reducing unnecessary involvement is a respect for the next relationship.

and this type of women usually have a characteristic, which is that they change men very quickly. So even though this type of woman is not old, she still has many exes. Women like

can quickly withdraw from one relationship and devote themselves to the next relationship. They will not be too sad, and they will rarely let themselves have window period .

There are many friends of the opposite sex, and do not refuse any man to get close to

Many feelings begin with ambiguity. After getting along for a long time, it is easy for men and women to have a natural relationship or an illusion.

This illusion will gradually make the two people get closer, and for women who do not resist the closeness of other men, developing this kind of emotion is actually a very dangerous thing.

They thought this was their own charm, but in fact they were just people treating her as a prey to the door.

We can understand that women are eager to be paid attention and to show their charm, but when they interact with the opposite sex, they must maintain a safe distance and follow the ways of getting along with ordinary friends.

Appropriate vanity can make people progress, while excessive vanity is a trap in life.

Especially when women have a fixed boyfriend, they must pay attention to the boundaries in dating. Some women have many friends with the opposite sex because they are silly and sweet, while some women pretend not to see each other's intentions.

It is easy to fall into entangled feelings, and lose yourself in the constant transmission of ambiguity. Such a woman can’t even keep herself in her own home, so how can she say she can keep her home?

has a lot of thoughts, and when we interact, we also look at the mountain high,

We all know that many people have difficulty in choosing . This stems from a mentality of "wanting, wanting".

You can hesitate on some items, but in terms of emotions, you must see your heart clearly. Some women obviously have boyfriends, but they still have a swaying feeling in their hearts.

Of course, we have the right to choose before we determine the relationship with anyone. But you must remember that after you have confirmed the relationship, you will not be able to step on two more boats.

This is not only a hint of mistakes for oneself, but also a meaningless hope for others. Some women who have good conditions and choose many women often lose themselves more easily.

There is also a type of women who start to be very sweet in love, but once the two have disputes and differences, what she thinks of is the other person's badness and goodness with other men.

But unhappiness and disputes in life are inevitable, especially the closer the person, the more quarrels there will be between the two.

If you encounter a problem, immediately think about how to retreat or how to find comfort from other men. The relationship cannot last long.

There is a lot of privacy, and it will never be difficult for others to understand the real ones

Women who cannot keep their home usually have a lot of privacy. It seems that no one can truly see through her and understand her.

They are also unwilling to reveal their true selves for various purposes at the same time. They usually don't let you know what you think inside and you are unsure, and lies often surround them. Women like

do not want to follow a stable gender relationship. They only care about their own feelings in their hearts, not about secular evaluations and moral constraints.

They always have a sense of mystery, which will attract the attention of some men.

Their sense of mystery is not about self-protection that focuses on privacy, but about being intimate people. It is difficult for you to get a definite answer in her mouth.

But what we need to understand is that everything in the world has cause and effect. If you have hurt others, you will eventually be retaliated by emotions.

Finally, it ends with a sentence Yishu said: "Love yourself, and then love others."

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[Written|Weiwei'an: The pen has warmth and speaks for emotion. An atypical writer who loves words invites you to perceive life together]