Someone said: "Five hundred times look back in the previous life, in exchange for passing by in this life; the people you meet in this life are the result of hard practice in the previous life."
All couples come together because of love, without love for no reason, and without hatred for no reason. The leaves do not turn yellow every day, the hearts do not turn cold every day, and the fate does not break out every day.
The relationship between husband and wife has gradually faded, but it is actually a heartbreaker. Until one day, the cold heart will never warm up again.
"House and wife are united, and their strength is to cut off gold." The best love is two hearts, slowly becoming one heart; bad love is one heart, slowly becoming two hearts.
.9 million deposit is only 1 yuan left for
Event Review: The man wearing black clothes and bald hair in the picture is called Dong Xiang (pseudonym). He was diagnosed with mid-stage nasopharyngeal cancer in April and needs to spend a lot of money to treat the disease. However, he had a deposit of 900,000 yuan at home, but when he used money to treat the disease, he found that the balance was only 1.5 yuan. After asking carefully, he found that the money had been transferred by his wife Jiang Xiaoling (pseudonym).
Couples are birds in the same forest, and they fly away when the disaster comes. Why is Dong Xiang’s wife so heartless? What is the truth of true love?
Dong Xiang, who is in his 40s, was originally a passenger transport driver. When he learned that he had nasopharyngeal cancer , he collapsed. As the head of the family, he really couldn't understand why he had suffered from such a disease at a young age. Although
cannot accept this fact, at least there is still a chance to be cured. Especially after thinking that he had saved some of his savings over the years, Dong Xiang felt a little comforted. However, when he went to the bank to withdraw money to treat his illness, he found that the original deposit of more than 900,000 was only 1.5 yuan. When he applied for the card, he was bound to his wife's mobile phone, so he could not receive a text message notification.
The sudden illness caused Dong Xiang to collapse, and now the money in the card disappeared, which made him feel even more anxious. In order to find out where the money went, Dong Xiang printed out the transfer records of the card, and found that the money in the card was transferred several times, and the amount was less than 50,000 yuan.
Although this card is bound to my wife's mobile phone number, it is an account opened by Dong Xiang's ID card. If the transfer exceeds 50,000, you must go to the bank to handle it, so my wife took advantage of this loophole. When Dong Xiang thought that his wife who was sleeping with him had tried his best to transfer property behind his back, he felt as if he was cutting his heart. He really didn't understand why his wife did this.
Dong Xiang said that when he was diagnosed with illness, his wife kept comforting him and said that no matter how much money he spent, he would do his best to cure him, and would be by his side carefully every time he checked. However, after half a month of treatment, his wife's attitude suddenly changed. Not only did she act extremely impatient every time she came to the hospital, but she would secretly call others for several hours every time she accompanied her, and she simply made excuses to not come to the hospital. What made him speechless was that even if his wife didn't come to the hospital, she didn't even pay the cost of the hospital treatment.
Dong Xiang was treated in the hospital and was very weak. He needed someone to take care of him, but his wife ignored him. In order to have someone to help him, Dong Xiang had to call for his elderly parents to accompany him. Fortunately, after a period of treatment, Dong Xiang's condition improved greatly, but he still needed chemotherapy in the later stage. He also had to take a lot of medicine when he was recuperating at home, and the subsequent treatment cost was a huge expense. Therefore, Dong Xiang had to find his wife Jiang Xiaoling through a reporter, hoping that she could take out the money to treat herself.
As soon as we met, Dong Xiang had a fierce quarrel with his wife. He said that he had worked hard for many years and now he is going to see a doctor but has no money. It is really meaningless. However, Jiang Xiaoling said that she had already given 40,000 yuan to treat her husband at the beginning, and the reason why she did not continue to pay for the money was all because of her in-laws' attitude.
The leaves do not turn yellow every day, and the hearts do not turn cold every day
Jiang Xiaoling said that in the past few years, the family was demolished and received a total of 2 million yuan in collection, but her in-laws only gave them 800,000 yuan, and the more than 1 million she gave them was in the hands of her in-laws. Now her husband is sick, but her in-laws don’t pay a penny, which really makes her feel heartbroken, so she didn’t continue to pay.
Regarding the 900,000 yuan deposit mentioned by her husband, Jiang Xiaoling said that her husband took out 40,000 yuan for treatment. Later, her friend borrowed more than 100,000 yuan from business, and the family needed daily expenses, so there were only 400,000 yuan left. Considering that there were two children in the family to raise, she had to plan in advance and save some money for the children.
Dong Xiang said that his wife's explanation was completely untrustworthy. After all, he had only been hospitalized for half a month after he was sick, and half of the money at home was spent. It was impossible. It must be because his wife saw that she was sick, so she wanted to transfer her property in advance and then divorce him.
When Jiang Xiaoling heard her husband doubting her like this, she became excited. She said that her husband often didn't go home in the evenings in recent years, and there were all kinds of gossip about him outside. In the past two years, he didn't even give himself a salary card. Now that he is sick, he has to go home for treatment. It is obvious that he is treating himself as a sucker. Jiang Xiaoling said that the reason why the family is so fussy is because of her parents-in-law. When she found out that her husband was lying around outside, she found her in-laws for help. As a result, they not only did not help themselves, but also relied on their family that they were not afraid of not being able to marry their daughter-in-law, and even helped Dong Xiang rent a house outside as a safe haven. Now that her husband is sick, her in-laws obviously have more than one million yuan in their hands but can't pay any money. They clearly want to spend all the money in their hands and then drive her out of the Dong family.
Jiang Xiaoling said that when she thought of a good family, she became like this because of her parents-in-law's care of her child and her husband's irresponsibility, she was broken. She could ignore the others, but as a mother, she had to plan for her two children.
The person who tied the bell must also understand Jiang Xiaoling's knot, accompanied by reporters, she came to her parents-in-law's house. Regarding her son's condition, her father-in-law said that as long as she could cure her son's illness, he would be willing even if he spent all his savings. If it was not enough, he could sell the house, but the prerequisite was that the daughter-in-law had to take out the 800,000 she had transferred to them before to her for her son to see her.
When talking about what Jiang Xiaoling said about their interfering in the couple's family affairs, the father-in-law said that his son and daughter-in-law had never had a good relationship. His son often had cold food when he went back when he was sports car, and his daughter-in-law didn't know how to take care of him at all, so they rented a house outside to make it easier for him to take care of him. At the same time, my father-in-law also revealed that his son and daughter-in-law divorced once, and later remarried because of the child, so he had no feelings for him.
Regarding the divorce, Jiang Xiaoling explained that her husband was irritable and would attack herself if he had disagreements. She even pointed to a wall at home and said that all the blood on the wall was left by her husband when she beat her. She filed for divorce because she could not bear her husband's violence. Later, they chose to remarry and gave birth to a second child because of the expropriation.
I thought that my husband would be restrained after remarriage, but his nature was easy to change and his nature was difficult to change. Not only did the husband not return home for a long time, but he did not even give himself a salary. Over the years, she was a woman who had to rely on going out to set up stalls to support her family.
Speaking of future plans, Jiang Xiaoling said that if her husband had to ask for money, she could only choose to sell the house for half of each couple. As for the remaining 400,000 yuan on her hand, she would never be able to take out. Dong Xiang said that he owed his parents enough and he didn't want to continue to owe them, so he decided to sue for divorce, with half of his property and his wife.
Emotional Analysis:
Couples are two grasshoppers on a rope. If their hearts are not together, they will go their separate ways. The rope that looks very strong will break.
I once read this sentence: "People disperse because of carelessness; hearts are cold because of not being true."
The crowd is vast, and after experiencing too many scenes and seeing too many cold worlds, I understand that true love is precious. Only by treating people sincerely can you be treated gentlely; if you are false, you will only part with dissatisfaction. Extramarital love will harm the marriage the most, and the broken heart will never heal.
Although Jiang Xiaoling's approach is heartless, the reason why she makes such a choice is definitely not saved in one day. The longest relationship between people is to exchange hearts for hearts, but what her husband left to her is to betrayal, so she is so heartless.
Tu Lei once said: "Marriage is not based on easy talk, but based on long-term behavior and dedication. "
A true long-term marriage depends not only on love, but also on the belief of perseverance. It's a pity that Jiang Xiaoling has lost her belief in marriage.
Buddha said: A thousand times look back in the previous life, in exchange for a passing pass in this life.
Dong Xiang's past practices are indeed irresponsible, but after all, it is hoped that the couple can get together and part. For the sake of love, at least it should be cured first and then split up.
Today's topic discussion: Do you think Jiang Xiaoling's approach is correct?
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