During my growth, the word "best friend" has always been far away from me. Because I am a relatively independent woman, I take my own actions in everything and solve problems by myself. I think I have this ability and I also think this is a manifestation of my self-worth. In my original impression, my best friend is the kind of mother-in-law who talks about phone calls and gossip and makes all kinds of gossip. She is very bored.
I have changed several units. I was not afraid of challenges when I was young. I hope there are more possibilities to find a road of life that I like. However, things will never be that simple. New problems will arise on every road, giving you a headache.
When I went to work at the second unit, the administrative person in charge looked around the office, pointed to an empty table nearby and said, "You just sit here. The one next to me is Xiao W. If you have any problems, please ask her to solve it." Xiao W raised his head and smiled at me. She is a beauty.
Xiao W's voice is sweet and gentle. She is a staff member of the administrative department. Her male colleagues like to come to her station to ask about this and that. Sometimes they deliberately tease her with words. When they see her anxious look, they laughed. However, Xiao W has already gotten married and had children, and they dare not act rashly.
My conversation with Xiao W is basically limited to work, and I feel very comfortable talking to her.
Once, the unit went to another place to build a team. Everyone was having a good time drinking, and a male colleague actually drank down. I had prepared karaoke at night, but I didn't expect that Xiao W suddenly sprained her ankle and could not move. Several colleagues took the initiative to ask to send her to the room and accompany her. Unexpectedly, Xiao W asked me to send it to her and live in the same room with her. I was a little surprised at that time because I felt that we were not on the same channel. I thought there were a few people who had a better relationship with her than me.
That night, we talked a lot and naturally became best friends. After
, I asked her, "Why choose me?" She said, "You have a generous personality, you are not pretentious, you are real, and you are not afraid of authority." In fact, her sprained ankle was also caused by her bad mood at the time. I guess I might have told some interesting things to make her happy at that time.
Later, we all went to other units, but the contact was very close, but the relationship was reversed.
When I encounter any troubles, I will tell her all the time that she has never complained and listened very patiently every time. Over time, we get to know each other more and more. Sometimes I really just talk about it and then I get better by myself, but I throw the bad emotions at her, and she never talks about me being selfish.
I remember one time, my husband and I had a big argument. He said he was right, and I thought I was right. When the stalemate was in stalemate, I immediately called Xiao W and asked her to judge.
She first told us not to speak out, and then criticized my husband, saying that he was a man, and if you want to let me go, what's the big deal? Let's talk about it tomorrow. Then she criticized me for being too much, and even if it is reasonable, people should not be fooled by themselves. When she criticized me, I really didn't sound. Are you surprised? Perhaps, this is the power of best friends. When I was in a bad mood, she helped me relieve my worries; when I was in a low mood, she tried to relieve my feelings like a psychiatrist. My husband said, "Where did you get the blessing? I have such a good friend!"
When we had dinner, she invited me a lot, we went out for a long time, she went shopping in the store for a long time, and I even put on a bad face. She just smiled. She would still think of me if she had good things. Audrey Hepburn 1981 spoke about friendship at the Kennedy Center, which said: "What is friendship? Friendship is willing to give, making you laugh when you are sad, calming you when you are afraid, and encouraging you when you are depressed... In this era full of selfishness and greed, friendship brings joy to people, like a star, illuminating the way forward in the dark. No matter what the way ahead, it will help us all the way."
Good best friend deserves such friendship. (Jia Ling)
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