text/Hua Yaoguan
It is not easy to truly enter a woman's heart.
Because some experts have shown that women’s emotional cells are richer than men.
If you give her blindly, she may feel that you are buying her feelings. This kind of feelings obtained through giving are not so beautiful.
You should know that every woman yearns for a sweet love, but it is by no means touching.
So how can we touch the depths of a woman?
There is a saying that goes: "The routine has been popular since ancient times."
If you want to get a woman's heart, you have to use some small tricks, such as the tactic of hard-to-get among the thirty-six strategies, which is the "forbidden fruit effect".
The so-called "forbidden fruit effect" is also called the Pandora effect, which is the rebellious psychology of "can't help but not doing" and "the more forbidden it, the more you do it" in psychology.
people are curious, just like when Zeus gave Pandora the box, if he told Pandora what was inside, the other party would not open it, but if you forbid the other party to open it without telling the other party what is inside, then you will have doubts and curiosity in your heart, forcing him to violate the taboo.
is the same in love, just like the lyrics say: "What you can't get is always in agitation."
The more difficult things are to get, the more challenging they are, and the more they want to get.
So when treating women, don’t throw yourself away, and hide something.
You need to arouse the other person's curiosity, so that the other person wants to constantly explore you, and this is also a great way to keep the relationship fresh forever.
When the two were together, they must have wanted to know everything about each other.
Especially women, they will want to know your interests, your past, and even know your status at all times.
At the beginning of their relationship, they had not fully understood men, so they wanted to understand everything so that they could feel more secure and dominate in this relationship.
Although many men are very tired of this feeling of being restricted at all times, this is a manifestation of women's love too much.
Because they love each other too much, they are even more afraid of losing each other.
It’s like you suddenly break into a person’s world, you will be inexplicably frightened and want to explore this world so that you can use it for yourself.
It seems like you suddenly brought back a kitten. They can only live in peace after a long period of testing and adaptation.
At this time, smart men will choose to let the other party know sensibly.
The sense of trust and security in love are very important, but sometimes some women do not trust you, but because they have not fully grasped you, they constantly want to test the relationship between you.
Although the forbidden fruit effect can help a man grasp a woman's mind, it can make the other person always curious about himself.
But at the same time, you should also make the other party completely relieved. Since you are a couple, many things in life can be told to each other, such as your movements, etc.
So what can I not tell the other party and try to cheer up the other party’s appetite?
can be a hobby, it can be various abilities, just like you suddenly cook a table of dishes for her, which makes the other party look at her with admiration.
The process of your getting along is like an adventure, the other party can slowly explore your strengths and then love you more and more.
From the initial disapproval to the later mutual support, the feelings have accumulated bit by bit.
Two people in love must not be so in love at first.
Perhaps it is an opportunity, a vision, and a family background for the two. What really makes both sides go on is the fit between the two.
When two people who have experienced their own rich lives meet, there will definitely be countless topics.
As time goes by, you will encounter conflicts, experience ups and downs together, and feel the beauty of after the rain and sunny weather.
Your relationship will become deeper and deeper, so deep that it cannot be separated from each other, and this is the way true love arises.
There are always people who say that love will be dull in the end, but if you know how to use the forbidden effect and continue the topic between you, the shelf life of your relationship will also become longer.
On you, there will always be the "freshness" and "curiosity" she wants, then they will be unable to live without you and will want to dig you all the time. The more they dig, the more they will discover your excellent qualities and cherish you more and more.
likes a sentence that netizens say: "Diamonds are completely transparent, and gold is a pure element. These are stable and valuable substances. Therefore, nature has long told us that the purer love, the better. Only in this way can we truly touch a woman's heart!"
Love needs skills to maintain, but skills are just the icing on the cake for love.
A truly good relationship must be based on sincerity. You can use skills to win the favor of women, but you must not use this to deceive women's feelings.
They will have a sense of curiosity because you didn’t tell her everything, but some people like to be stubborn, tell each other nothing, and deceive each other, so sooner or later such feelings will be separated.
If men and women want to develop for a long time, they must be honest. Since you are really in love, you should do it and hide it.
Talk about what the other party wants to know, satisfy the other party’s sense of security; hide some of your own special abilities and give the other party a sense of expectation.
believes that most of such love can have a perfect ending.