Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01, introduction
Entering marriage, every woman hopes that the partner she chooses is the best. It's like walking into an orchard and always trying to pick the biggest apple out.
Only after a woman truly matures inside will she realize that there is no best partner in this world, only the most suitable person.
Women are also choosing the lifestyle they want when choosing a partner. Therefore, when women choose a partner, they will not blindly look at whether the man is good to her.
There are no perfect people in this world, let alone perfect lovers.
Wenger Juli wrote in "The Rules of Happy Marriage": "The happiest and loving couple in the world have at least 200 divorces and the idea of strangling each other 50 times in their lifetime."
Men want to get the love of women, don't always please them, and want to be the best person in her mind. attraction will make lovers better run-in and stay together better.
Let women love you wholeheartedly, and do the "three things" well.
02. Have clear plans and target
The career plan of a man determines the quality of life for the second half of his life and will also affect the development of marriage.
If men do not pay attention to their plans, they will often not have a future. Then, after he got married, he could not bear the burden of marriage.
Men, instead of pleaseing women, they might as well manage their own career with care. Firm your goals and manage your career carefully will make it easier to gain the favor of women.
He Yichen in " He Yisheng Xiaomo " lived at his adoptive parents' home when he was studying, and his conditions were not so good.
So, he studied hard and tried hard to make himself stronger and stronger. He constantly improves himself, gives himself the ability to make money and has a clear career plan.
Even if you are separated from Zhao Mosheng , you still devote all your energy to your career. He knew that only by improving himself can he have more choices, the opportunity to find a lover and give her happiness.
Later, he and Zhao Mosheng reunite and met his powerful rival Ying Hui . However, he is neither humble nor arrogant, and has the strength and confidence to compete with him.
It is precisely because of his excellence that Zhao Mosheng has never forgotten and always believes that they can continue their relationship with each other.
Man, if you want the person you love to stay by your side, it’s not just about loving her. Instead, we must know how to be motivated and know how to make ourselves have a higher quality of life.
The stronger the ability of a man, the easier it is to satisfy her small wishes and the more capable she is to protect her.
03. Take yourself seriously and love yourself
Men, no matter how much they love a woman, don’t lose yourself to please her.
It is difficult for men who have no requirements for themselves to have life and career, and it is difficult to get the sincere treatment of women.
Men, no matter how much they love a woman, they must know how to be self-disciplined, know how to love themselves, feel their feelings, and take themselves seriously.
Jin Yanxi in "The Golden Fen Family", is always with friends. He often spends money, eats and drinks, and even when life is not easy, he thinks of slapped and pretends to be fat.
All day long, dreaming of death, greedy for vanity. He never thought of finding something to do, but only hoped that he would be a rich young man with the protection of his father.
Not only that, he also felt that Leng Qingqiu would be a shame if he went out to work.
Jin Yanxi does not know how to cherish her feathers, does not seek to make progress, and lives a mess every day. In the end, he had to give up his dignity just to protect himself.
On the road of life, if a man does not value himself, then women will also look down on him.
In a relationship, if a man always loves but cannot get it and shows a decadent and sad look, all he gets may be the sympathy of a woman, not love.
No matter how much a man loves a woman, he must know how to take himself seriously and cherish himself with his heart.
Men take themselves seriously and do not please them humbly. If they don’t give too much, they will make women feel that they are shining.
04. Having the ability to love and thinking
Love requires management ability.
If a man can stay awake in the face of social temptations, he can live with the person he loves for a long time and be loyal.
As a man, he has the ability to love, has the ability to think, can reject temptations other than love, can keep his true heart, and can manage love with heart, it is often easier to gain the true heart of a woman.
"Intimate Relationship" writes: "Love in the right way, do not change the other person, and do not compromise ourselves, so that we can all love and be loved as we wish."
Love is not simply giving, nor is it sweet words. Love is to give a person long-term tranquility and stability, to accompany him forever, and to be tender and never give up at any time.
Men, only by making themselves mature enough, knowing what love a woman wants, and being able to give her what she wants can they truly capture the true heart of a woman.
The deeper the love, the deeper the plan will be.
Love is not a temporary effort, not a flower chocolate, not a romantic candlelight dinner, but a determination to live together, and the motivation to love her is endless.
Only when a man has the ability to love her and the intention to manage love can he truly touch a woman's heart.
05, Send a message to hiding autumn voices
Men should not be eliminated in their relationships, so they should do their duty, work hard to improve themselves, and give the person they love a better life.
Wang Xiaobo wrote in "Loving You is Like Love Life": "You are so cute, people love you so much. As soon as you come, I am determined to live seriously, not to live carelessly, even if it takes pains to do it, even if I sacrifice it."
A man, who truly loves someone, does not always rush to determine the relationship when he cannot get a response from a woman, or when she is hesitant, but should give her more sense of security.
Two people are together, and there will inevitably be ideological collisions. Even if a man loves someone, he cannot give up his life.
Men, only by doing their own good first and giving themselves a stable career and a mature mind will often attract women's sincerity more quickly.
As a man, knowing how to love, it is easier for women to fall in love with you.
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About the author: Hearing the autumn voice, using his words to make a living. The autumn wind boils rain, a glass of sake, a story of three or two, and you are with you on the lonely road.
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