The reader wrote to me and said:
To be honest, I am still a little confident about my figure and face, because when I was in school, there were quite a lot of female classmates who liked me.
Because my family is still good, when choosing a marriage partner, I hope to find someone with a better family background than me or as beautiful as a fairy. My wife is the one with a better family background and good looks.
When I was in love with my wife, I knew she liked a certain star, but at that time, this star was not as popular as it is now. Some time ago, the star instantly dominated the screen because of a TV series, and his wife was very happy every day.
A few days ago, my wife suddenly said to me: Husband, I really love a certain star too much, your face is somewhat similar to his. Otherwise, if you do a micro-organization, it will be more like him, and then every day I will feel like I am holding a certain star. Will I die of happiness?
I immediately rejected my wife's plea and said to her seriously: I am me, I don't want to be the shadow of anyone. Furthermore, if you don’t like the star one day and fall in love with another star again, do I need to make it look like another star?
Because of this, my wife was still in a state of trouble with me, but we finally "shake hands and make peace".
Want to ask: What kind of mentality do those who like to chase stars?
Muzili Emotional analysis:
Star chasing is actually divided into levels and has different purposes.
Some people think that a certain star's fame history is very inspiring, so they regard the other person as their idol, and encourage themselves in life, and must become a person who makes a difference in the future; some people think that a certain star is good-looking, obsessed with the other person's appearance, and willing to make themselves crazy. There are many such people chasing stars; some people think that a certain star's superb acting skills make them admire him very much, but they will simply focus on the other person's film and television works.
Regarding the type of people who are crazy about being crazy, they will "porn", "scream" and "accompaniment" to the stars, and they will not even allow others to say that the stars are bad at all.
In fact, your wife belongs to the category of crazy stars. In fact, your wife is still satisfied with your appearance, otherwise, she would not have married you if she was a fanatical girl. In addition: When you get married, you also care about your wife's family background and appearance.
Your wife just suggested that you go to "micro-compensation", and did not divorce you because you refused micro-compensation.
So, let's turn this out from now on.
Actually, I can't quite understand the madness of your wife.
Perhaps, as they grow older, they will become more rational in the process of chasing stars.
I hope this is true.
Regarding feelings, some people may think that the person who has a short life and who has to miss it for some reasons is his lifelong obsession; or they may think that the person who has a crush on him for many years but has never been obtained forever is his lifelong obsession. In fact, this kind of thinking in the emotional field is wrong and unhealthy. We must have this view of marriage and love: the people who are by our side are the most important people in our lives.
There is a saying: A lover has a Xi Shi in his eyes. Whether it is a man or a woman, you can appreciate the opposite sex outside of marriage (even if the other person is a star), but when facing the opposite sex you admire, don’t use the other person’s appearance to suppress your lover’s appearance, otherwise it will make your lover feel extremely uncomfortable. A smart person, a person with high emotional intelligence: he never belittles his lover's appearance.
(The picture is from the Internet, the picture is irrelevant)
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