Daniu Busy Marriage Emotional Cases Series Keywords: Divorce, Lover, Marriage Article Length: 4900 words Original article, Plagiarism will be prosecuted to save space. This article starts with the memories of a divorced man. This is an intriguing story, from a marriage case. The

Big Busy Marriage Emotional Cases Series

Keywords: Divorce, lover, marriage

Article length: 4900 words

Original article, plagiarism will be prosecuted

To save space, this article starts with the memories of a divorced man. This is an intriguing story, from a marriage case.

Only 9 months after divorce, my ex-wife got pregnant with that man.

That day she said to me: I have found happiness and I don’t plan to remarry you. We will meet less in the future. Take good care of the child and don’t let him miss his mother.

I was very surprised. Before I could ask who the man was, she gave the answer: It was him, he treated me sincerely in the past six months, and we were already together. I may be pregnant, please understand.

I don’t know why she said these words to me. Is it just to mock me? Or did she really decide to marry that man?

Yes, even if the child is pregnant, can you ask more questions? She blocked the way out, and it seemed that she had made up her mind and would not wait for me anymore...

I was in a very comfortable mood and could finally breathe a sigh of relief. Some things she said were different from me.

has a feeling of relief, thanking her for not being entangled. Since she took the initiative to speak, I can concentrate on loving another woman from now on, and no longer have to bear the infamy and guilt of abandoning my wife.

Although I was very excited, I still had to pretend to be sad. After all, we have been a couple for 9 years and have truly loved each other.

I said: I have been waiting for you to come home. I believe that one day you will forgive me. I didn’t expect you to get married. Why do you do this to me? Why can't you give me a chance to reform myself...

I asked her again and again and made her cry. She kept shook her head, covered her mouth and cried in silence, begging me not to ask anymore, it is impossible for us to do so.

Seeing her tears, I was so happy that I actually shed tears. For some reason, I felt that I owe her too much...

1. I once divorced for a woman

The above article comes from a marriage case. I have sorted it out briefly, and the emotional logic is very deep.

Regarding marriage issues, many people say anything and think about it at all. This is probably what people often say, "People's hearts are deeper than the sea." Some people look simple but in fact they are very cunning.

In the hearts of many experienced people, divorce is a sad thing.

No matter what kind of difficulties a couple has encountered or how many tears they have shed, they have been intimately accompanied by them. After a relationship, I have been with me for a long time. Even though thousands of words later turned into lies, at least the initial love between the couple was real.

When getting married, I long for a lifetime and have been together forever. Later, some couples gave up their persistence and ended in divorce for various reasons.

Someone was in tears and reluctant to leave. No one looked back and ignored his retention. From then on, the love between the two men became a past event, and the sky was high and the sea was vast and it was hard to say the past. There may be a more exciting life in the future, but looking back on the past, people will inevitably feel sad.

Can those who shout "I'm not sad" really not sad? Saying that you are not sad is often because you have too much hatred in your heart, or you already have a new love, or you are not sad yet...

This man is a person with a new love. For another woman, he tried every means to abandon his wife. He was not sad at all after the divorce, but he kept pretending to be sad.

He once said: Pretending to be sad is to make up for the debt to his ex-wife, soothe her emotions, and offset the resentment in her heart...

As he said, in the world of love, many people are talking about right and wrong, and are insincere for different purposes.

This man had long wanted to marry another woman, but because he felt guilty, he still pretended to want to remarry his ex-wife.

His ex-wife also wanted to remarry him, but she refused to remarry for anger. She thought this would punish him and take revenge.

In the unpredictable grudges and entanglements, she walked step by step on the path she didn't want to take, and he finally realized the feeling of regret.

From a psychological point of view, the most difficult thing for people to understand is emotional accidents. When you play cards, the other party plays cards too. Events occur occasionally and are stacked and intertwined, making joy, anger, sorrow and happiness more and more difficult to predict.

This is a emotional phenomenon worth pondering, creating a lot of sadness in many marriages and families.

2. If there is separation from love and hate, it will always make people sad

Next, I will tell you this intriguing marriage case. Just telling it in his tone, I will only narrate it truthfully, and briefly organize it to improve readability, so readers can understand it themselves.

For my girlfriend (lover), I tried every means to divorce my wife. In the blink of an eye, the divorce was 2 and a half years, and many things seemed to have happened yesterday.

Now my wife (ex-wife) has a new family and has given birth to a boy for her current husband. Regardless of whether her marriage is really happy or not, since she has embarked on this path, she will not consider me again for the rest of her life.

separated for more than two years. Not only did I not forget her, but I began to miss the time I accompanied her. She should have belonged to me forever, but I gave it to someone else.

I met her half a year ago and saw her and her current husband traveling to the Botanical Garden from a distance. They were walking hand in hand by the lake, chatting while walking, talking and laughing. I feel bad, but I can't tell whether this feeling is still love or not.

even if this is love, it has long become a regrettable love. I still love her, but she has long lost me in her heart.

As she said at the beginning, it is really impossible for us...

3 months ago another sadder thing happened, which almost made me emotionally collapse. That night, my girlfriend (lovers) proposed to break up and cried and begged me to understand her choice.

I was particularly sad, and the least hoped thing finally happened.

Actually, I knew in my heart that my girlfriend had resumed contact with her ex-husband. They have been dating for the past six months, and have met quietly many times without hiding it, conspiring to remarry.

I knew it well but didn't expose her. After all, I had divorced for her and gambled on the family. I don't want to quarrel with her, and I don't want to give up halfway.

I have been with her for nearly 3 years and have always loved her deeply. I believe that even if she can't forget her ex-husband, she will choose me rationally in the end.

But she cried very sad that day, and while saying sorry, she begged me to let go.

I asked her: We once agreed to be a husband and wife, and this is the promise you promised me in person. You drag on and I wait and wait, and I have never complained. Now you suddenly want to leave. Is it because I have been bad to you in the past few years?

She said in tears: You are very good to me, thank you for your care. I really loved you and wanted to marry you, but I couldn't worry about my ex-husband and children over there. They were all waiting for me to come home, and I beg you to understand my choice...

She actually used the word "you", and I felt mixed feelings.

I asked her, do you want to remarry your ex-husband? She nodded and remained silent, not daring to look into my eyes again.

At that moment, I loved and hated her. No matter whether she loves or hates her, parting always makes people sad. It was not easy to love, and I hope she stayed with me.

3. Walking by the river often, there is no way to wear shoes

In the past few years, my girlfriend (lovers) has lived in my house almost forever. We are like husband and wife, looking forward to life together and planning for the future together. But in recent days, she often doesn't come back at night, and always says she doesn't want to put any burden on me anymore...

Since she started talking that day, she has started trying to stay away from me. Even if she went to her ex-husband's house to spend the night, she would no longer hide it from me and told me openly.

Currently we have intimate company occasionally, but she is no longer as proactive as before. When she is excited, she will say "I love you" and even cry and shout at my husband. But after calming down, she no longer acted coquettishly to me and was always silent.

I feel that the day of the breakup is not far away, and I will try to keep her. If she really wants to leave, I won’t force anyone to do anything.

As for where our future will go, it depends on how fate arranges it. Over the past three years, the hope of marrying her is becoming increasingly slim, and in the end, I admit that no matter whether you win or lose.

I blame you for everything and I can't blame anyone.

If I had been more at ease back then and were less random, I would never have come to this point now...

My wife and I had a harmonious relationship back then. I have never been so popular because of emotional problems for more than 7 years of marriage. She is hardworking and simple, and thinks about her family everywhere. I have achieved some success in my work and I pampered her and loved her.

We love each other and should have been old until we grow old. But because I was uneasy, I met a woman with an unhappy marriage, had some relationship with her, had feelings for her, and ignored her wife.

Maybe men are all passionate seeds, and they will sprout after giving them some water. At least I am such a person.

Even though my family was happy and my marriage was happy, I still had all kinds of absurd thoughts in my heart. I am imaginative about relationships between men and women, fantasize about different women, and look forward to wonderful encounters.

Since I got married to my wife, I have quietly made appointments with several married women. That is something you and I want to do, not involve family, not talk about love intimacy, and not disturb each other afterwards...

Although I was sorry for my wife, my wife trusted me very much at that time and never noticed that I had dated someone else. I lost my concentration in my complacent self-confidence. When I saw a beautiful woman, I wanted to catch her, but I never thought about talking about relationships.

often stand by the river and don’t have any shoes wet. Later, I finally endured the bitter fruit and hurt two families...

4. She is a principled woman

5 years ago, for a while, I became obsessed with riding a bicycle, entered a convoy, and met many riders, including men and women. We like to ride together on weekends, sometimes shopping and spending the night in other places, and only come back the next day.

Whenever you spend the night outside, there will always be a few riders looking at each other and looking for opportunities to spend the second half of the night together. Just talk about feelings and not feelings, and don’t disturb them at dawn.

When marriage becomes dull, who doesn’t want to find a lover? Everyone knows it well, but they don't say it clearly. Finding a suitable person is simple. You have the chance when you go out, it depends on whether you are thick-skinned or not.

In that circle, I met a woman and gradually developed into chat friends with her.

She is not very beautiful, but she is very elegant. My purpose is very simple. I will find an opportunity to make an appointment with her alone and will not bother her later.

chatted for several months, and I found it difficult to chase her. She is different from other women in the fleet, and she will come out if someone gives her some gifts. She never accepts gifts and never meets alone.

Once I said it very directly. The purpose of our team exists is to create conditions for dating.Since you don't want to, why join?

Hiss told me not to think randomly, otherwise I would not even be able to do it for my friends.

At first I felt that she was very good at pretending and had never seen such a serious person. But as the chat deepened, I found that it was not easy for her.

Her husband runs for logistics and sometimes does not go home once every ten days or half a month. Faced with so many temptations, she was able to keep her body as beautiful as a jade, and I looked at her with admiration.

people always have weaknesses. When they talk about some topics too much, the principles in their hearts will be relaxed. Even she can't be persistent forever, after all, she is curious.

After opening her heart, she told me about the doubts and distress in her heart.

One day she said: If we had known that our team had so many fickle men, I would never have joined. I really can't figure out what's wrong with this world? What exactly do they want to be worthy of their wives and children?

I said: Actually, you still see less, and seeing more is not a big deal. There are not so many "yes or no" relationships between men and women, and fickle men may not necessarily not love their wives.

She said I brag, and I said believe it or not. She said it was difficult to understand, and I said you would understand it after all, and I would treat you to dinner another day, and you would understand. She said, don't be serious. I said, I have always been like this. I dare to say what I think, you dare not say...

5. I was moved without realizing it and I had a real relationship

chatted with her for more than half a year, and I slowly figured out her sentimental personality. You can feel her curiosity and desire for relationships between men and women, and you can also feel her inner entanglement.

One night she sent a message: There is a question, my husband is out sports car. If a woman looks for him, will he refuse and will he forget me?

I don’t know how to answer, after all, what I want is simple company and I don’t want to involve marriage and family affairs.

I simply answered him: If I were him and were running out every day, I would not be determined. This is just my opinion, you can refer to it but don't take it seriously.

Since that day, she has often complained to me. For example, if your husband doesn't answer the phone, if you are neglected by your husband, sometimes your husband will find her annoying...

A few days later, she finally expressed her distress: Actually, my husband had cheated on him before, and I forgave him for the sake of his child. He has been away for many years in recent years. I am afraid that he will repeat the same mistakes and be replaced by other women... How to say

? This is a natural result. She finally gave up on sticking and asked me to come out to meet. After chatting for 7 months, I finally got her.

That night she cried on my shoulder and said: Acquaintance is a fate. You are the first man who understands me, and you know me better than your husband.

I originally wanted to treat this relationship as a game, but she couldn't bear to break up and sometimes she would say she loves me.

blame me for not grasping the standard well. Not only did I meet her frequently, but I also forgot the principle of not being able to move emotions. Later I made her divorce. During those days, I felt like I lost my soul. In the guilt, I gradually developed true love for her.

If we don’t give our feelings, we will all be fine. No matter how many times you meet, you will not be discovered. But after falling in love, she got pregnant and almost died of miscarriage, and her nature changed.

That relationship defeated two original families. Her husband divorced her, and my wife also vowed not to forgive me, which made me upset.

quarrel for half a year, and my love for her is getting deeper and deeper. That is not only a deep affection that cannot be controlled, but also our expectations and commitment to the future.

Although this relationship is not bright, we truly love each other. I was desperate to get a divorce, but I couldn't say it directly, for fear that my wife would be sad.

I pray that my wife will be cruel and punish me with divorce. Don’t forgive me...

Six. Finally, I lost my wife and soldier

no matter how much I will not say. In the grudges and entanglements, love is simply unspeakable and cannot be expressed in words.

My wife regretted it not long after she got angry. She often came to my house to tutor the children and cook for me. Sometimes it stimulates me to say that someone is pursuing her.

She deliberately made me jealous. I knew she wanted to remarry, but I really didn't love her anymore. I hope she will look for happiness. When she finds happiness, I can marry her (lover) as my wife with peace of mind...

Once thought that after my wife (ex-wife)) remarried, no one could stop my love. But before I knew it, divorce is the hardest sadness I can tell...

This marriage case ends here, from the story of a man a few months ago. Now his lover has remarried with his ex-husband and did not tell him until he got the marriage certificate for more than two months.

Some time ago, he said: My girlfriend had already quietly obtained a marriage certificate and remarried, and she did not give me any chance to recover. I completely failed, forget it, I hope both her and her ex-wife can be happy.

At present, his ex-wife is in a very miserable state. She has breast cancer , but her current husband ignores it. Even so, she is still pretending to be happy in marriage...

Regarding this case, I will not express my unnecessary views, just tell the truth. What readers can experience on their own is the best point of view.

The relationship he told was very profound and worthy of deep thought by many couples.

4. It’s a waste of rice when stealing chickens. It’s a loss of wife and soldiers. Many people come here like this.

There is a saying in love: If you have to be careful when you even divorce, then you'd better not regret it in the future.

In fact, regret is the most common emotion after divorce. I can’t see the path after the divorce before divorce, and only when I regret it will realize that there is no way out. Although love is precious, not all "love" is love.

In my previous article, there was a sentence like this: Throughout my life, many women pursue a stable marriage and family...

This sentence is quite appropriate here. Marriage is a lifelong companionship and perseverance. Every "love" that is guilty has a price, and it will be repaid sooner or later.

In the adult world, love and hate have cause and effect, don’t fantasize about so much free love. Love is one's wholeheartedness and not so much freedom.